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Archived questions from: January, 2013 (see latest in Friends with Benefits category)

Friends with Benefits: Help and advice

Are long distance relationships all about the sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - I'm just gonna go right out and say it... are long distance relationships just about sex? I mean, if you meet someone online and see them, say, a couple of weekends a month... and it takes around 3 hours to get to them and you're paying for the ...

Hate my toxic work place, where cheating is the norm. How can people cheat and not feel guilty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - I am really hating my workplace at the moment I feel that its really poisoness. Everyone seems to be cheating on everyone else and I am the only who seems to think its disgusting. One girl at work was giving me all this relationship advice with my ...

My 2 friends are in a FWB relationship but she's sending him mixed signals!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Two friends of mine are currently having "fun" with each other. The guy is one of my best friends, and the girl is his coworker. She's not looking for a relationship right now, and he's simply living in the moment. What's confusing my fri...

My ex FWB and I still flirt but now he thinks his g/f is pregnant. I want to help but its painful for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - A few months ago me and a friend ended up admitting we really liked eachother and had a few intimate encounters. However we agreed that due to the fact we are in a band together it would be better if we didn't make it anything serious and he also ...

He said he'll start seeing me again if I'll do a threesome

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - From the beginning he was already involved with this older lady. And there was one more other girl staying at his place for a week just to travel around. And there was me. So it was more of a friends with benefit thing. And I know it was immature or ...

I just really wish I knew if he really likes me or if I'm just being used.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - I really like this guy, we work together and know each other for about two years. All we are right now is friends. About six months ago we started to have sex and he doesn't want anyone to know because its no ones business. Well we still do and we ...

What does friends with benefits mean to you?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - I have a question for you lovely people.. Me and my ex stopped talking for a long time all of a sudden he missed me ( so he says) he asked me did I wanna be friends with benefits and told me I can't sleep with nobody but him... What is friends with ...

At 17 how would guys view me if I chose to have an 'open relationship?' or is it just time breakup with my Bf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - Hi guys. What is the male view of an open relationship? I'm 17 and although I enjoy the company of a 'boyfriend' I'm not ready to become monogamous just to one boy. An open relationship where we have the companionship but freedom sounds perfect t...

I experimented with my male friend, but decided to go back to females. Why is he so upset?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

24 January 2013 (?) - I’m a young man and I’ve trouble with a friend. I’m very outgoing person, I like to try new things and everything new. My friend is gay and although I’m straight, I thought that I’m living only once and decided I want to try something with another ...

FWB become girlfriend. Is it too soon to propose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

22 January 2013 (M) - My girl and I started seeing each other a year ago last week. I was not long out of a serious relationship and in the beginning it was just a 'friends with benefits' arrangement. We had known each other for almost three years and lived together for ...

Does my lover really love me, or does he just feel comfortable? He won't commit.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

21 January 2013 (F) - I have a coworker, i like him a lot we've been together as a friends for almost a year, started to see each other for about 3 months having diner, watching movies and snuggle on his couch with out having sex, but last month i spent the night af...

FWB tells me to "enjoy the moment", but the moment is now 18 months and one aborted pregnancy. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Am in an fb or fwb relationship for a year and half now. He is a coworker and friend who flirted a little with me. Because of my personal problems ie divorce, no final financial settlement and children now 8 and 4 entrusted to father by court I ...

Why would my friends with benefits ignore me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

17 January 2013 (F) - Hi iv been sleeping with a guy I know for about two years now. I normally go to his on a weekend say after a night out and he'll take me home in the morning. We get on really well and have a laugh we both know its just fun and I'm happy with that.if ...

Have things changed for the better, or am I just making it all up because I'm in love with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

16 January 2013 (F) - This is probably going to be long, but please stick through because I really need some advice. I've been seeing a guy since September, but I can't tell exactly what we are. I met him last summer at work and I instantly liked him. I'm usually ...

What does he want from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

16 January 2013 (F) - i really need advice and any help is greatly appreciated. i had a "friends with benefits" situation that lasted 8months with a guy but we both had feelings for each other. lets call him "Bulk." Bulk told me he was planning to make me his girlfriend ...

I feel good but bad at he same time. I told my FWB that I'd developed feelings for him. Now he wants a break?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

16 January 2013 (F) - Oh gosh, okay, sorry if this is a little long it may just end up viewed as venting. I've been seeing this guy and I've posted about this situation a couple of months ago. Well, we continued seeing each other and it seems now that it was clearly ...

Friend? FWB? Love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - A couple years ago I was in an intense friendship with my best friend. Throughout our friendship it was always difficult. But I was always his friend. The second year we were friends we became friends with benefits. Apart from that we shared a lot ...

