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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

He didn't text me for 4 hours! Am I wrong to be hurt by this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I've been having a long distance relationship with a guy for just over a year and I felt as if I liked him more than he liked me.... So I asked him and he said that could be true, that was about a week ago and everything's been fine recently. By ...

Can I say we are in a relationship already?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5830 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I've been having a long distance friendship with a guy I met 2 years ago in a business delivery I made. He's military so he left soon after that. The weird part is that we met only 2 times but a click happened there. Since that meeting we've be...

Do you think the long distance ruined our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - For the past 6 years, my husband and i are in a long distance relationship. My son who is 6 years old (he left a month before he was born) and i visit him twice yearly for a total of 10 weeks. Initially when he left, i would cry all the time and get ...

Am I destined for permanent fuck buddy status?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I'm 23 years old and I have had literally enough boyfriends to equal my age. Its really depressing because no matter who I date (older or yonger, race, religion, whatever)every guy I've ever dated only looks at me as a fuck buddy. I recently...

We made a deal and he hasn't sent me what he promised

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about 6 months (long distance). he wanted me to help him get a play station 3 that he's been crying about for the longest. at first I didn't want to do it until he agreed that if I help him he would send me a pair shoes ...

We want to move in together, what do I tell my parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - hi I have a question about moving in with my boyfriend. I'm 19 and he is 19. we have been friends for about three years but in a long distance relationship for 6 months. he stays in indiana and he's in school and has his own apartment. he's a really ...

LDR--he didn't communicate and I ended it-mistake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - hello everyone, I was/am having a LDR for about 9 months, and we are so in love and seriously its amazing how much we have in common for example the same birthday, sometimes its scary how much we have in common. But at the start of the relations...

LDR--how often do couples communicate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - I'm dating a guy in a long-distance relationship and I'm wondering how often we should communicate. I've known him for 4 months and we've been dating for 2 months now. He's a Ph.D student (getting his Ph.D next spring) and he also teaches. We talk ...

Was my conversation with this married friend wrong? It felt weird!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - I called my long distance friend yesterday for christmas, we talked about what we did and well we are friends but he's married to someone I don't know if knows about me communicating with him. It's that sometimes he makes me feel like he wants to ...

Did I sound like a girl confessing my feelings to him? What's happening here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - I called my long distance crush yesterday for christmas, we talked about what we did and well we are friends but I have feelings for him only that sometimes he makes me feel like he does too, and others like he wants to play it cool. At the en...

In a relationship but now interested in another..what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - I'm attached in a year long relationship with my bf. But we have always been fighting and patching and i'm always dissatisfied with him cos he doesnt communicate with me at all. Even when we fight he just remains quiet while i do all the talking. ...

I'm not sure if I like Sophie or not, I'm confused, any help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

27 December 2008 (M) - hello everyone, im scott, and sorry if this takes long, but ive made one big mistake, I have a 3 yr old with my ex we where together for 5 years, well we split in jan this year, i then started going out with this really nice girl sophie my whole fa...

Should I let some time pass or end this LDR because I'm so confused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

27 December 2008 (M) - I'm writing this mostly as therapy and introspection for myself but it will be intertersting to get an outside opinion looking in on my situation. I am 20 years old and have been dating my beautiful girlfriend for a year and a half long-distance ...

I'm worried about my friend's LDR with a girl he's just met on a dating site!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5839 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - One of my best friends, has joined a dating website, hes meet this girl throught it they been going out for about 2 weeks she was the one who clicked on him, and they exchanged numbers, by that evening she had asked him out and he said yes, she ...

Is my friendship with this married guy going the wrong way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - Well, I've been having a long distance friendship with this guy I met 2 years ago in a delivery I made at his office (US airbase). He happened to left shortly after that, but I had to contacted him after that and since then emails have been ...

Will a long distance relationship work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

25 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year. We are both 18 years old. Unfortunately, my parent will soon have to move to another country due to their work.. Our relationship is very serious. He is a good guy and I would accept him as my ...

Never met but in love... and then she goes and gets a boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

25 December 2008 (M) - I am 20.I know this girl for about a year now.We have never meet but it was all over phone and mails...We were supposed to meet soon.Six months back i told her that I love her and She said that she loved me too.It was the happiest moment of my ...

