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*sudipto
writes:I am 20.I know this girl for about a year now.We have never meet but it was all over phone and mails...We were supposed to meet soon.Six months back i told her that I love her and She said that she loved me too.It was the happiest moment of my life.She is really a wonderful girl,with a magnetic persona.I have started to love her so much and so deep now.I always think just about her and she is my dreams my heart my mind everywhere.But out of the blue, just a few days back she tells me that she has a new boyfriend and she cant hang around anymore with me.But the problem is I really cant get over her.I feel sad the whole day and night.I have lost my sleep.I feel like weeping my heart out,but I cant....My heart is just so heavy.I cant forget her and cant stop thinking of her.What was my mistake??She is the best girl I ever knew in my life and trust me its next to impossible to find someone like her.I am completely broken and shattered.She is just so good and I really love her.Hey many thanks for having the patience to read through all my problem.Sorry if I wasted your precious time.I will really appreciate if someone can help me get out it.I tried spending lot of time with my friends...but its no use.I just miss her. Please, help if you can Reply to this Question
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reader, a_decent_1 +, writes (26 December 2008):
 ONLINE LOVE ... !!
Alas !! They don't work.. !! You can't use the word Love so Randomly mate.. !! and Online love..? Please forgive me for saying this but i dont thing anyone should be stupid enough to Love without meeting.. !! It's all that Bollywood Shit and SIRF TUM kind of stories that can see a successful love story over the internet.
You'll get a million girls, get over a cheat.. !!
G'day
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2008): Dude i went through this EXACT SAME SITUATION almost half a year ago, what you have to do is go NC (no contact). By doing this, this will make her miss you and realise it was a mistake choosing the guy "that is closer" . Go NC for as long as you can untill she contacts you first expressing her feelings first. This may seem like a hard thing to do at first but there is no other way dude im sorry! GOODLUCK!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2008): okay dude first of all chin up..you are here to seek advice then why say sorry if i wasted your precious time?? this shows you are quite depressed right now..a blow to your confidence maybe..it happens..just think for a sec..you never even met her and you proposed to her and she said that she loves you too..what does it tell? i know i may sound a bit rude here but i guess she was never serious..she may seem quite innocent, sweet but hey when you are in love you like everything about the person..but to look at the larger picture what sort of girl would say i love you to you without even seeing you?? this is a trend in other countries and its not bad at all..but you know we dont find many indian girls doing this,you know it..she just needed a guy..i have lost in love once and i still miss her..and i also think what was my mistake? you know what believe in just one theory " one girl comes after another".. be serious only when you get in a relationship..dont get serious before getting in a relationship...i know you must be thinking i am jerk by now..and you must be thinking that you will never find a girl like her again..cause she is just different..but dude just look out every girl you meet will turn out to be different..its just a way of thinking..i know this cause i feel the same for my love..i am saying this all to you cause i have messed up alot because of the girl i love..i cant follow this theory of one comes after another and be serious only when you get in a relation..but thats the secret to remain happy..i wasnt able to follow it..atleast you make out of it..dude chin up and start talking to other girls..poison kills poison..and a wound given by a girl can be healed by another girl only..and i dont mean chatting with another girl..find a real friend..dont think i am a jerk..i am just telling you what i was advised to do..and believe me believe in that theory you will be happy...dont repeat my mistake..lol got a bit emotional here
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2008): i have been in a LDR myself and i know how magical it all feels in the beginning. but to be very honest, it doesnt take time for tht magic to be lost as soon as you meet because, phoneé emails is very different from meeting in real.
If she has found sumone, just forget it. It is hard but trust me youd get over it. And just imagine how much more magical itwould be if it wasnt on emails but in real lifee for you too. Just wait for the right one to come along in your real life and youd see how wonderful life would be :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2008): why did u never meet her?
do it!! get this girl!! x
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