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Archived questions from: August, 2013 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

I snooped on her computer and don't like what I found!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

31 August 2013 (M) - a couple of months ago i was visiting my LD girlfriend and i had lots of time alone at her place while she was at school. i snooped into her computer historial out of couriosity and i found she had visited some hook up site afew times for the last ...

My long distance is into role playing and its startin to really get to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4100 days ago

30 August 2013 (F) - Before I start, I'm going to say that I know part of my worries come from jealousy and maybe even insecurity, but I really just have to ask others to because I know there's more to it than that. Also, it may be hard to read because I'm venting a ...

He couldn't wait for me to get back, then he wants to be alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4100 days ago

29 August 2013 (F) - I was dating a guy for three long years! We were absolutely crazy about each other and have so many memories and were each other's firsts for so much! However, a year ago I had to move a few states away to go to a school my family and I could afford ...

She would have left me for someone better than me, did I do the right thing ending things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

28 August 2013 (M) - It is after the breakup I initiated last week. I am writing trying to hear more from other people's point of view about my situation and decision. Almost two years of relationship with this girl, and I will call this girl H throughout this post. ...

I need to give my LDR g/f space but how much is right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

28 August 2013 (M) - Hi All Ive been in my LDR for way too long now (i should have moved to be with her ages ago). And if im honest about things i did take her for granted and was unreliable about a few things, i always made the most of time together though (weekends...

My boyfriend's brother has been texting me really inappropriate stuff after I had a fight with my boyfriend. not sure how to proceed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

26 August 2013 (F) - I have been going out with a guy for the pass 7 months we get along well and we like each other. He has been abroad working back home for the pass 3 months he will be gone for 7 months. We are in contact daily and I am going to see him in ...

Things were fine with my LDR boyfriend on Friday but he hasn't responded to my texts or calls since then

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

26 August 2013 (F) - I have been in long distance relationship for 6 months. We talk on the phone and text everyday. We spoke on Friday night as usual and nothing was wrong we made each laugh and spoke like we usually do. We said goodbye and hung up. He did n...

LDR says I'm nicer than the other girls he's been with

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4104 days ago

25 August 2013 (F) - This year I went on holiday with my family and whilst I was away, I met a guy who lives in Wales and I'm from England, so we could make it work. The hitch is, he is 19 and has slept with 18 girls, including a threesome he told me about whilst he ...

Her parents don't know we are married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4104 days ago

24 August 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid, I really don’t know where to start.. I met a beautiful lady (24) that is now my wife accidentally through social media whilst I was part of a high profile event which we both were using such public platform to talk about. Cut a lo...

Is it possible for a person with depression to do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

22 August 2013 (M) - Hi, Is it possible that someone suffering with depression would call it off with one person who she can only see at weekends then later start seeing a friend close by because it's easier to cope with with their illness?...

I'm very concerned that my boyfriend is getting a female roommate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

21 August 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and I've always trusted him. I've known him for years and he was never a cheater with girls and was always well behaved. We've done long distance for the last few months and it's still ...

Ex initiated contact. I thought I'm over him, but now I can't stick to my guns.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

21 August 2013 (F) - This is my last post. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-do-i-still-feel-sad-miss-him.html So the last time I talked to my ex, he said he will marry me if I fly to him tomorrow. He said he's not over me. I asked why he didn't wish me happy bir...

How do I fix this LDR? He's great in person but horrible at other forms of communication!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4109 days ago

21 August 2013 (F) - I'm a girlfriend of this guy who is amazing in person, but he is so horrible at talking to me over text, phone, and Xbox chat. Voice chatting is better than text, but nothing beats him being awesome in person. In person, he shows me attention, ...

Trying to read guys and see what path I should walk down!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 August 2013 (F) - Ok so, Am very confused about guys actions and where I think everythign is going to be in the future (and I mean this time next year not 5 years from now) And just trying to read guys and see what path I should walk down. In my life right now I have ...

I'm in love with him but he won't give me any commitment

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

19 August 2013 (F) - Since March this year I have been in touch with a Korean man online. We met on a penpals website so I was not looking for a relationship. He's based in London on a two year student visa. When we first started talking it was very casual but after a ...

My curvy LDR gets advice from her friends to lose weight. I like her just the way she is. Should she listen to her friends or me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 August 2013 (M) - I have been in LDR with an American girl for two years. We met once in South East Asia and spent two weeks together. I'm 32 and she is 34. She is curvy and always asks me whether, "should I lose weight or not?" Also, if she loses weight, he...

How do I tell her I looked into her phone and saw explicit messages?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 August 2013 (M) - I have a dilemma and need to find a way to resolve it. I have been dating a lovely lady for 18 months. 10 months into our relationship, work took me away to South East Asia, where my roots are. I was supposed to return after 5 months, however ...

She poured her heart out in an email to me then started dating someone else

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

18 August 2013 (M) - Hello, Has any girl reading this settled for 2nd best? Shortly after meeting someone and going on a few dates I had to move 120 miles away. She sent me a very lengthy email explaining all the things she liked about me but she finds it so hard and...

Why do I still feel sad, miss him and think about him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

17 August 2013 (F) - After three months of breakup, my ex contacted me saying he misses me and still loves me. He dumped me without giving me any explanation. A month after we broke up, i asked him for closure and he told me i was clingy, insecure and controlling (we ...