Is this long distance friendship becoming a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - Well, I've been having a long distance friendship with this guy I met 2 years ago in a delivery I made at his office (US airbase). He happened to left shortly after that, so I decided to contacted him and since then emails have been sent. Firs...

Should I help his soon to be ex? I have texts, photos!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - I'm just feeling so ashamed and confused and I'm hoping someone can help me know whether or not I could have legal rights when it comes to a certain situation: Approximately 1 month ago, on Facebook, I heard from a guy whom I had dated nearly 11 ...

Am I taking advantage of him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for going on 4 years....I love him very much ......we broke up for about a year and he moved to fl we kept in touch and i missed him so much while he was gone.....then we decided to meet up after a year in 2 months and i ...

I've fallen hard for him but it's long distance...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Ok im in a long distance relationship, but I think I want a non available, not really that long distance guy. This is all based from a chat site by the way, anyway, I met this guy for the first time the other day. I've told him before that I really ...

What should I do if I still want him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - I dated a guy through all through high school and 2 years of college and he was the first guy I was ever with. We only broke up because the relationship wasn't working long distance (we went to different colleges) and I believe we would have stayed ...

How do I move on from being in love with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5845 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - This is the first time ive done this so please bare with me. Im 27 yrs old, im currently married, have been for 6 and a half years and i have 2 kids. For a little over a year my husband and I have had our ups and downs and I suffer from depression. ...

Should I tell her I love her or should I just keep my feelings sealed away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

20 December 2008 (M) - Hi I really need some help. Im 17, male from newcastle, and for the past year and a half I have been playing online gaming. About a year ago I started talking to a girl online, we immediately clicked and became good friends, recently though I think ...

He forgot my birthday again! Should I continue with this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend forgot my birthday for the second time. We have been dating for about 3years now. Distance has always been a problem but it is so torturing and painful that for the second time, I had to remind him again and all he could say was work...

I am so confused. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5846 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. Up until recently we broke up but we are still messing around. We have always been able to talk about anything. Since the death of both his grandmother and uncle he seems to change up....like ...

Should I try living with him and see what happens?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

19 December 2008 (F) - 13 years between two of us. I'm older. we have a boy. we don't live in the same country. we dated for a year and then I got back to my place. baby wasn't planned but now we are happy to have him. since then, we've been together couple times. ...

Should I just throw in the towel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

19 December 2008 (F) - Five months and counting. I still think about my ex all the time. I have never been this hung up on anyone before. Granted it was my first long term relationship (2 yrs) but when does it end! I fell in love with him and I am afraid it will never go ...

If anything 'does' happen... is he just using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5847 days ago

19 December 2008 (F) - I've been friends with my guy friend for years over the internet, but he lives hours away. We've met up twice, and we acted just like we were going out - he brought me lunch, payed to go to the movies, he was hugging and kissing me - the one ...

Long distance relationship with single mum!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5847 days ago

18 December 2008 (M) - I'm back again. I wrote a couple of weeks ago about a problem I was having with my long distance relationship with a single mom whose son recently deployed to Iraq. I want to thank the person who answered for the guidance, because I truly think it ...

My boyfriend is away for a week and I'm a mess... how to cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

18 December 2008 (F) - Ok my boyfriend of a few months went to Las Vegas for a friends wedding. He'll be gone a week and I'm losing it! We are still in that see each other 24/7 phase. We never go more than an hour or 2 without getting at least a text from each other. Last ...

How to tell parents that I want to move out and to another country to be with my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

18 December 2008 (M) - Hi there, I'm currently living in South Africa and I'm a citizen here by birth, I plan on moving to the USA after April 7 in 2009 because thats when I turn 18, currently I'm 17. I want to move there and go live there permanently for many reaso...

Will he forget me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Will he forget me? I am involved with a man who lives in another city who has his own life but we ring and meet up from time to time! - The problem is although I am madly in love with him, think of him ALL of the time and keep photos of him n...

