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Archived questions from: July, 2012 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

I know the truth, still he tries to blame our son!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - My husband of many years has been on the internet chat with numerous girls, but one in particular for years.....I just found out this information of late. My problem is he will not admit to it....he blames it on our son...and calls me sick in the ...

Is he not interested in me or am I thinking way too much about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. I have a question about online dating. This is my first time trying it. I met a guy on a dating site and we messaged back and forth for about a month before meeting in person for coffee. The coffee meetup was nothing special but nothing ...

I am scared because my online friend says he is coming to take me back to the States!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - Dear Aunts, What am I supposed to do when my boyfriend of 3 years whom I met online decided to come meet me, when everyone in my family thinks that I shouldn't be with him. He is someone that I met on facebook. Although we don't meet on a regula...

He was mean to me. Sent me dirt nasty text. So I did something he called spiteful. Was I wrong to do that?

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Two months ago I met this guy at the birthday party. He seems nice and we exchaged phone numbers! We met three times, and afterward I tried to avoid him (i thought he was difficult and feel like all he wants is just have sex!) And here's a deal...

Is my Gf a compulsive liar? Can I or should I trust her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 July 2012 (M) - Hi everyone. I've been together with a girl for around 2 months now who I met online. A few months before we got together, she told me that she lived in Japan and was studying at a college to draw Japanese comics. She also told me that she grew up ...

Why does she do this to me? Even though she concurrently flirts with other guys?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4330 days ago

25 July 2012 (M) - Well recently i started talking to this girl online, the online messaging was okay. We just chatted about normal things and she didnt seem to flirt too much, so i was not expecting much for our first meeting. So when we finally meet it was grea...

Did I do the right thing? He cheated, and he asked me to tell him when I do forgive him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - I found out today that my boyfriend of two years has been skyping another girl, calling her 'sexy', 'love', 'cutie', all things that he calls me, telling her she's 20 times hotter than me, that he'll think of her when he's in bed with me, etc. ...

How can you tell if love has faded?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4533 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - Ive been in a long distance reltionship for two years now. My queshtion is, how do you know when youve lost feelings for someone? We love eachother very much, but past couple months i dont know how i feel about this relationship. We don't get t...

Does he want to know me better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4536 days ago

22 July 2012 (F) - I would love some advice from you guys because I don't know how to read this situation I met a guy online and after messaging back and forth for a month we decided to meet. We ended up having coffee and talking. I wouldn't say the meetup was a...

I'm getting scared of my online BF. How do I tell him that fact?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

19 July 2012 (F) - I broke up with my bf C and now dating him...lets call him King. We both met on an online free publishing site. Anyways, I was on another chat site, a chat with strangers (i was bored), and I keep getting men and women on there wanting to bed me, ...

The Ideal relationship at first. Now she ignores my texts.What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

18 July 2012 (F) - I've been talking and getting to know this girl for a few weeks now and we've just recently told each other that we like each other....everything was great for the first week and now she is ignoring my texts(we used to talk everyday 24/7) or if she ...

If this online guy has lied about simple stuff like this, I don't know what more he could lie about!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

17 July 2012 (F) - I'm a 18 year old girl. Im pretty mature, not kiddish at all. I met a guy on a penpal site around 3 years ago and he introduced himself as just John (name obviously changed). He told me he was 24 then (should be 27 now) We eventually lost touch ...

Should I confess to my online friend that I love him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

15 July 2012 (F) - Hi everyone! i wrote in before this but i just want to share everything that has been happening in details. So about 2.5yrs back i got into online chats and all, in 2009. I did have some frends back then while i was doing my diploma but well friends ...

Should I clear the air by telling him I love him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

15 July 2012 (F) - Hi ladies! So i know of this guy through a chat site and we've been talkin for almost 2years now. We've gotten close recently and say i love you to each other all the time over the phone. It used to be pure flirting but recently its more than that. ...

I am confused by my male friend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 July 2012 (F) - Hello everyone, I am so grateful for this wonderful site and would really value your advice on a new contact I have made. I will outline my question and then maybe you well meaning folk out there can tell me if I need to be worried or not. I'm a ...

Should I date this man? I'm afraid he'll compare me to his ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

10 July 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, thank you in advance for anyone taking the time to read my problem and giving me advice. I went on internet dating, I asked for men 40-50 but the sites sent email from me to everyone. A guy of 56 contacted me. I talked to him, ...

