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writes:i met this guy arround 3 weeks ago a college, i knew one of his friends so when i was talking to his mate we were introuduced. the next day he came up to me and we just started chatting and then a few days later he asked me to hang out on campus. we ended up going to a proactice room and he tryed to teach me how to play guitar and when i totaly failed at that and got embaressed he just sang to me and it was so lovely, the same thing happened the next day but instead of him just singing songs to me he made one up about how lovely my smile was. it wasnt like he was coming onto me but it was totaly sweet, and i made a joke about how we were like going to be best friends and he said thats what he was just thinking. so we keept on meeting at college alone and in a big friendship group, and i just assumed we would be best friends is cute and everything but it wasent like relationship feeling. but a few nights ago we and a few friends decided to go out we were having so much fun but then everyone went home and it was just us two we had had a drink and we sat there talking about everything we could think of and it turned out we have such a conection, like we both said that we had this amazing click. basically we decided we were having such fun we would just saty out all night together and it was so much fun. but i stareted to get mixed feelings (more than best friends) we keept on holding eachothers hands and telling eachother we were perfect for one antoher and he said somethign about how he would kiss me but it may ruien our friendship and then i was making jokes about how our relationship would be the best and he was like yeah it would but you 'too perfect for me'and stuff like we are to perfect for eachother. and we kept on saying i love you so much to eachother it wasent like it was onesidedim getting such mixed feelings i love him as a best mate but i cant help but think of us as a relatioship, like what does he mean by you 'too' perfect. i just have no i dea what to think.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (14 November 2011):
 You have knowing this guy for 3 weeks and already you look to him as a best friend and you are telling each other you love each other? To be honest when people start telling each other they love each other early on it is never a good sign, because a stable relationship is slowly build, it should never be rushed and telling someone you love them early on usually means that they are using the word way to easily and that's not to good.
However it does sound like you are both getting on really well. It is clear that the both of you want more than a friendship, but neither of you know how to take that to the next level. Yes it is clear that he likes you as more than a friend and vice versa. I guess it will turn in to a relationship at some stage. But you both need to be honest with each other and just admit your feelings.
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