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Archived questions from: December, 2013 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I love him but I can't do this for much longer!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - I've been married to my husband for almost two years now. Our marriage started out great. We both worked, so all our time off was spent with each other. After I found out I was pregnant, I quit my job and we moved someplace more affordable. He got a ...

Cheater Cheater!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - My husband bought another woman clothing and jewelry for Christmas I found the receipt in his truck, I know he will deny it, should I ask him about it or leave it alone? ...

Is this marriage worth saving?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - I was dating this man and I should say I really had a bad time with him. He used to call me names, too busy for me, wanted me to plead for sex with him, would never say he wants to see me, and NEVA visited me if I DID NOT PICK HIM UP AND DRIVE HIM ...

I think my marriage is ending and I don't know how to stop it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - I suppose I'm really asking for people opinions here..... I have been married to my husband for 13 years and married for 3 of them. There is a 13 year age gap between us, I am 30 he is 43. Our sex life has always been ok, but over the past year it...

Is my husband gay or just trying things out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4007 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been married 20 years. We got married young. He has never seemed to have as high sex drive as me and initially I just accepted it as that. Over the years I discovered that he had interactions with others....not sure how far it ...

My husband's sexual fetish frightens me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Recently me and my husband had a romantic night in together, the night went well, it was on the day after Boxing Day. We had a lovely dinner and a romantic day in; the dinner was candlelit and my husband cooked it, not me! We were discussing each ...

I want a baby but can't get my husband on board!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Hi I've been married to a wonderful man for 2 years (hes 25)but I can't get him on board to have a baby. I have always wanted to have my first before 30 and im 29 in a month. When I ask he says he wants children but that hes not ready yet. When I ...

I'm still passionate for my wife, but she seems to have lost interest

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

27 December 2013 (M) - This may be an unusual request for advice. My wife and I have been together for the better part of 19 years. I am 62 she is 43. We were first married in 1995 and divorced in 2002. We were reunited in 2008 and remarried in 2010. We have both been ...

After his cruel and bewildering attack it is as if I never existed

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - I was married for 19 years, no children, knew my ex for 22 years. He filed for divorce and i was not aware of anyone else on the scene. I got to hear about divorce not from him but solicitors email to me... I returned home to a half empty house. He ...

Overbearing in-laws since day one! Do I walk away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

25 December 2013 (M) - I have married for almost seven years, I am not a young person and this is my second marriage. But I have been having with over bearing inlaws since day one. At first it was just little comments from my father In law about things I might do around ...

I can't get over my wife's sordid sexual past

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

25 December 2013 (M) - I am dealing with some issues with my wife's sexual past, I dont know how many she was with but I know it was between 15 and 25. She lied about being with my friend when I asked her about a month after we started dating. She later told me they were ...

My husband has told me he is gay!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - Last night my husband admitted to me he was gay. He said he didn't want to have these feelings and won't follow up on them, he wants to stay married to me and have sex with me. He said he does like women, but only certain select women, has never had ...

His ex wife wants him back!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - Well hello I really need some help... I been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and he has two kids with his ex wife... Things have been great with us and he has been there for me through everything... I love his children too... The day w...

Its make or break time for our relationship.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - i need help desperatley!! my 2 yr relationship is on rocks.....2 kids involved 1 is his. constantli arguing, he starts them, i get blamed. his attitude has changed, so has mine because of all the crap im getting. the kids get it to. my 5yr old is b...

I can't help feeling something happened, but she says it didn't!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

20 December 2013 (M) - I have been married for a little over 6 years. We have had our share of problems but nothing major then about 2 years ago we just stopped having sex . My wife claimed that she just wasn't in the mood, this went on for about a year and a half. I was ...

I cheated on him, once. Yet I can't picture my life without him. What do I do about my guilt?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

18 December 2013 (F) - I'm about to get married to my bf of 5 years I do love him very much and I am very happy that we are going to get married, but I am having second doubts about getting married, because I am guilty of cheating on him once in the past, while we were ...

Does my wife want me back just because she knows I was seeing someone else?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

17 December 2013 (F) - I have been with my wife tens years and married five . She recently left me for about the third time 6 months ago. We have an 8 year old daughter who is not biologically mine but i have raised her and love her as mine. Each time we break up wife ...

My wife had affairs and I forgave her but now I want a divorce. Should I do so?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

17 December 2013 (M) - The nightmare started when I came to know about her affairs. My wife was not even sure whether the child belongs to me or not. The DNA result claims that its mine. I was deeply in love with my wife, that I wrote her name on my body thru tattoo...

Marriage being damaged by wife's male friend who has now stayed for more than 2 months

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

17 December 2013 (M) - I have been married for 2 years, I am 41 and my wife is 30. We have always been amazing together, and I thought we were happy. We recently started trying for kids, which was her idea, as I was never going to push her until she was ready. She has ...

