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Archived questions from: November, 2011 (see latest in Love stories category)

Love stories: Help and advice

Is my boyfriend bored, or stressed, or not interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I understand the concept of the honeymoon period. During the first six months or so that we were together, my boyfriend would text me things that still make me blush when I read them. (we've been together just over a year now) We were also like ...

Spark is gone after 9 years with GF. Troubled relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - Dear Aunts, I have a big problem. I have been with my girlfriend for 9 years. When I met her I was a virgin. She was not. She even told me back when we first started dating that she didn't care if we were an item or not, she just wanted to have s...

How can I approach an attractive girl? Fear of Rejection.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - There is a girl in my class who in see at least twice a week who seems really polite and quiet but I don't know how to approach her. As I'm afraid of being rejected. She once approached me and a couple of friends and asked in a very polite manner ...

How do you feel about nick-names in a loving relationship? Do you have a favorite nick-name?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3970 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Does your loved one give you nick names? Or a nick name? And which one do you love the most? I think nick-names can be a barometer of a relationship. If the nick-names stopped happening then I would know there was a problem, even if nothing had been ...

I broke up with the woman of my dreams. Why did I do that? What can I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - I'm 33. She is 30. Last year I met her and she was the best woman I have ever met. Gorgeous woman, had her own home in a great part of town, was referring to me moving in with her but for some reason I decided it wouldn't work. I ended up mee...

The girl I like is a Jehovah's Witness

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - There's this girl who I found to be amazing. I am the type to fall for girls who "catch my eye" as in i am picky and i go for girls who call out to me. This girl caught my eye a while ago but she's one of those girls that i call wayy out of my le...

Totally and Utterly Love him. But, how do I get over someone I love if it wont work?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Hi there just a quick question which i hope you all can help me with. I am totally and utterly in love with this guy, he may or may not like me but i know deep down it would never work as we just dont match. so my question is how do i get over som...

My wife stares at other men when we are out together. What to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2762 days ago

25 November 2011 (M) - My wife is 10 years younger than me. I'm 38 and when we go out I find her staring at other men. I try to tell her it bothers me but she just denies it. Should i even bother going on in this relationship?...

Leaving my whole family behind for marriage. How to deal with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - My soon to be husband is English. I am Australian. We met in the UK whilst i was living there for 2 years. In a few months we will be getting married and i will be permanently moving to the UK for the rest of my life (in theory, life changes of ...

How can I boost my sex appeal??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

24 November 2011 (M) - hi i was wondering how to boost my sex appeal. I have been with my fiance for 8 years. And i feel she know longer fancys me. She has know interest in sex and doesnt masturbate. I work out with average build. Do most me the house work and all the ...

My bf had a crazy fit and hurt me. Should I take him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - I have been. With my fiance for 3 years and we have had a lot of ups and Downs but here recently it has gotten. Horrible. And. As got in a bad fight. Last. Week and he called me a fucking. Whore and tried pinning me down on bed so I couldn't move. ...

Is is cheating or is it my bi-polar disorder?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - Hi guys I'm Tiffany My fiance is Elvin and I love him very much. I have bi-polar disorder,anxiety,and depression. I do not take pills do to no insurance but doing teh best I can to figh the sickness:/....I have been having anxiety lately because I ...

Unexpected feelings have hit me hard!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

23 November 2011 (M) - Ok, my neighbor girl basically pursued me, I felt no attraction of any sort for her in the beginning(except for she was hot), but her persistence, and her cute way, eventually started getting to me without me even knowing, she is 20, im 34, she is ...

I'm falling in love with another man and I have a boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

19 November 2011 (F) - hi all... I have been with my boyfriend for 9 years now, we have 2 kids together, things are usually pretty good with us, a few things that bother me are his mood swings one minute hes happy the next hes very miserable. through these nine years...

Will he choose me over his girlfriend of 9 years?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

19 November 2011 (F) - I wanted to ask is there any chances that the person i love will chose me over his girlfriend for nine years? Can you give me advice of what to do? i really love this guy. Will i let go of him? or fight for this guy? he said he love both of us. ...

