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Why is he, all of a sudden, interested in trying? Is sex, the first time, sometimes not successful?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3296 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - My bf never used to be very much into having sex. We've been dating for over 3 yrs now. We are both college graduates. I'm working before going to med school. He's getting ready for law school. One of the biggest problems in our relationship was...

Is my girlfriend having sex with her personal trainer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

29 October 2015 (M) - Hi guys, I've been dating someone for 6 months now and generally it's been great. She has had a personal trainer (PT) for about 8 months. I was happy she had goals and wants to achieve them. I've started becoming concerned with the chat...

I am the parent to my teen brother - our parents are deceased. My brother is now 14. How do I raise and discuss talking about sex and all that to him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3314 days ago

28 October 2015 (M) - When i was 16 i held my baby brother in my arms and said to dad "god he's small, i'm not baby sitting". Well i think i changed his nappies more times then mum used to. Honestly a few years later when i went off to university my biggest joy coming h...

Physician's assistant - any suggestions on how to handle the gruelling demands of this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hey all! I'm quite confused about making career choices and really need some advice. I want to become a Physician Assistant with a focus in Psychology. It took me some time to figure it out but that's where I'd like to go. I enjoy helping pe...

How on earth do I bring this crush under control?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

27 October 2015 (F) - I am obsessed with my uni lecturer! Infatuated, and cannot stop thinking about him! This is very embarrassing for me to admit because I am almost 30 and have been in a relationship for 9 years. I am sure my lecturer must realise how I feel...

My mom is toxic! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3317 days ago

27 October 2015 (F) - This is a difficult problem and any help would be greatly appreciated. My mum has always been an attention seeking, malevolent narcissist. She likes to play the victim and does so at the expense of everyone around her. She has ruined her own and my ...

How do you deal with being the ugly duckling in the family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3319 days ago

26 October 2015 (F) - I'm really struggling with my self esteem lately and it's making me want to stay inside just so nobody will look at me. About two years ago something bad happened to me that made me very depressed and I ended up taking pretty strong anti ...

Verbally abused and hurt and confused and now he won't take my phone calls

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3319 days ago

25 October 2015 (F) - hurt and confused,I been verbally abuse by my man sam,accused of everthing,Sam start argument and move out for two weeks,i secretly voice record him,what I heard sound like he was snorting meth or coke, when I ask him,he said he sick of this ...

Which issue could derail us? Our age difference? His drinking? Or his use of drugs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3320 days ago

24 October 2015 (F) - Please help me. I really do not know what to do here and I am desperate for advice. My bf and I have been together for 2 yrs now. We live together. My bf is now 27. Before we got together we discussed at great length the age difference an...

Is feeling good about yourself is a sin? Or am I expecting too much from him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3320 days ago

24 October 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid I have on and off relationship with my current be of 4 years. Yesterday I changed in profile picture , which is my really fav picture and I like how I look in the picture. Earlier I used to have low self esteem issues, never really lik...

My boyfriend's stomach is coming between us

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3322 days ago

22 October 2015 (F) - I met a guy of 40 on a dating site we have been dating 6 months. He is about to complete his divorce and has two children under 8. His wife left him two years ago and things are amicable. If I have a future will I be expected to share my house w...

How can I dress to hide my muscular legs?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3319 days ago

21 October 2015 (F) - Do you guys think my body type is weird? I'm around 5 ft. 105 pounds, I'm very athletic so I have muscular thighs and I have a decent sized butt, all muscle and toned. I'm a double zero and have a 4 pack. My legs are longer and I have a short torso ...

My brother uses my depression against me when it is convenient for him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

18 October 2015 (F) - I am having an issue with my brother. We currently live together, and cannot move out due to various familial reasons. He does not do his share of the housework, and I am constantly picking up after him. The most common offences are leaving food out ...

Opened up to him about my vulnerabilities about having sex and now he says he might leave me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3326 days ago

17 October 2015 (F) - Hi! I have been here before but it was now some time ago. I met a very nice man about 2 years ago and things went fine for quite some time but then I started not wanting to have sex, even feeling very bad about having it. This had happened in ...

I want to feel whole, and satisfied and fulfilled.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

17 October 2015 (F) - Hello all, I am a 28 year old working female. I am single and haven't seen anyone for a while. There are many reasons for this so let me explain. 1) I was dating a guy.. for about a year. I was deeply in love with him... Even though ...