I feel awful, mostly to put her through this but I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

16 December 2013 (M) - I am 28 years old and am recently married. Believe it or not, I was a virgin until I got married. I live in India where some families are conservative and my parents always told me that physical intimacy is ok with only a life partner. They didn...

He's accusing me of adultery, with him, because I'm not yet divorced. We have so many issues. Is this abusive situation resolvable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 December 2013 (F) - My issue is, I been together with my bf for over 2years now, but on and off. It's our first baby, i left him and get a new house where we can live with my baby. we have a big fight all the time,thats why i left . I gave him so many chances,...

I kissed another man, now my husband wants to sleep with someone to "get even"

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

15 December 2013 (F) - I've been married for 3 years and together for 6. I love my husband but we have had our issues in the past I cheated on him 6 months into our relationship by kissing another man he also touched my breasts. Nothing else happened and all contact with ...

My husband and I no longer make decisions together

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

14 December 2013 (F) - My husband and I have found it hard to make time for each other lately. He is so busy working and I am busy with kids and house. We always make decisions together but lately we can't agree on anything he just says what he thinks I want to hear. W...

I'm thinking of divorcing my wife because she isn't pretty enough

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

14 December 2013 (M) - I will be as honest as I can, so i can have some honest responses.I need some suggestion from people who are on the same shoes or from anyone. I have been married for 3 years. I am 26 and my wife is 24. In my opinion i think my wife looks 6/10....

My husband makes twice what I do but wants to split our bills 50/50

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

13 December 2013 (F) - I live in an apartment with husband, Here is a break down of our expenses and earnings monthly Rent $920 inclusive of hydro. Tv phone and internet 102. Food around $300 - $330 Also we pay for apartment insurance. Food also includes a...

My wife just wants to party!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

13 December 2013 (M) - My wife lately start party with her girlfriend mostly every weekend.when i tell her to stop her get upset with me and she dosen't want me to touch her in bed or even to have sex.Please help....

My husband is angry about my photoshoot even though he was there

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

13 December 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. My husband and I are having a difference of opinion and I wanted to get some objective views... so here I am. First of all, my husband (Dave) and I have been married a bit over two years but have known each other for about four years...

At a crossroads, getting divorced, not a US citizen, with no friends or family in Europe

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

12 December 2013 (F) - I am in a process of a divorce and I am leaving to Europe. I was marriaged for 15 years to an american and now we decided to split up. I dont have anyone in the USA,only my husband´s friends and family which are not that much of my friends and ...

I feel my husband is much too close to another woman. He says I'm making it up. Who's right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

9 December 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I have a question about my husband´s choice. He has many female friends since I met him, and ex girl friends, and ex ``love of his life `` in high school time. So,I knew that he kinda have contact always with them. But since a ...

How do I leave my wife and my children?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

9 December 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid, How can I leave my wife and two kids? I know these columns are normally reserved for women , but being a man with out any one to talk to and with a story I want to share with you I feel, I can tell no one else in the world, not my br...

He's been there and done that, but I haven't!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

9 December 2013 (F) - My husband has a wild sexual past. I don't. Our sex life is as vanilla as it gets. I don't mind being vanilla, but I'm hurt that he doesn't want to try anything even remotely kinky with me. Unfortunately, he was way too open when we met. He...

Wife of 10 years has put on weight. How can I motivate her to exercise?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

6 December 2013 (M) - My wife and I have been together for 10yrs. and she is putting on a fair amount of weight. I have tried to get her to exercise and move but it is very hard to get her motivated. Any suggestions?...

I still love this man. So be nice. But we've been separated 3 years. We have adult children. Yet he tells his Gfs that he can't divorce, due to our children. What's he playing at?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

4 December 2013 (?) - We've been separated for 3 years! He is telling his so called girlfriend he hasn't sought a divorce because of our kids. Our kids are adults!! I don't think he doesn't want to divorce me, I caught him cheating, I was devastated he begged...

What about AFTER an affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 December 2013 (F) - How do you think men feel after having a long term affair on their partner? Do the feel regret? Do they even care? What if their current relationship was on the rocks and they were together "for the kids".... would there be less guilt? ...

Can you forgive a cheating husband?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

2 December 2013 (F) - Hey all, im devastated , found my husband of 6 years cheating, he had changed for a while and i suspected something. I took his mobile while asleep and found love msgs.. I was soo shocked, im young and we hav two adorable girls... He then started ...

Husband and I agreed to break off our affairs but now his mistress is pregnant!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 December 2013 (F) - I am 41 and I have been married for 6 1/2 yrs..been with my husband for 11yrs total. We have no children together..both our children are all adults. I found he was cheating on me in April so I confronted him. He lied to me that he wouldn't do it ...

My stepson says he is in love with me and won't take no for an answer!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 December 2013 (F) - Hi I hope someone can help me I'm 29 and I'm married to my 45 husband for 10yrs with 2 beautiful step kids I love very much. Things haven't been good with my husband and I for years a month after we got married he started to abuse me in every way ...