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Archived questions from: November, 2013 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Husband's uncle is causing problems in our marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - My husbands uncle is very jealous of our relationship in fact some people have told me that he never stops talking about us like hes obsessed. He tells my husband to do things behind my back and he can get him another woman etc.. he never likes us ...

Wife admitted she used to be a prostitute! Should I cut my losses and leave?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

30 November 2013 (M) - My wife and I have been married now for 23 years. When we began dating I realized she was probably more worldly than I was used to going out with. However , I was starting to fall for her, and at 27 I wasn't meeting anyone that came close to her . ...

Diagnosed with bipolar disorder. How do I break the news to my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - I've known I had some form of depression since high school, but it wasn't that bad, so I didn't seek treatment. I discussed it with my husband before we got married, although he comes from a background where mental illnesses are sort of brushed ...

He believes what people told him about me and wants a divorce

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - So my husband was in Afghanistan for 9 months. He just recently got back. Some ppl I know told him I had been cheating on him, which I didn't. He is so cold now, and just wants a divorce. We don't talk, he has changed so much. Should I just get a ...

Our marriage seems to work OK on the phone but not in person

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - I need an advise about my marriage sittuation. Since 3 years ago my mother got very sick and I had to visit her every year for a long period of time.My husband is from a wealthy family and he kind of told me to stop everything and stay with my mom.I ...

Is this marriage over?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

27 November 2013 (M) - I have been married second time round for 2 years, my wife is Jamaican and we met online, we met for the first time in Jamaica on holiday and it was great and had sex 11 times in the first week. She then came over 7 months later after sexy texts, ...

Is she telling me have a hope of saving our marriage or is she just not going to bother whatever I try?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

24 November 2013 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 9 years (6 years married) with my wife. We have five children in which the eldest was from another relationship before ours. We used to live in a three bedroom house which got too small for us to live in, so managed ...

Now that we're married I find he has habits I can't tolerate

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been feeling so unsettled since I married two years ago. Didn't live together b4 and now some things annoy me terribly. He drinks every day. I didn't realise how anxious I'd be about this. He's the kind of guy who can't have a ...

My husband won't live by the same standards he sets for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - My husband is a jealous person and I havent seen my cousin in 2 years as she drinks, has guys at her flat and is on facebook. These are not the kind of things that interest me but I did pop in and see her before I met my husband as she was always t...

Trying to save my marriage. Husband calls me names for having had sexual partners before we met. Help!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 7 years and we have been together for 14. We have 4 children together. Recently, he has told me that he wants to leave me because I had sex with multiple people (a total of 6, including 2 one night stands) ...

Is my husband happy that I asked for the divorce?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - After 11 years of marriage I found out that my husband was completely diferent of the one I though he was.He always had female friends which he always helped,send some gifts...but since a while he was connecting a lot with them and I was feeling ...

My husband won't have sex with me!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

20 November 2013 (F) - My husband won't have sex with me. Been together 8 years, married for almost 1, he's 9 years older than me (I'm in my 20s, he's in his 30s). Our lives and relationship is pretty good EXCEPT this damn problem. About a year before the marriage our...

Came home unexpectedly and found husband in strange situation. Is he gay?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

19 November 2013 (?) - Dear everyone, Hi I have been married to my husband since May 11th 2013. We havebeen together for almost 8 years. He has never shown any signs of being bi sexual or gay. Well the other morning he didn't expect me home for awhile but my daughter...

How do I move on after a divorce which husband cheated and got married so quickly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) - I had been married 17 years when my (now ex) husband notified me of his intention to file for divorce through a solicitors email while I was overseas for a week. We had been having a bad time and I had tolerated emotional and some physical abuse ...

Why is wife hiding her past from me, and has lied about it

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

18 November 2013 (M) - why is my wife hiding her past from me? she tells me its my problem, and not hers. she has lied to me over the years about it. we have been married for several years now 31 , while dating she said she was in love with her first, but a ye...

Married 41 years. Any tips to spice up our sex lives please?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

17 November 2013 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 41 years, i'm 65 and she's 64. We used to have a great sex life but we haven't had sex for a couple of years now and it can get frustrating. Has anyone got any tips to spice up our sex lives? Thanks...

Should I dump my wife? She keeps calling me by her ex's names!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

17 November 2013 (M) - my wife intentionally called me by her ex-husbands name and her ex-fiances name(i caught her texting him later after we were married, she claimed she thought it was his mom)I am having a hard time getting over this. should I dump her?...