Should I meet my boyfriend's siblings now or later?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3328 days ago

17 October 2015 (F) - My bf and I have been dating for 3 months. And we get along very well, and he understands me. I have social anxiety, and although I am capable of going outside and being around people. When its one on one or a group, I get very nervous and don't ...

Why do we need to compare breast sizes? And what breasts do men want?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

17 October 2015 (F) - I often see posts on here from women with smaller breasts who feel that they wished they had larger breasts. Whilst I believe all Women should be encouraged to feel good about their bodies I often feel disheartened by the responses that put down lar...

How can I feel like less of a failure towards my Gf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3328 days ago

16 October 2015 (M) - I've been with my S/O for five months now and recently found out that this whole time I haven't made her cum. She took my virginity so I understand that I am not super experienced bUT I can't help to feel useless and like a failure. She says ...

Suddenly I've developed Erectile dysfunction. I feel I'm too young to have this happen. What could be wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3329 days ago

16 October 2015 (M) - AUNTS I NEED HELP I'm 22 years old. I shouldn't be suffering this right? I always get a very hard erection anytime anywhere Even very little things can make me hard.. i'm equally attracted to my beautiful girl friend But recently.. at lea...

Is this sexual harassment? The actions of my new boss make me feel uncomfortable.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3328 days ago

13 October 2015 (F) - I have just started working in a new role and have found my boss's behaviour odd. He has asked me whether I am serious with boyfriend, if the relationship is flexible and can be moved around for work, how old my boyfriend is, if my boyfrien...

How do I walk away from my vicious boyfriend and stop myself from communicating with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

13 October 2015 (F) - I've asked a few questions on here lately because I'm in kind of a messed up relationship but today I know I have to walk away from it. Two years ago I was raped and my boyfriend was totally unsupportive. After he brought me home from the police ...

I thought he was the sweetest guy but.... can anyone help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3332 days ago

13 October 2015 (F) - I recently got engaged to the most sweetest guy ever, or so i thought. He has recently been diagnosed bipolar and stopped smoking with the help of tablets as he isn't in the greatest of health. But, last few days if I speak to him I am babb...

I'm heartbroken over my married man!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3330 days ago

13 October 2015 (F) - I have been having an affair with a married coworker for two years...the feelings are strong and even though we knew it was wrong we always kept going back to each other. I found out last month from a mutual friend that his plan to adopt a baby ...

My boyfriend keeps tickling me, how do I get him to stop?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3332 days ago

13 October 2015 (F) - Sounds like a really stupid question, but here it is. How can I get my bf to stop tickling me? I really really hate it. He gets a great kick from it and how I react and squirm. And he does it practically daily. Most of the times, he will end up p...

He discredits all I do do for him. Tells his family when we argue. Yet he's pressuring for marriage? What's his problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

11 October 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year. We do not live together- about 30 mins apart. Neither of us have been married nor have children. Just wanting some advice and opinions. It really bothers me how I help him out a lot and i don't feel lik...

I hate hearing about how happy they are in the bedroom! What do I do to get over this hurt and jealousy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3332 days ago

9 October 2015 (F) - What can I do? I hate hearing about their sex lives and I'm hurt enough! How do I stop thinking about my ex and his new woman? My ex boyfriend was very sexual - sex obsessed I would say. I didn't date him for long as he wanted to move too quic...

How can I find out how serious my father's health condition may be?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3326 days ago

9 October 2015 (F) - I live with my father and today he sat me down to tell me something. He told me his doctors have found 2 rather large lumps on his brain and they don't know what it is until they do further testing next Monday. Now I'm someone who worries a lo...

What's some ''feel good'' to take to my boyfriend who is into fitness and keeps to a strict diet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3337 days ago

8 October 2015 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend is feeling weak and I want to take him something nice like food which would make him feel better keeping in mind he is working on his fitness and has a strict diet to follow..what would you recommendations do you have for "feel go...

My Bf donated his sperm before we got serious. How can I stop freaking and get over this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3338 days ago

7 October 2015 (F) - My boyfriend who I love donated his sperm 3 years ago. It was one of the first things he told me before we got serious and at the time I was fine with the fact that there were 2 kids with half of his dna. But then when things did get serious, it hit ...

How can I be happy doing what I do at home?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3339 days ago

6 October 2015 (F) - im a 34 stay at home mom for 11 years. im grateful to raise my 3 kids, but im depressed being at home cleaning and taking care of the house. this last year i started drinking in the day.. at first it made cleaning more fun, but i need to change. i ...

