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Archived questions from: July, 2013 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

I'm going abroad for a job, shouls I let him know how I feel for him? I've only met him once but I just know he's specialw

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

31 July 2013 (F) - I'm leaving in a month for a job abroad. Should I just tell him how i feel. I took him into consideration but I just feel like I need to move on. He hasn't made a move, we only met once, but I just know what I like. I know what I want and it ...

How do I keep this relationship without having contact with his friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

31 July 2013 (F) - How to tell him that's not what I want? I was on a trip, and met this guy. The way he dressed and acted I didn't know he was so young, 30. I am in my 40s with grown child. We spend couple days together, and on a second day I stayed with hi...

I've been burned before and I'm worried it will happen again with this guy who lives in another country.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4124 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - I met a guy a few months ago at a music event. He was the producer of the event, but I didn't know this until much later. I just saw him there and was immediately drawn to him. After the event was over I went up and introduced myself and had a chat ...

I like this guy and would like to date him but he lives far away and I'm afraid I'll blow it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4124 days ago

29 July 2013 (?) - I like this guy but he lives far away. He said that he would date me if he lived closer to me. I asked him if he would visit me and he said yes. He asked me the same and I said yes. We seem to both like music and we had a good conversation. He has ...

Dirty talk and sexy photos with another man - should I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4124 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - I have a bf for past 4 yrs. its a long distance relationship. I also had a good friend with whom I could share all my probs and all my opinions..but never loved him any near to my bf. Recently he broke up with his gf. Just to comfort him I said.i....

How can long distance relationships work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

26 July 2013 (M) - I had two failed long distance relationships. One was within the country. Other one was with the a girl from US. Here, in our area, dating and having girlfriend is consider a taboo thing. I don't like arrange marriages . So most of the time, I ...

How can I make a long distance relationship work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) - I met my now boyfriend online about 4 years ago and we have talked pretty consistently. Going back through our earlier messages, he told me multiple times that he liked me but only recently have I shared my feelings with him too. The catch? He'...

After everything do we still have a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4127 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) - i am in a relationship with my guy for the last 5 years. for the most part sadly, it has been an LDR. since 2012, we have been arguing and fighting over petty issues because of communication gap .... but this is true that we have been madly inlov...

I don't think I trust my LDR boyfriend and now that he knows I went through his messages he doesn't trust me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

25 July 2013 (F) - Dear all, I am currently in a semi LDR seing other weekend/alternative weekends due to work commitments for last 1.6 yes. Whilst we love one anothers lots I'm not sure I trust my BF. A while a go i found some flirty messages (some sexual but bante...

Is my LDR b/f seeing a girl behind on my back who he's befriended from facebook?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4127 days ago

25 July 2013 (F) - So Im in a long distance situation with my boyfriend/ex. We're together but not. It's hard to explain. Anyway, I'm a pretty jealous person and noticed that he befriended a girl on Facebook who lives out of state about 2 months ago. She befriended ...

After she moved away, we barely talk anymore because she's always too tired or too busy or talking to this guy! Do I break up with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4125 days ago

24 July 2013 (M) - I've been in a relationship for 3 years with this girl now. Last year, she moved to another city with her family. She used to call and message me all the time. After 3months,she joined a college for her further studies. She became friends with a guy ...

Should I fight for this love? How can this work if I'm moving though?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4129 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - What do I do about this guy I have connected with? So I graduated college and it was a year since my first big breakup and I planned to go leave and teach in Honduras. Enter: Dave. Dave was this guy who I had been extremely attracted to sin...

My girlfriend in my LDR is barely speaking to me anymore. Should I break up with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

23 July 2013 (M) - I've been in a relationship for 3 years with this girl now. Last year, she moved to another city with her family. She used to call and message me all the time. After 3months,she joined a college for her further studies. She became friends with a guy ...

LDR boyfriend and I discussed marriage and kids, now he hasn't returned my calls for 3 weeks.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

20 July 2013 (F) - Me and my bf have been in a relationship long distance for three months now, we met 3 years ago And dated then but then he got sent to Iraq twice and we lost cobtact over time, he got into contact with me at the beginning of the year by email an...

After our weekend away together, my boyfriend called me a slut and a whore and said I never leave him alone.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

20 July 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid I am in LDR now with my bf of 4 years. We went for a trip few days ago as we didn't meet for few months. As far as i could see the trip was great and fun. We came back to our respective cities. I called him next day, he sounded ok, but ...