Why is divorce a problem for a liar cheater wife?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

14 November 2013 (M) - My wife started cheating on me around the year 2000. I confronted her and she was extremely sorry, so she made me believe. A few years later she was cheating again and after all the wasted effort I put into salvaging our marriage I knew it was over. ...

Husband seems to hate my family and culture

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

14 November 2013 (F) - Hi all. I'm in a interracial marriage for 5 years. My husband is Chinese. Ever since our 2 sons were born, I felt that my husband hates my family even more. I can feel his negative energy when I talked to my family specially my mom. He will mock my ...

Married 4 years and she's unreliable. Over-spends. She lies to me. what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

14 November 2013 (M) - So my wife and I have been married for four years and during that time we have had out ups and downs. We both work fultime and make close to the same amount. But my wife is very lazy around the house. Despite the fact I work longer hours I a...

My marriage is old, and I need advice!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

13 November 2013 (F) - I'm 53, hubby is 66! We have not spoke to each other for several days! Even though we live in the same house and sleep in the same bed!We have grown children and grandchildren. He has no care for his family but would do anything in his power for a ...

Hypocrites who justify cheating.....what's going through their minds?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

12 November 2013 (M) - Help me out here. How can a woman accuse her husband of cheating and then justify her own affair as a form of retaliation, or as a means to quench her insatiable thirst for attention? She gets all bent out of shape when she suspects that her husband ...

Caught him looking at porn after he said he would never do it again!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

11 November 2013 (F) - Caught my husband months ago lurking into porn videos. Said would never do again. Swore promised. Said was stupidness curiosity and wrong but did it. Doesn't mean anything just says computer wass there one click lead into many videos. I believed ...

How do you tell a man with a temper that things need to change or else it's best we divorce?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

9 November 2013 (F) - I love my husband, but I don't like him. We've had a rocky relationship of 5 years, married for 2.The first 2 years we fought all the time, and his temper was out of control but in the next year, we worked hard to work out the issues in our ...

I can't get over my husband cheating with this awful woman!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

8 November 2013 (F) - I had marital problems last year, long story short my husband was cheating on me with an actual whore and when I mean who're I mean this nasty person cheated on her x-husband for the 17 years of Thier marriage she found my husband and found him to ...

We're not on the same page about parenting

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

7 November 2013 (M) - My wife tends to fly off the handle when we disagree. I need some advice about how to handle this. Thanks in advance. This morning, our daughter was being very whiny. She's 2 1/2. We've been teaching her to use her words and not whine. After a ...

Can't deal with my husband's anger and negativity, but leaving him means leaving the U.S.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

7 November 2013 (F) - I am marriaged to an American for more then 12 years now. I went to USA to work and study with a scholarship in Arts. We met through a friend from my Master´s Degree University. He is an Artist too,but from another University,but doesnt have a Mast...

My friend and my husband are flrting and texting. Please help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

6 November 2013 (F) - My friend and my husband have been flirting with each other for some time. Texting each other a lot. Her son is also a friend of my son so the situation is very delicate. I noticed my husband watching her if we were in company and following her ...

My husband expects me to work full time and perform all of the household chores

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2956 days ago

5 November 2013 (F) - My husband gets angry at me for stupid things. He wants me to be the traditional 50's wife, to cook, to clean, to do laundry and all that. I'm okay with most of that to a point; I would be more than willing to do it every day if I didn't work. My ...

Husband had an affair and then tells me "I chose you". What does that mean?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

5 November 2013 (F) - Hello, To the ladies out there, if a man had an "affair" and you only finds out about a couple of years later, and he says to you, "I chose you, didn't I?" How would you perceive that? To the men, what exactly do you mean by uttering those w...

His ex wife now wants my husband to have supervised visits because his daughter seen us have an argument!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

5 November 2013 (F) - My husbands ex wife want hem to start having supervice visitation with their 14year old daughter. All because her daughter told her that we had a argument in front of her and that she no longer wants to come over because of that.witch I could ...

Married but in love with another

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

3 November 2013 (M) - I got married 3 yrs ago, but fell in love with someone else. I don't want to hurt my wife, but can't help thinking about the other women. I know the other women also loves me, and will wait an eternity for me. My wife is 20 yrs younger than me, but ...

He cannot take any criticism but dishes it out very well.. How do I make him see this without fighting about it? I am tired!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 November 2013 (F) - I have been with my husband for seven years I work(taxes) four months outside the home and the rest of the year I am a stay at home mom. I like this schedule because my kids are young teens and I am here for them when they are home and I al...