I met this girl online, we were chatting every night and out of the blue she stopped showing up on skype and even stood me up when I went to visit her!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

10 July 2012 (M) - About 6 months ago I met a girl online, She lives in Spain and I in Norway. We really hit it off, we have been seeing eachother for about 2-4 hours on skype every night, and eventually we start text other during the whole days also. She also decided ...

Is he Sweet or Creepy? One date and he objects to the online dating profile still online?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

10 July 2012 (F) - I had one great date with a guy I met on an online dating site. He texts me everyday / a few times a day and asked me for a second date. We've been in contact now about a week and a half. However - one thing is troubling me! He saw me "online" ...

Just started dating a guy and was intimate with him? Could this damper the development of a possible relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

9 July 2012 (?) - I'm pretty sure that I already know what a bunch of you are about to say...but I have a quick question regarding bringing intimacy early on into a developing/dating/relationship. Do you guys think that it will make or break the current situation ...

I posted an ad for no strings attached sex but now I've changed my mind

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

8 July 2012 (F) - I went on craigslist for a NSA encounter...but now I want to back out of it. The guy has my email address (my real one) so I worried he may find me... is this silly? I do have a FB account obviouly under my own name. He wants to meet up this wee...

I lied about my real age online.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

8 July 2012 (F) - I met a man online a year ago and we became friends ,he's 40 and im 58 but i never told him that.I never thought we would continue to talk so what did it matter.Well the unthinkable happened ,we fell in love ... he is single and so am i .He is the ...

I found his latest sext offensive!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

8 July 2012 (F) - Hi, me and my LDR boyfriend have recently started sexting which I started (weve been together 7 months and started having sex after 4). I recently received a text saying how(this has been edited) he "can't wait to p***d a vi****** into you and hear ...

Did I offend my skyping friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

8 July 2012 (M) - I have been getting a great girl online. We skyped for the first time on Friday. There was an akward moment when I offered to play some music for her, and it made her uncomfortable. I said it was ok, but then I think she felt she'd upset me so s...

Meeting my online boyfriend for the first time, he might be expecting to meet a THIN girl!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

8 July 2012 (F) - So me and this boy have been talking online for about two years now. And don't worry he is a mutual friend of MANY of my friends and a lot of my friends think he's a nice guy. He has a lot going for him, and any girl would be lucky to have him. He ...

I feel like he is teasing me to see how much I can take.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

7 July 2012 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy of about 6 months. Recently, we had some issues with trust and ever since that happened, I feel like he is testing me to see how much I can take and if I will get jealous. He told me tonight I can't ...

At summer school together. Do you think she really likes me more then friends, even while she is dating her bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (M) - Hey there everyone! I hope your enjoying your summer right now, while I'm at summer school. -.- O well. I need help on something. There's this girl I like right now at the moment since last November. We meet at a social networking site where you g...

He made tentative plans, said he'd call but hasn't. Should I wait or make other plans?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F) - I met a guy from online..we spoke and texted for a week prior and got along great. We met in person and seemed to have a good time as well. We were in alot of contact or some form of contact each day since we started talking either through text or a ...

Mixed signals from a man aged 60

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

3 July 2012 (F) - I have been divorced since 2007 and I joined a friendship/dating site to meet a couple of male platonic friends. Anyway, I found one man was widowed around 9 months ago and was looking for "a serious relationship" so I sent my condolances and we ...

I've fallen in love with my friend! Now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4555 days ago

3 July 2012 (F) - Hey, so yes i've done the thing i have heard about soo many times, fallen in love with a friend. i am head over heals just think about him 24.7. would like to ask what i should do? we are both sikh, different caste (problem) he is 28 I am 22 this ...

We met online. We are meeting soon. Should I ask her to be my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (M) - So there is this girl that i meet online and we are going to meet in a couple of days, we live far away from each other, so it will be a long time before i can see her again. So i was wondering if it was okay to ask her to be my girlfriend, as i kn...

He wants to be serious and then disappears!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (F) - OK - met a guy on a dating site, and we met and things were great. Met again and he was REALLY positive about me - called me beautiful, attractive, great to be with (should have seen him for what he is then .....?) etc. and we planned to meet again ...

In my LDR we Text and I phone. But he has Never phoned me. Can we make this work? He's in the Military

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (F) - Hi, Do you think that in 6 months my boyfriend has never actually rung me up? We text daily and I've called him a few times but even if he misses my calls he will text back? I've asked him and he said his just always texted and doesn't really...

Did she lie, or has she cancelled previous plans?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

1 July 2012 (M) - So recently i have been dating this girl online and we have been talking for about 3 months know and we plan to meet in a couple of weeks but i soon recently asked her what she will be doing fourth of july and she said nothing probably working, but ...