He would make plans to come visit and then totally avoid me the day he was supposed to come! Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

20 July 2013 (F) - I had been talking to a guy for about 6 months, and although we live about 2 hours apart we would talk almost every day. I'd visited him a few times where he lives and we had a lot of fun. He then told me he wanted me to be his girlfriend so I asked ...

I really like this guy but I didn't follow "the rules"

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

19 July 2013 (F) - There is a guy I messaged on match. I was instantly attracted to his pics and his style so I messaged "you are so fine" and he messaged back saying, "I was going to say the same about you!" I didn't think too much of it though because I wanted to ...

We broke up because of distance not because we weren't in love. Its so hard!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

18 July 2013 (M) - Hello. I would like to ask for some advice if possible. Myself and my girlfriend have just split up due to her moving back to Italy and me being forced to stay here in Ireland. We discussed this at length and decided that things would be better ...

Why would he just disappear when things seemed to be going so well?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

18 July 2013 (F) - I have this guy, we started talking last year. We met last year as well, and things were really good, then he moved back to his home state for a year, and we still continued talking and having an on and off long-distance thing for the whole year. A ...

I'm moving back soon to my LDR boyfriend but am feeling sparks for a guy where I am now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4135 days ago

18 July 2013 (F) - I have been in a relationship with by boyfriend for three years now. I know for certain and without any doubts that I love him. We have been through so much together and have so many beautiful memories and I love him dearly. However, we have been in ...

LDR problem, I love him dearly but not sure if he loves me, and don't know what to do. Should I keep on waiting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

18 July 2013 (F) - I met my Aussie boyfriend 2 and a half years ago. He first flew here and chased after me after 2 months of talking. I was very smitten. We had our ups and downs in our LDR and 16 months forward he flew me to Aus for the first time and took me ...

Why did he react that way to my confession ? Please help me to understand...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4135 days ago

18 July 2013 (F) - Hello ! So here it is, sorry in advance for the length of this message... but I'd really need an enlightenment on this :/ I'm at university and I met a guy almost a year ago in class: he is the one that approached me at school. We talk...

Went on a trip with my LDR and now he doesn't call

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

18 July 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid I am in LDR with my bf of 3 years for the past 6 months. We went for a trip few days back and had a very nice time. Few times he was cranky, but otherwise trip was a success. Its been a week, he hasnt called me once or returned by me...

Should I go back to see the man I met on holiday?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

17 July 2013 (F) - I went on holiday to Jamaica at the beginning of the year to celebrate my birthday. While there I met a guy there. I was not interested in him on holiday at all I thought he was drop dead gorgeous. But I just don't go on looks I go for personality ...

Does that sound like he was keen to come and see me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

16 July 2013 (F) - Hi guys, I just wanted some opinions on my situation. About three weeks ago I hooked up with a guy in a band (they were on tour). He gave me his number and we had been texting back and forth for about two weeks. He's not from my state so I went ...

Is this crazy to think we can make this? Is dating a Marine a good idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

16 July 2013 (F) - I met this man 7 years ago, when I was 19, and he was 21. We always had a great time together and became great friends. I always had a crush on him, but I was in and out of a relationship for five years at the time. Then, he joined the Marines and ...

Is it reasonable to ask him to come to see me every time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

16 July 2013 (F) - I am starting to date this guy who lives in the city about 45 minutes (without traffic) from my house (I live in the suburbs). The first two times he came up to see me, once for coffee and the next time for dinner (it was his own suggestion for him ...

I spent loads of money booking this trip, and he's gone silent!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4137 days ago

16 July 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 current currently lives in a different city. We planned for a trip 2 months before and i did all reservations. We are supposed to leave for the trip tomorrow morning. I have to catch a flight first thing in the morning and ...

Previous flame wants to rekindle, but an LDR would be in our future.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4138 days ago

15 July 2013 (F) - A month ago, the guy that I was seeing asked for some time to think through a life-crisis he was having. He said that he had big questions about his career, future, goals in life, and whether he was healthy enough to be in a relationship. He ...