He doesn't want me, yet no one else can have me...Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. So in a nutshell, I've been in love with my childhood sweetheart and now best friend for 14 years. Over these 14 years we have been drawn to each other like magnets after many failed relationships with others. I have always been v...

I'd like to be exclusive, not FWB. Should I just stop sleeping with him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

12 January 2013 (F) - This guy and I have many mutual friends. For months we kept running into each other at parties and finally about 7 months later I kissed him out of nowhere. He explained to me how he had been trying to find out more about me for months and try to ...

Was he trying to get closer to me? What’s going on with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

12 January 2013 (F) - I have been having a casual sexual relationship with a guy for a while now. He said he wasn’t looking for a relationship and neither was I. We have been enjoying really great sex but the last time we met up he really confused me. Straight after...

He met me, we've been friends for 7 months. The same day he had sex with her. Do I confront him? Or what else should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

10 January 2013 (F) - okay this kid and I were talking for about seven months but we werent exclusive! a few days before my birthday we hung out and remind you we barely see each other, but when we do we dont waste a minute, but the last time we hung out we didnt ha...

I need help ASAP! This guy is acting so dumb!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

10 January 2013 (F) - I started talking to this guy a month ago, he is the type that acts like a player but he really doesn't get too many girls. We go to college together in California and after we began talking about 4 days later we had sex, I know that was a no no. ...

I fell in love with my FWB guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4332 days ago

10 January 2013 (F) - hey well i have been with a guy for more than a year almost now.we are not dating each other.we are friends with benefits.we used to talk for hours and hours everyday but until one day i cut off with him without letting him know. after 7 months he ...

Does being "up front" about wanting a FWB relationship means you are now a "decent" human being?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - Why is it that men (and women) think that just because, they are being "honest" about wanting a FWB type of relationship in the beginning, that they are somehow a "decent" and upstanding human being? For instance, if someone who was going to rob...

I was OK to sleep with. But he said he could'nt give me what I wanted. How do I cope with this, and the fact he now has a Gf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. Back in September, I moved into a shared house with three other people. Two of them I didn't know before, but there had always been chemistry between me and this other person. This other person and I have been close ever since we me...

I hoped splitting up with my husband would result in Bf wanting to be closer. So why is he now hesitant about us getting closer?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - Hello People I am married unhappily, and have been seeing this younger guy for 3 years, i am 51, he is 45. We see each other once ot twice weekly, at the beginning he said it was like a FWB relationship, as time has passed, i have got a lot close...

Me and my FWB were both in committed relationships but I think I love him. Why has he distanced himself from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

5 January 2013 (F) - Hi. I was involved in FWB relationship for a year, it's someone that used to always be there for me, we enjoyed each others company and only started sleeping together after 9 months. I feel so much for him but we are both in relationships where I'...

How would you define the differences between FWB versus FB relationships?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F) - I'm curious about FWB and FB relationships. What exactly are they? I know what the terms stand for just need to know the differences. In a FWB relationship is there really friendship? In a FB relationship is it just do the deed and leave? ...

To everyone on this site, and especially the person responsible for this website: Thank you

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

4 January 2013 (F) - This is for every single person on this website: I am glad to see that there are still caring people out in this cruel world. All of you are so caring of people you don't even know. People that may be miles and miles away from you. People that...

Am I more than just a booty call?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F) - I've known this guy for 10 years now, starting back in elementary school. We went separate ways in middle school, but reunited in high school. We hung out a lot and then one day we kissed. I started to like him from then on, but he kept sending me ...

How can I ask him for another hookup without sounding slutty or needy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F) - After coming out of a very serious relationship and getting my heart broken i've decided to swear off realtionships for a while and just have fun. So basically at a party I hooked up with one of my male friends and we had pretty awesome sex. The ...

What should I do? I think I love my engaged best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

3 January 2013 (M) - This is going to be pretty long, I apologize. But if you are willing to read this I appreciate any advice. This isn't exactly easy for me to handle. I've never been good with relationships or dealing with my feelings, I think mostly because I...

Are his reasons for keeping it casual and unofficial valid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a little over 6 months. We were boyfriend and girlfriend until the end of November when he broke up with me. He said he wanted to break up because he's too stressed because he got fired from his job and he needed t...

He's been unreliable multiple times.I want to get him back. Do you think I can? and how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - So here's the situation. I started at a new school this semester (in September). It's a professional school so all the students in it range from about 22 to 26. Halfway through the semester, I met a guy and we really hit it off. We decided to start...

My online love interest said we weren't just going to be bed buddies!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, I started internet dating and first person I spoke to was really nice, we spoke for a long time and he said wasn't looking for just bed buddy but a relationship. Ended up sleeping together, thing is he seems to be treating me l...