Relationship 90/10 on my side. And thats a generous 10 for her. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

16 November 2011 (M) - This is my first post here on this site, I'd like to thank all the users who help out, as best they can, with the situations brought forth by others. So my situation; I've been with my girlfriend for 1 year and 4 months. This is most certainly t...

Does anyone else think my colleague fancies me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4787 days ago

14 November 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy at work (the college newspaper)that i've kind of taken a liking to. i'm not sure whether or not he knows how i feel--i haven't actually told him, buuut sometimes, people can just figure that sort of thing out for...

Girlfriend is contacting her ex. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

14 November 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are going through a real rough patch at the minute, i found phone calls and texts to her ex on her phone bill, but she said he was pestering her and she was telling him to leave us alone, this phone call lasted about 38 minutes, ...

Mixed feelings from friend and not sure what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4788 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - i met this guy arround 3 weeks ago a college, i knew one of his friends so when i was talking to his mate we were introuduced. the next day he came up to me and we just started chatting and then a few days later he asked me to hang out on campus. we ...

An old school friend recently revealed romantic feelings for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - Hello everyone. I need your advice because my emotions are all over the place right now. Back in school I had a guy best friend and we remained so for 3 years. 8 years later we are both married but because of our friendship, remained in contact ...

Holiday Flirt in Town and Exchanging Numbers with my Man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4792 days ago

10 November 2011 (M) - Recently my boyfriend and I were on vacation. In the resort there was another man (we're gay) who was obviously gay too, and he always smiled at my boyfriend and sometimes they stole glances at each other. I don't mind that kind of harmless ...

He is not calling... should I call or give him space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

10 November 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been dating for ALMOST 2 years.....he usually calls me multiple times a day sometimes even more.... but recnetly ive been alittle busy so i could really answer his calls but to make up for missing his calls i sent him a txt ...

The Guy is Distancing himself from me and I don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

10 November 2011 (F) - I started talking to this guy on an iPhone dating app and he seemed to really like me. I gave him my number and we startes texting and Skyping the same day, we really hit it off. Only problem is he lives about 1000 miles from me :( well we've only ...

What to do about cheating husband who is into porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

10 November 2011 (F) - Hi to all of you.i have been with my husband for almost 4 years.we are married for almost 3 years.he was married b4.he has a child with women.the reason he is not with her anymore is that he cheated on her. My problem is that he has cheated on me an...

I don't seem to be part of my boyfriends future plans. I love him what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - In a text spat last night, my boyfriend hurt my feelings and actually "dismissed" me from further contact that night. We have had serious discussions recently about our future together. After ALL we have been through and ALL I have supported him ...

Need help dealing with jealousy and insecurity.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - Hey, I need some advice on how not to get jealous and insecure when girls compliment/flirt with my bf, please! We've been together 1.5 yrs, and are really happy together. He's asked me to move in with him, and has mentioned marriage and a family ...

My date is dating someone else! What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

9 November 2011 (M) - Hi all, I met a girl online and struck up a conenction over a few weeks we corresponded one way or another everyday if more than anything she seemed keener so much so she was curious as to how many other people I was chatting with and teasing me a...

I need help preparing a marriage proposal

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

8 November 2011 (F) - Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...

I donated a kidney for love, how do I tell my parents back home?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

6 November 2011 (M) - I am form Pakistan but currently on visit visa in States. On third day of my visit, two months back, I went to strip dance club and fell in love with striptease dancer who was beautiful beyond description. After meeting her, for next two weeks, ...

This guy should come with a warning label!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

6 November 2011 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for about 3 weeks. He's 55, I'm 42. I got divorced a year ago after 15 years of marriage and haven't dated or had sex with anyone at all during this mourning period. The guy I'm dating at first claimed he had just broken ...

I can't let go of my unrequited love and it is killing me..

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

3 November 2011 (M) - I have been in love with a close female friend for four years. I have tried to date other women but there has never been a spark and they pale in comparison with my friend. I have tried minimising contact but it makes no odds. I want to move on ...

Does he love me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

1 November 2011 (F) - so this guy i knew since my teenage proposes me. All though i had feelings for him, i just kept asking him if he really meant it or if he is just playing games with my feelings. He assured me that he had feelings for me and he knew that i love him ...