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writes:I was texting this guy for a couple of months and then we had our first date. Our second date involved amazing sex and since then he has been in touch alot. He was going a bit distant though so I asked him what was going on. He said he does like me and I'm very attractive fun to talk to but he doesn't want to get serious but he isn't texting any other girls. He wants to go out, movies drinks etc but he says he can't be here all the time becsuse he has a lot going in in and out of work which I agree he does. We do talk and I know what his life is like. he just went distant becsuse he was scared I wanted more and he was trying to slow things down. I'm not asking for anything heavy at the moment I don't mind having fun and seeing where it goes which is what he said I just don't want a fuck buddy, it's trying to find a balance. Even though I don't mind being fun I prob am coming across serious and my mum seems to think its a good thing that he hasn't run a mile if I have come across like that when he isn't ready for that. He has just said its too early for all that talk. Which he is right. He's a great guy and I want to hang in there because I do like him. Am I doing the right thing? I think I am, just wanted some advice on subject.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2012): Be wary. It sounds as if he wants to see you when it suits him, have sex but no strings. It is clear that you being his full on girlfriend is not on offer. So I would back off, unless being his occasional date is something that is ok with you.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (14 June 2012):
 I would be honest with him. Tell him how you feel.
Go slow. Take the sex of the table for now if neither of you want the whole Fuck-buddy scenario. See where it takes you.
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