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writes:Well, I've been having a long distance friendship with this guy I met 2 years ago in a delivery I made at his office (US airbase). He happened to left shortly after that, so I decided to contacted him and since then emails have been sent.First once a month, polite stuff nothing personal. Then, it started 2 times a month, then whenever we feel like it. He's military and even deployed we started communicating. We are friends and we have said to enjoy our friendship. Now, we are starting on the phone. This has been slow but constant. We share personal stuff now when we talk. We care for each other, and share pics, jokes, family information, etc. I feel more open to talk to him and he does the same.When we talk his voice sounds excited and although he's not mushy he sometimes sound emotional.Is this going into something more than a friendship. I like him a lot and he gets kinda jealous when I talk about me meeting other guys, but he won't admit anything. Can I say we are having some sort of relationship here?I say I'm single when people ask, since he won't say a thing. But the thing is when I meet other guys I feel guilty and he doesn't sound excited me doing so either. I won't admit it until he shows something, is he showing as to expect a little from him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone for your answers. I remember telling him as a joke that I wish he can come back here, and he just said "yeah, I would love that", but I don't know.
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (24 December 2008):
 Ask him if that he seems to be showing quite some interest in you and you're just wondering why.A simple way to get an idea. Be playfull and jokey / flirty about it so you feel more comfortable about it and can easily move away if it's a negative.
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