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Archived questions from: June, 2012 (see latest in Friends with Benefits category)

Friends with Benefits: Help and advice

How do I trust her and accept her past?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 June 2012 (?) - I apologize for the length, but I don't know how to condense this or make it concise, as to me, it's complicated, so I'll try to get as much relevant information out as well as the main question/questions: how do I ask her if she's been with other's ...

It seems like my FWB was actually married or in a relationship and I never knew, how do I get past the guilt of what I did to this other woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - I had a fwb type thing going on for a year or so. The guy never promised anything more and when I started to get feelings i stopped the arrangement, told him to delete my number blah de blah. That was 3 months ago, he has txt here n there but i ...

How do I let go of a sex only relationship of 4 years?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - hi I have been involved with this man for four years with no committment and he sees other women.There is no respet and the relationship is not going anywhere, just sex. How do I let go of the relationship without constantly going back....

She said she'd sleep with me but now she's ignoring me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

23 June 2012 (M) - this girl i kinda like confesed to a mate that she would sleep with me if i asked, he told me so i confronted her and basicly asked whats the deal why didnt u tell me, all that sorta stuff, n it got to the point where after a lot of flriting and ...

I'm ashamed of how angry I got when I found duplicates of text messages to me sent to other women!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I been seeing a man in USA and I am in Canada about 6 months. We were having everyother weekend together. I just spent 3 beautiful days with him. I thought we were falling inlove, While sleeping somehow he hit me with his...

How do I approach this guy to keep it strictly FWB?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

18 June 2012 (F) - Ok so...I recently started a "friends with benefits" relationship with a suuuuuper sexy guy. Atleast I think we are friends with benefits. When we first met we both agreed that no one was interested in a relationship and we would just be friends. ...

Too many issues, how can we make this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

15 June 2012 (F) - Hey. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months. We have a lot of issues. But before I get into details, let me just clarify that I WANT to make this work. But I would like some people's opinions on how to make us work. Our first issue wa...

Fallen in love with a fwb, now what?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4571 days ago

15 June 2012 (F) - Hi everyone I know this is a common question but I really need help I have fallen completely in love with my fwb who said he didn't want a relationship which I thought I would be fine with he has just moved and I am absolutaly gutted have any of you ...

How to find a balance in a new relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

14 June 2012 (F) - I was texting this guy for a couple of months and then we had our first date. Our second date involved amazing sex and since then he has been in touch alot. He was going a bit distant though so I asked him what was going on. He said he does like me ...

I've fallen for him but he's not ready for a relationship, just comes around for sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

13 June 2012 (F) - Hi I was just wondering what I can do in this situation I met this man 16 months ago who wasn't really my type but I thought I would give it a go I said yes to a date he came round mine just for a drink as we lived very close we didn't sleep ...

What can I do to discourage this woman who's been having meaninless sex with my husband for two years?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4569 days ago

13 June 2012 (F) - Hello, I'm dealing with my husband's infidelity right now.He's the best hubby in the world and I love him to bits.. Only one tiny little problem.He's been having a meaningless sex fling with this floosy for 2yrs.It's a lady I have to see on a regu...

Can you like a person and yet have sex with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

12 June 2012 (M) - this girl wants to have sex with me because she told me, she also told me she had been hinting at it before, this is just a no strings attached casual meeting for sex (i think/hope) seing as we both find each other attractive and know each other ...

He's moving for better work opportunities, but we've been lovers and friends for 10 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (F) - Hello I have a issue, I have had a very good friend and lover for ten years and I really love him! We have a great time together great conversation and everything. He lost his job and he has bee out of work for some time now. So now hes moving to ...

Is he now officially my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

11 June 2012 (F) - So last night I was with this guy that I've been seeing for a little over 2 months and Ive been wondering what we are exactly but I've been too scared to bring up the "what are we" talk so I've been keeping quiet. Well we finished having sex and we ...

We only ever had flings, so why the need to justify himself about the other girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

11 June 2012 (F) - I have liked the same guy for about 4 years now, we have never dated or anything like that, however have had flings on nights out when we are both drunk. He's always very suggestive and every single time we're at the same party we will always kiss. ...

Finally fell for my FWB, but only after she'd given up on me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (M) - I've been single for 4 yrs now, I met this woman bout a year ago. We both we single for the same amount of time and decided to friends with benifits. We spend time together. We knew what we wanted which wasn't a relationship. As time go on we ...

What was she thinking when she decided to vanished on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4570 days ago

11 June 2012 (M) - I'm in the military and stationed overseas. I'm separated and the wife decided to leave and go back to the states. I ended up seeing this woman and we clicked and we really enjoyed each other's company not just sex. She knew that I was separated ...

Is this more than a sex buddy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (F) - I have a sex buddy , im always understanding torwards him i dont want him to think im so demanding or clingy so i play it off there are times when i get jeleous and show it like last week we were in the pools and my friend slashed water at him so i ...

How do I know if he cares and wants to be more than friends with benefit?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (F) - How do i know if he wants to be more than friends with benifits ? how can i Find out if he cares? How do i realize if im just another girl to him?...

