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Archived questions from: February, 2014 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Lying LDR boyfriend is having dreams of me cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - I recently found out that my LDR boyfriend have been pretending to be single. The girl he was talking to (I don't know her) messaged me out of the blue and sent me screenshots of texts where my boyfriend is claiming to be single and asking her out. ...

Should I tell him about kissing a guy when I was 22?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3911 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - I have been married for a little less than a year to a man I love. I could never imagine betraying our marriage ever- I am completely and happily devoted to him. Before we got married, we dated for about 10 years since I was 18- long distance. ...

I need help with how to relate to my LDR, please? I don't know what to do to make things better.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3911 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - I need urgent help. So this guy I met a year ago or a little more (in person) have recently started talking. We share a lot of things in common, we're both creative and both of us are in college although I'm in a gap year staying with my family a...

His home smells. Am I being petty. How can I solve this problem ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3911 days ago

27 February 2014 (?) - I am in an LDR and every other weekend I see my bf. I love him very much but I hate his house. I know it sounds very shallow but it is a very very old house. The bathroom has mould growing in it and green bathtub...toilet etc. The whole house ...

I would love for us to make a step forward in living together but he is not prepared to talk about any future plans!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - Hi , would love an answer to a complexed dilemma . My boyfriend lives in London . I live in Scotland , we have been seeing each other for three years . I would love to see a step forward towards us living together . I was told by my boyfrien...

We've been talking on the phone for 6 months, dating for 5 weeks, we are a perfect match and he has asked me to move in with him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - I was speaking to a guy on the phone for about 6 months, he always asked me out on a date but going from his picture he wasn't my type. Then my car blew up and he said he knew someone who had a golf so 1 afternoon my mum and 1 went up to see it and ...

If she can't take money from me in this crunch, what's the point of me being her fiance and see her struggling?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

25 February 2014 (M) - I have been in love with American woman for two years. I met her when I was visiting US for business purpose. She also came to Pakistan and I also go here and there. I'm 33 , she is 28. We were engaged now and she has ring from my side and I have ...

How can I trust him to be a nice guy again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Hi everybody there, I have some trust and reliance problems with my boyfriend. We were in a long distance relationship about one year and now he's living at mine. I'm from East Europe and he's from West part and spends his holiday in my country....

LDR boyfriend talked terribly to me and now I think he's broken up with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Hello I am a 36 year old female in a long distance relationship with a 48 year olf man. I love him very much but, in the pass he has been very verbally abusive, calling me bitches and saying fuck you! I forgave him when he asked for forgiveness and ...

We have rekindled our childhood romance.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Hell!!! I've been dating a guy for three months and we both still have feelings for each other from when we were kids. We dated when we were 16 years old and I still feel like a nervous teen since we rekindled the flame. At least twice a week...

One of his fantasies makes me really uncomfortable

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - Ok hoping this doesn't sound completely lame but I need opinions. Having a really wonderful connection and long distance relationship with great guy . We share a lot and talk about fantasies which is really nice and we seem to really get one another ...

Missing absent Bf. Have feelings for unavailable new guy who I work with. What to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - Hello Aunts, I am so sad tonight. My boyfriend and I were together for two years. There were some problems with our relationship but overall it was a good one, a beautiful one. I never once doubted his love for me, and even our "fights" we...

Falling in love with a man who might have to move away. We discussed it, but what did he mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - I started dating a man about three months ago. We see each other almost every week-end. We'll spend most of it together. The week-ends usually consists of hours of conversation, laughing really hard, watching movies, sex, eating, driving, laughing, ...

My friends want to move abroad without their young-adult children

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3915 days ago

17 February 2014 (M) - Am interested what you think of this situation. Some friends of min are bith 52, and have 2 kids: girl of 18 and boy of 20. The parents want to emigrate from england to spain on a permanent basis. The kids dont want to go with them. But the p...

Should I go to see my online friend even though we face distance and cultural differences?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

17 February 2014 (M) - Hi, I am new to this site. I am from India and I love a girl in Romania. She recently got out of a relationship. They were going out for 7-8 years; even though she loved him, he never loved her. I suggested her to break the relationship. I might ha...

He got me absolutely nothing for Valentine's Day!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - Should I be upset he got me absolutely nothing for Valentine's Day? My boyfriend and I both agree that Valentine's day is not a big deal. We are in a long distance relationship-been together about 8 months. We don't see eachother very often in pe...

My LDR called me names and doesn't want to speak with me anymore.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

16 February 2014 (F) - Why is he so horrible? He's really broken my heart:(? So my bf have been dating 10 months long distance where he'd call me all the time. But lately he had been acting weird lately not calling as much, no I miss you to love you. Today I went out ...