Is it over because I screwed up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - I have been involved in a long distance relationship for a little over a year. Everything has been fine until recently. She was studying for finals and informed me not to try to reach her until it was over, due to her busy schedule. She would ...

I never feel like I'm someone special to her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - I need help, I am in a LD relationship and have been engaged for a little less than a year. Before we made it official I would text and email her every day and even phoned her occasionally but she rarely did the same. It never bothered me at the ...

Married just because I'm pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - About three weeks ago I took a pregnancy test that came back positive. My ex and I broke up about 9 months ago after dating for 3 years. We still see each other at least once a month and generally spend a couple of days together. Now that I'm ...

Am I being too pushy with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Hello, Me and my boyfriend been together for 3 years now and we lived together for 2 years. I moved here in california last year. Before, he asked me to stay with him and not to moved anymore but i said i cant because i cant live with the we...

My guy has all these rules for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - i hope somebody can shed light on my situation... I have been seeing a guy 4 8 months, we dont live together, he lives 60 miles away from me, we are in love like truly, but he always tells me how i shouldnt ring him in work and how i should call hi ...

Two long distance romances at once.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) - in the world there are 2 people i really really have a crush on. but they live so far away. one of the girls is 16, she lives 5/6 hours away by car (but still in england) and the other girl is 16, and lives in New Zealand... and im a 16 year old boy ...

How do I go about meeting her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) - This girl i've never met, but we text/email often, seen pics of her, etc. I want to meet her but dunno how to say it. It'll be so awkward. How do i go about it? And what can we do? She does live an hour away so goin for coffee isn't worth it. Lol...

He says the relationship is one sided and I need to prove to him that I love him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - My name is Sam and me and my boyfriend had one of the best relationships ever and then I had to move to another country and we continued it through long distance. Then because of my work schedule I stopped remembering things I was supposed to at ...

Why doesn't he answer my e-mails? Is he trying to forget me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5850 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - My friend and I are in love however we can't be together for several reasons, the main one is that he is living in another country at the moment for some time (he is still not sure for how long) due to work. We normally e-mail each other a lot but ...

I'm missing him a lot but don't want to appear clingy, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - Hi. I recently started dating a guy - we've been together for about 4 weeks but live really close to each other so have been seeing a lot of each other. I go to his and he makes me dinner and we spend whole days just visiting places and getting ...

Struggling with being unemployed and in a boring relationship, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5851 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - i'm 24 years old and I'm struggling with things. I'm pretty well educated but I'm having a hard time finding a job in my field, and i've been unemployed for quite some time now. I also find that I'm really bored in life. I have friends but I only ...

I have become close to a girl who is in a LDR, I have trouble letting go, any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5850 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - I have trouble letting go. I have become close friends with a girl in my class even though she is dating someone, but they are dating long distance for the first time and they haven't seen each other in 3 months (he doesnt treat how she should be ...

Should I hold it against her that she neglected to tell me she has kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5851 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - I have been in a relationship with a wonderful woman for six months now. I am very much in love with her and want to take the next step in asking her to marry me. We are in a long distance relationship now. We communicate daily and never run out of ...

I know our relationship is strong enough for long distance, so why doesn't she want it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5851 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - Hello to all! So here is my dilemma, I have been dating this girl for about 3 years now. It is true love like I have never felt before...I am 28 and have been around the block so don't ping me. I know my girlfriend feels the same way, we never ar...

She kissed another man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

14 December 2008 (M) - Here is the situation, My girlfriend got together with me when i was hung over my ex. Things started out well and we fell for each other. I soon had to leave to study abroad 6 months into the relationship. While i was away i got lost in influenc...

How do I overcome this phase... or is it a phase?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5851 days ago

14 December 2008 (M) - So here is the situation. Me and my gf have been dating for over 2 years. For the past couple month we been arguing on and off every few days. And they were not huge arguments, they were the small ones that were settled the same night. But recently ...

Need a little help with my girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5852 days ago

14 December 2008 (M) - I am having trouble with my girlfriend. We have been together for 1 year 7 months and 11 days. I know weird I keep count but so does she. It's not hard to remember it really. Anyways we have been fighting a lot lately and it's been bugging me. I ...