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writes:so this guy i knew since my teenage proposes me. All though i had feelings for him, i just kept asking him if he really meant it or if he is just playing games with my feelings. He assured me that he had feelings for me and he knew that i love him too. And promised me i would be happy with him and so would he. I asked him a few days to decide. And the day came when i made up my mind to accept that i love him. And for the last time i asked if he was sure about this relationship. And he broke my heart telling me it was all a confusion. And he was too depressed at that moment and he decided things without giving it a proper thought. Actually he was having some problems with employment and he always degraded himself with his future. And then i thought it was just about his job. And i decided i would tell him when he gets a job. When he did get a job and when i told him about my feelings, he tells me no he can't fall in love with me and so i should move on and not contact him. But i do know he does have feelings for me. Is it true or is it my imagination? Why does he want to get rid of me like this?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (2 November 2011):
 I'm sorry I do not believe him to have the same feelings you do nor do I think you should wait for him.
I think you should forget about him and move on.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 November 2011):
 You say he was depressed and my guess is that he felt he wanted to be with you because he knew that you had feelings for him and he was so down in himself that he didn't think anybody else would be interested in him, so he decided that he would settle for you. But giving some time to think about things he knew that he was wrong. He does not have the same feelings that you have for him am afraid. So do as he says and move forward with your life. He sounds messed up at the moment and you are better cutting contact from him and finding a man that actually does care about you and wants to be with you, because this guy doesn't.
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