My LDR complains that I have a mixed personality

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

15 February 2014 (F) - It's a long distance relationship. I met this guy online and I've fallen in love with him. He use to text me everyday but for two weeks now, the texting has stopped. When he called this week he complained that I have a mixed personality and if I ...

Tarot reader told me to end my relationship. Should i?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

14 February 2014 (F) - Laat night I went to a tarort reader, she pulled out a card involving my partner.. she said he wasnt any gd for more and I need to make the descision to tell him its not working anymore as he wouldnt tell me hinself he moved away in November to work ...

Is this feeling of distance and disconnection common for an LDR?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

14 February 2014 (M) - I've been in a long distance relationship with my partner of 14 months for 6 months now as she had to move back home due to being unable to pay rent. However, we do get to see each other weekly or fortnghtly, depending on situations. We're also ...

Is this normal for FWB?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

13 February 2014 (F) - I got chatting to a guy online nearly 4 months now , at first he told me he was single but eventually he told me he wasn't and he has a daughter . I'm ok with this it's his life , he lives miles away from me but we decided to meet up . He drive over ...

My girlfriend has a male roommate but the issue was that she lied about it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

12 February 2014 (M) - When girlfriend was moving to college, she had to pick a place/apartment in consensus with her parents. I always got a bit nauseus before that, when thinking about possibility that she might get a male roommate. Somehow, instinctively, I...

Does this mean he's losing interest?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

11 February 2014 (F) - hello im a 36 year old female in a long distance relationship. i really love him and he says he loves me too but, lately i have had some strange feelings. we use to talk every day now we really dont. he use to call me two and three times a day now, ...

Very curious about my LDR girlfriend's handsome friend. How do I handle myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

11 February 2014 (F) - My girlfriend and I have been good friends for years. We began hanging out and eventually dating this summer before I moved to the east coast for grad school. We see one another on breaks. I love her and we have great communication. She joined a ...

My partner has moved away and his behaviour has changed. What is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

10 February 2014 (F) - Help I feel so lonely. .. my partner has moved away only 2 hours away but I've not seen him for over coming up to 3 weeks and that was only for a day... I've a little girl but shes not his but still feel lonely with out him here. I sometime...

What would you do with this long distance relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

7 February 2014 (F) - This one is a doozie...Please help!!!! I am a female senior in college, 2 hours away from home. My mom set me up with one of her coworkers in December. She said we would be perfect together, and gave the guy my phone number. I came home for W...

My long distance boyfriend has had a bad accident but I can't visit him. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

5 February 2014 (F) - I'm currently completely my last semester of college (just two classes) and interning at a great company. I hope to work for them full-time after graduation. My boyfriend is in the middle of his MBA program in Shanghai. I'm from the States and he's ...

I seem to have a lot of anxiety and insecurity and worry within my relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

4 February 2014 (F) - I'm really hoping nobody will judge me but I have some problems and I don't know why this is going on with me. Please give me your honest opinions. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 1 year. We are in a long distance relationship for...

Calling all girls in long term relationships for opinions...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

4 February 2014 (F) - Hi. Please do not make any judgements or assumptions. I simply want opinions from girls in LT relationships. How would you feel if your boyfriend went travelling with a boy mate without inviting you for one month to six months? ...

Hearing from my LDR less often

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

4 February 2014 (F) - hello Iim a 36 year old woman in a long distance relationship with a man in new york. He has been working on moving down here since june. I really love him and he says he loves me but I feel like something is changing, he normally calls me three to ...

He says he doesn't care but then he flips about me and his friend! He makes no sense! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

4 February 2014 (F) - I met this boy Last October (2012) when I went on a trip (1 hr and a half from where I live - a ski town). We added each other on facebook and got each others phone numbers but we didnt start hanging out until I went up there again in February and ...

What's happened to my long-distance friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

3 February 2014 (F) - hey I met a guy online and ever since that we have been friends for 5 years recently I went to his country to see him. through our friendship he has always told me he has feelings for me and he loves and respects me saying if you were here with me ...

Long distance boyfriend has moved to be with me and now I'm having second thoughts.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

1 February 2014 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years and he lived in Ireland but recently moved into my family home in England so we could save up for a mortgage. He has started working in a job that pays minimum wage and can't find anyt...

Now that our relationship is no longer long-distance, I find myself feeling insecure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

1 February 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. I am 25 and he is 24. We are very much in love, and we have talked about our future together many, many times. We talk about getting married, having kids, etc. For the most part, our relationship ...