Is he more than a sex buddy? I'm confused, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4577 days ago

11 June 2012 (F) - I have a sex buddy and I'm always understanding towards him. I don't want him to think I'm so demanding or clingy so I play it off. There are times when I get jealous and show it, like last week. We were in the pool and my friend splashed water ...

Do you have to be physically attracted to someone to have sex with them?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

10 June 2012 (F) - I think I worded a question wrong the other day, but what I really wanted to know is do men sleep with women that they aren't physically attracted to, especially more than once. I think my suggested question title got changed and people basicall...

Does he find me attractive? Does he want me? I'm confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4577 days ago

10 June 2012 (F) - before i start, i would like to say that i trust this guy 200%"or i wouldn't have done it. okay. there was this guy i met a couple months ago. the sexual chemistry between us was obvious. well we stared msging each other on fb, flirting and stuf...

I'm truly smitten but he wants to keep it a casual relationship. What do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

10 June 2012 (F) - Hi, I'm 41 and just came out of a 20+ year marriage. Met a guy online, met in real life, 'clicked' physically and (for me at least) emotionally. But he hasn't. THe sex is incredible - first person I have orgasmed with ever - and I am utterly smit...

What should I do about this friend with benefits, after what he said to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

9 June 2012 (F) - i met this guy last year in the month of may , so within few weeks he chucked me out of his life , saying he is not attracted to me . so he contacts me again after 6 months . well before that he was in a relationship with a girl for 7 yrs , things ...

Ally Vs Enemy: Understanding The Emotional Needs of Men

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9 June 2012 (M) - Is She His Ally or His Enemy? Understanding The Emotional Needs of Men By Frank Kermit, Relationships The best way I know how to teach people about the emotional needs of men is to break it down to absolute fundamentals. If people can und...

Its beena year and I can't get over my FWB guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4579 days ago

8 June 2012 (F) - Last summer i was speaking to a boy and we met up and then we just started having casual sex (friends with benefits).. i started having feelings for him but he had no feelings towards me so that was when things went wrong. He would always tell me ...

I'm pregnant from my FWB relationship and he has a girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

8 June 2012 (F) - Ok, where to start... I met this guy a few months back, we have mutual friends. We started talking quite a lot each time we went out, he'd tell me the problems he has with his girlfriend and stuff like that, you know as friends do. Anyhow beginni...

Should I slow down my FWB relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

6 June 2012 (F) - Okay... I manage to get myself into a tough situation here. About 7 months ago I began seeing this guy and it turn into a friends with benefits relationship, mainly because we had both just gotten out of relationships and neither one of us wanted ...

FWB relationship of 4 years. Is he insecure? Jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 June 2012 (F) - So ive had a sex buddy for 4 years on and off! We both got what we wanted out of it however im now 25 and want more! I told him that i liked him and wanted more therefore think we should stop seeing eachother... we keeped in touch and i told him i ...

I have feelings for my fwb, who I'm sure doesn't feel the same. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

4 June 2012 (M) - Iv had sex with this girl who was a sort of friend 3 times now. It was only supposed to be no strings sex and it still is for her. problem is i'm falling for her and not sure what i should do. she said at the start that she didn't want a relation...

Would a FWB work for me? I only miss the physical part of a relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

3 June 2012 (F) - Right everyone seems to think I'm scared of being alone because I've had two serious relationships by the time in 17, but the thing is I love being single But when I am single I miss having someone to hug kiss and have sex with so do you think if ...

Do I go for the FWB or go for the guy who isn't great at sex but wants a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

3 June 2012 (F) - Hi I was just wondering what I can do in this situation I met a man we became fwbs as he didn't want any commitment as he hadn't been single long when we met there is such a spark with us that the sex is amazing when we are together I met a man 7 ...

FWB relationship I care about him a lot and don't want to end things but it's frustrating not knowing "what we are."

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

3 June 2012 (F) - I met a guy at a bar last September, gave him my number, and the next day he sent me a text. It had been a fairly drunken night for me, and I couldn't really remember him, but he wanted me to come over and hook up, so I went for it. Pretty soon it ...

Would it be safe to ask for a Fwb relationship with the neighbor?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

3 June 2012 (M) - Hi, I always have sexual urges to have sex with my neighbor. We're both 15, she's very cute and has a creamy complexion. We're classmates in elementary. And I know that she has a major crush on me. She flirts with me all the time but in the past ...

The Friend with benefits that won't go away

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

2 June 2012 (F) - So I have a guy friend that I have known for about 3 years. For the first 2 years we were basically best friends. Spent several hours out of the day with each other, talked on the phone every free minute we had, and eventually became sexually ...

After hooking up with my ex, now FWB he doesn't respond back!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

1 June 2012 (F) - I know this is going to sound petty but I'm pretty upset so it means alot to me :) My ex and I ( dated 6 mos) recently ended things but care fir each other and decided to stay friends. Well, then we realized seeing each other would lead to mo...