My long distance boyfriend insists we get married so we can be together

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

14 July 2013 (F) - Thank you in advance for any advice regarding my problem. I am pretty torn up inside and I'm not sure of what I should do. I'm 25 years old and so is my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have been in a transatlantic, long distance relationship for about ...

Boyfriend pushing me away. Please help!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

14 July 2013 (F) - Hey everyone. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. He's 35 and I'm 31. I'm very much in love with him but over the last several months our relationship has fallen apart. We've been through a lot together and I hate to think that after ...

Since I no longer pay for everything, he doesn't hardly see me at all!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

13 July 2013 (F) - Ok I'm back with more questions. I am still in the LDR. But have made some much needed changes. I no longer pay for everything but with that change it means he doesn't see me hardly at all. So this is probably the last straw. This weekend I drive 3 ...

I need him to love me like he used to! Do I give him more time and space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4140 days ago

12 July 2013 (F) - So here's the thing, i've broke up with my ex for 2 months and a little, and just a 2 weeks back, he finally agreed to get back with me because he still loves me. We went out and watched a movie, we held hands during the movie, but when i wanted t...

Six dates already, why is he not asking me out again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4140 days ago

11 July 2013 (F) - Hi, So I have just started dating a guy about a month ago. At the beginning, I was very reserved and didn't kiss him till the 5th date. We always hang out and he always texted me after the dates saying he cannot wait to kiss me. I told him, I don't ...

If he goes traveling, I may resent him. If he stays here for me, he may resent me. What do we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

10 July 2013 (F) - hi there I am such a mess right now and really need some advice: My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year we get on so well and have recently we have have had a few minor disagreements - nothing really bad but more so than usual - not...

Do you think sexual chemistry could really be gone and if so, do you think it's possible to rekindle to salvage this budding relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

10 July 2013 (F) - Hi readers! I'm a long-time lurker, first time poster. I'd like to thank everyone in advance for reading this post; I realize it rather lengthy, but I do hope it's easily readable... For the past couple years, I have had a "friends with be...

He's a great guy except for his neediness to hear from me constantly.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

8 July 2013 (F) - ..I would really like some advice on this please. .. My earlier question was closed and some guy posted saying he was my boyfriend. To the mods, my boyfriend does not know of this page at all! This was my question http://www.dearcu...

I thought he was the one, now I'm not so sure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4145 days ago

8 July 2013 (F) - Hey guys i really need your help. I thought i loved my boyfriend more than ive ever loved anyone in my life. i know im only 19 but i thought it was different this time. i saw our future together and looked forward to a happy perfect life after we ...

The guy I'm dating sleeps all the time! Should I keep seeing him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

7 July 2013 (F) - I just started talking to this guy about 3 weeks ago. He lives about 4 hours away from me so he came to visit me for the weekend. And i have seen he sleep all the time. Every time we sit down for any reason he just goes to sleep. Even when we ...

How do I get my clingy, overbearing and unwilling-to-change-that boyfriend to calm down while I'm visiting my parents?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

7 July 2013 (F) - Hello all, I am wondering what you guys would consider normal boundaries and communication frequency in a relationship. Me and my boyfriend live together near our college, but I came back home for a couple of weeks to visit my family. He hates it ...

Should I take a risk and go abroad to see him, even though he is involved with someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4146 days ago

7 July 2013 (F) - I have had strong feelings for this since I was a teenager...he moved abroad and we kept in contact..he stated that he felt the same way as well...sometimes in my heart I feel like we are soul mates...but another part of me is scared that it is ...

Do dumpers always remember the bad memories after they break up with someone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4146 days ago

7 July 2013 (F) - Sorry, my story is a bit long. My ex of three years dumped me for no reason five months ago. He then had no contact after we split up. I'm still suffering from the pain and always wonder where went wrong. We were so in love and talked about ...

Surely I'm worth an Engagement Ring.. Aren't I??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4149 days ago

2 July 2013 (F) - I am going through such an emotional roller coaster right now, I am desperate for unbiased advise. My boyfriend and I have been together for going on 6 years. We long distance dating at the beginning but after about 6months I moved to be with him...

I found condoms in my girlfriends drawer but we don't use them since she is on the pill

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4151 days ago

2 July 2013 (M) - im in a 1 year 3 month long distance relationship with my girlfriend. we see each other every two months due to school and work and we live in different countries. I have been her first one and she is on the pill so we dont use any kind of ...