I'm frustrated, hopeful and yearning for more! Help? Advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3337 days ago

6 October 2015 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm a 46 year old gay male. I've developed a relationship with a 20 year old straight male (friends only) that lives across the street,that seems to be heading into a more than friends relationship. I've had a huge crush on him from the...

How do I know I'm reaching the cum stage? I can't feel it reaching that point.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3339 days ago

5 October 2015 (F) - Okay when my bf and I are having sex he asks me all the time did you cum, and I tell him that I don't know. And he says how don't you know if you cummed or not, and I say I don't know. He knows that i do cum because he can feel it, but i can neve...

I'm missing my ex although he was never the guy that would make me happy!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

4 October 2015 (F) - I feel like my heart is falling apart. I broke up w/my ex a week ago. I was the one who ended it, I am extremely broken. I wanted so bad for the relationship to work. When I started having doubts I approached him in a mature manner and he accused me ...

My boyfriend is being cold and indifferent because of my insecurities and paranoia. Can I salvage my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

4 October 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in our early twenties. My boyfriend is younger than me. For as long as I remember I have had trouble with my self esteem and I am insecure. At first my boyfriend loved and cared for me, when I had moments when I felt I wasn't...

My partner is a virgin. She keeps stalling about starting our physical relationship. What is there to "think about"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3303 days ago

4 October 2015 (M) - My partner nearly admitted to me that she is a virgin as I think she is as when I approached the subject of us taking our relationship a little further and asked did she want to stay the night with her replying with could she think about. What i...

If I conceive a child could the child be similarly afflicted with the same conditions, as detailed, and already evident amongst family members?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

4 October 2015 (F) - Please help. I don't know how to make a very important decision - to have or not to have a child. My partner of many years, who I am very happy with, is happy either way. He, and myself, have done plenty of research and we're very aware of...

Why will my boyfriend not say anything bad about this one particular ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

4 October 2015 (F) - I have recently gained some weight and it's making me feel quite uncomfortable. My boyfriend always compliments me even when I look like a walking dead extra or my hairs a mess. Well he basically compliments me every time I see him. I asked him ...

Does breast lump surgery take this long to heal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

4 October 2015 (F) - Hi, I'm so worried. Had a breast lump surgery 3 weeks ago. It's getting to 4 weeks now and it hasn't healed up yet. Still have steri-strips on it. Though I have been getting regular dressing on it. I feel so uncomfortable . I'm not feeling any pains ...

Has my body maybe been conditioned to only orgasm with visual aids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3339 days ago

3 October 2015 (F) - I could really use advice please. So I'm a 16 year old girl, still a virgin and have been masturbating since I was younger. It's a little bit of a blur when I first discovered how to please myself but I'm sure I was watching something at the...

I Cheated on my boyfriend but now he's harassing me. How should I respond?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3320 days ago

3 October 2015 (F) - I know cheating is a horrible thing but I cheated on my boyfriend. He of course was very upset and broke up with me. Now he is harassing me and getting his friends to contact me and harass me. He put that I cheated on him on Facebook and also po...

What can I say to my long term partner who has given me Gonorrhea?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

3 October 2015 (F) - My long standing partner has given me gonorhhea as far as im aware and i can suspect where it came from! It makes me sad rather than angry and i realise he has been directing a lot of anger towards me lately. I dont want to see him now anyway becau...

When I'm having some "special me time", I can't orgasm. What do I need to do to address this problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3342 days ago

3 October 2015 (F) - Lately when I'm having some "special me time", I can't orgasm. Like, suddenly I get too sensitive down there, and I have to stop. I have to. It's not the sense of too much sensation like "I'm about to orgasm", it's too much sensation like "...

To smoke cigarettes or not? Is there a compromise or a solution we can try to make things ok for us both?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

2 October 2015 (F) - I know what I’m going to write sounds kind of strange, and very long but I guess that’s just the way it goes…. Since I was a young teenager I was interested in trying smoking but I got the chance once at the age of 14 but I didn’t actually go throu...

Recently I have gained some weight. How can gain some self confidence back and stop feeling negative about myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

2 October 2015 (F) - I have always been a quiet girl who doesn't like to draw attention to myself, however throughout high school I learnt to believe in myself, stand up for myself and gained self confidence and 'came out of my shell'. That was 4 years ago. Now, aged...

How do I make this time different after the end of the relationship and stay away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

1 October 2015 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for over 4 years. It's been a difficult relationship many times where we break up and get back together again. The way I see it, my boyfriend has real difficulty with low self esteem (although he comes across as a real ...