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writes:Ok im in a long distance relationship, but I think I want a non available, not really that long distance guy. This is all based from a chat site by the way, anyway, I met this guy for the first time the other day. I've told him before that I really like him, but he's in a relationship, with someone he's never even met, but gettin to my point, he's really confused me, its all really confused me, as when we met, although we'd had a drink, (dunno if thats got anything to do with it) but we just held eachother all night, holding hands, with the occasional squeeze, and lookin into eachothers eyes and smiling, it felt amazing, for the both of us, we were so close to eachother, but I dont know if that meant anything to him or not, iv fallen hard, all over again, and its confused me majorly..
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (24 December 2008):
 Well you can always go up and see your boyfriend and then it will give you a chance to see if you like the other guy better then your boyfriend and if you have brought gifts then you can still give them to his family (i tend to think breaking up with someone over the xmas time tends to ruin xmas not only for the bf but his family too) besides you dont know what this other guys wants yet no point breaking up with your boyfirend only to discover this other guys does not want a relationship.
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reader, XxAnGelXxx +, writes (24 December 2008):
XxAnGelXxx is verified as being by the original poster of the question Ok i've got a little update which changes things slightly, well, apparently, for now at least, the guy who I really have a thing for and his gf have gone their seperate ways, and we're going out again on saturday, to me this all looks very promising. But then there's another slight dilemma, im off to see my current bf on the 29th, now if something happens with me and this guy, this saturday, im gonna be left with no choice but to get rid of the guy im seeing at the present really, and speaking of presents, i've bought all of his family christmas presents. So if I do ditch him for this other guy, that leaves me a bit stuck with all these gifts!
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (23 December 2008):
ok bit confusing you are both in long distance relationships him with a girl he has never met? And you with a guy who lives 150 miles away?
Right you need to figure out if you want your boyfriend or this other guy and he needs to figure out if having a gf who he has never met is better then having a girlfriend who ia 20miles away and who he has met.
Just talk to him be honest if he thinks it could work out then he should get rid of the girl he has never met and if he doesnt then least you know nothing will happen between you, this is why long distance internet relationships are so complicated someone always gets hurt
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reader, XxAnGelXxx +, writes (23 December 2008):
XxAnGelXxx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk just to add, my current ld-bf is round about 150 miles away, and this other guy who I spent the night with is only like, 20 miles, if that, away. Basically im at a loss, I dunno if that really meant anything to him, it must have, surely? But all this has really confused me. He didn't Tell his gf we were meeting, but she found out, and now he's saying he's got to put things right with her, so I dont know where that leaves me, also when we text we often say our 'love you's' alot too, Argh! I just dont know.
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