I can't shake the feeling that she cheated on me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

16 August 2013 (M) - think my girlfriend cheated on me but she denies it. She had a very dramatic event occur in her life and had to go stay with family friends for a couple of months. The family had a son near her age who she opennly admitted she found attractive. ...

In an LDR for one year, husband has just come back and now his job requires him to travel again - I'm freaking out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

16 August 2013 (F) - Hello! My husband and I have been in an LDR for one year: it was hard, but we are finally back together! He's found this great new job and we're finally back together. This job will require him to travel for work. His first trip will be in a couple ...

Should I tell my boyfriend my last relationship was long distance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4116 days ago

14 August 2013 (F) - hi everyone so I have been in a relationship for about eight months now. He is my first proper boyfriend and any other boys I have kissed etc he knows about. The thing is I used to be in an LDR with a guy i met online - i never met the guy but we s...

We broke up and I know the problem will always be there. I really loved him so how do I cope with these feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4116 days ago

14 August 2013 (F) - My ex and i were together for four years. We were very serious and i had his commitment. We were in LDR and he broke up with me a month before we planned to see each other. Ive been miserable for three months. Lately he came back to me saying he ...

My married man is too busy for me but I don't want to let him go!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

13 August 2013 (F) - Im in love with a married guy, 6years older than me. He lives about a 5hour drive away from me and he comes once or twice a month to oversee his projects (he's a building contractor). Last weekend was a long weekend and we chilled from thurs to ...

Off to college, how should we part?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4116 days ago

13 August 2013 (F) - Hey Guys, haven't been here since I was fifteen. Well recently I fell into a relationship with this guy who I had liked for a long time. I became his friend in AP calculus and eventually we hung out outside of school. For three months or so we ...

Was it wrong of me to ask my b/f if he and a female friend had hooked up in the past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

12 August 2013 (F) - My bf and I are in somewhat of a LDR as we only see each other on weekends. We've been doing this for 2 years. He recently relocated to another area for school but he's still as far away as before, just in another direction. Last week he told me he ...

Is my girlfriend jealous or is she mad at me for not being jealous at her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

12 August 2013 (M) - I have trust issues because of my past, I'm in a ldr with a wonderful girl and I try to do things all right this time. my councellor suggested me to stop asking about her whereabouts and whit whom is she hanging out with. she also suggested to have ...

I need to break up with my boyfriend but I love him so much. How do I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

12 August 2013 (F) - Hi all. I REALLY need advice how to break up with someone, me and my LDR boyfriend have a great relationship and we have lots of laughs and fun, but right now I am going through problems in my life right now and cannot hold a relationship. ...

While visiting my LDR boyfriend he talked on the phone to a girl friend and left me in a store alone. Do I have a right to be upset?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

11 August 2013 (F) - I am in long distance relationship with my boyfriend.. This time when we were at a store picking things up for the house,he got a call even before we entered the store from a friend who is a girl who happens to be in the same place and she wanted t...

Why would he go through all that trouble just to ignore me at the last minute when he became serious with this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

8 August 2013 (F) - Okay, so here's my situation. My first boyfriend of 5 years who is now my ex has a girlfriend. Him and I have known each other for 12 years. Our relationship has been an on and off thing because he always told me the same thing (I want to explore my ...

My girlfriend has been adding guys on Facebook, another girl told me to be wary of her. Am I being paranoid or should I worry?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

5 August 2013 (M) - dear aunts and uncles, my gf lately has been adding on facebook a few guys and that makes me feel insecure, i trust her but im not feeling cofortable with it. last night a girl who knows my gf told me to be careful with her as she is not the person ...

I'm uncertain about what my bi-sexual lover really wants given her lack of experience

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4123 days ago

5 August 2013 (F) - I pretended to be a boy for revenge on other girl (sick high school revenge, I am in college now) but ended up meeting this girl from another country meanwhile. We were in love and I told her the truth about who I am. I am gay, and she claimed ...

Found my LDR Husband had considered playing around and now I can't move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4123 days ago

4 August 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been together for a year, separated by distance for 2 years and got married after and separated again for months now. As I opened his Facebook account because of the game we played thats why I know his password. I unin...

The ex-factor: should I feel stupid for breaking up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

2 August 2013 (F) - Hi. Im here because I broke up with my bf of 2 years a week ago.. I was quite successful I had an apt a job finishing school..and since he had always said he wanted to move in together I was always bringing it up.. He never did..he would always just ...

I found out my LDR b/f is in jail. Should I ask about or continue like I don't know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4129 days ago

2 August 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, I hope yall can help me im really feeling confused right now, I've been dating this man for 8 yrs long distant... I love this man, he was my first he is 45 yrs old, im 33 yrs old...we drifted away for a year, now he started writing ...

If he really felt the way he says he does then why does he want to do LD another year?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

1 August 2013 (F) - I have been in a LDR for about 9 months. the relationship itself is quite healthy and we have recently had some great talks about what we both want and are looking for and we seem to be on the same page. We talk most days on skype and SMS/call as ...

I've been saving for 9 months so that my boyfriend and I could move in together only to find that he has saved NOTHING at all. Is he subconsciously telling m he doesn't want to move to my area?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

1 August 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for coming up to two years and for the past year we've been talking about moving in together. We ruled out me moving to him because it is so much more expensive to live in his area that...