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Archived questions from: April, 2012 (see latest in Friends with Benefits category)

Friends with Benefits: Help and advice

Scared of having sex with my FWB and worried he will compare me to his ex....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - i've been on and off with this guy for two years now, we've dated twice but its hard now with me being at uni and him in year 12 so we're just friends, with benefits i guess you could say. we've done everything except handjob and sex..i'm actually...

Are most Friends with Benefits relationships usually kept secret or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - Hi everyone just a quick question about Friends With Benefits (fwbs) I am currently in one with a guy I really like I was just wondering if all fwbs are usually kept secret or do people tell each other they are in one? I have asked this question...

Should I not make a big deal out of what is on his facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy that i've been on-again-off-again with for a little over a year now. i love him more than i've ever loved anybody, and he never hesitates to tell me that he loves me, too. there have been a lot of times when thing...

I've fallen in love with my friends with benefits guy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - hi everyone I could really use some opinions I was just wondering what you think this means I have been in a fwb for a while now he comes to mine I go to his for a coffee or a movie or something he somtimes just wants to cuddle me and kiss me I have ...

I feel like my guy friend is trying to make me his FWB!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I have a really close guy friend for about 2 years now, we have a lot in common and we talk just about everything. I treat him just as a close friend and I have always been open to him about any topic, when he needs someone to talk to, I'd be the ...

I'm confused by his body language toward me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for several months now and originally was just some casual fun however I have now started falling for him. I am sure he is seeing other girls aswell as me though I see him really often, at least once a week since we have ...

I want to be FWB but he's pulling away!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - Me and this guy have been friends for a few months and after I left my most recent bf he wanted to hang out. I was hurt and upset and we had sex. After the first time he was super sweet and text me constantly. We went out for his brithday and had ...

A beautiful girl cares about me but I am not ready for a relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

24 April 2012 (M) - Hello. How do I say goodbye to a BEAUTIFUL girl? She has everything going for her but I am not ready for relationship with her. I want a no strings relationship and I am getting that with this other girl right now. My friend told me she is hurt t...

Will I ever love so strongly again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

24 April 2012 (M) - I was doing so well. Not thinking about her as much as I used to. Not remembering the happy times we spent together. I tried my hardest to blot out all of the memories from the best parts of my past. I kept myself active. I worked out, ate healthy ...

Still sleeping with my FWB when I have an amazing guy waiting for me....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

20 April 2012 (F) - The man I love (M) lives across the country from me. We have decided that when I move back we will be together but it's really hard for me to cut the ties I have here. I was with M for 1 1/2 before I move and we were on good terms when I left. He ...

Is it wrong to want to have safe-sex with as many beautiful people as possible?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

18 April 2012 (M) - Is it wrong to want to have safe-sex with as many beautiful people as possible? Some background info before the women on here start calling me a 'player' etc.... I'm 23 years old and was a virgin up until last year. For most of my life, women...

Is he acting normal for a sex buddy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 April 2012 (F) - I have had this sex buddy for several months and he seems to be more affectionate these days. The other day we had sex and he had to rush off and apologized a couple of times and said he would try to come back by to spend time with me. He asks me if ...

Should I go to Vegas and have fun with this guy who is a bit of a player?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (F) - I was hoping for some advice on a trip I may or may not go on. So here it goes. Like 3 years ago me and my then bestie was on holiday in las Vegas, I am from the uk and this was like the trip of all trips. I was crazy. I meet 3 guys and one do them ...

I slept with my best friend and now hes being distant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F) - I met this guy a year ago and we had instant attraction and started seeing each other. We were just sleeping together and hanging out for 2 months and got along really well but he was holding back a bit. We stopped seeing each other cause he wasnt ...

Friends with Benefits, confused and in love but no feedback

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

13 April 2012 (F) - we have been friends with benefits for a year, the agreement was not to sleep with anyone else, he is not ready for a relationship, during the time obviously we would get into a few arguments but it would cause me not to sleep with him, he did start ...

How do I end things with my friend with benefits?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

12 April 2012 (F) - Hi everyone this is a bit complicated my fwb lives 1 minute away from me its how we met by living in the same place I have met a man who knows my fwb and they cannot stand each other this man I met wants to come to mine he doesn't know that me ...

Friend pushed me away after we had sex for the first time.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

11 April 2012 (M) - You know how it is, you invite one of my best friends over. You study. A cup of freshly made brew turns into cuddles, cuddles turn into kisses, kisses turn into...well, a night of wild sex with no sleep. I had a crush on this girl for the past 2 y...

FWB relationships: would the man never date you because you're not his type and he just wants sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2012 (F) - I had a FWB relationship for over a year, very easy going no love job or complicatiions It just fizzled out and that was it. I get a random text sometimes. Today I bumped into him for the first time, I was in a rush but he spoke so I stopped for a ...

Do guys give oral sex if they have no feelings for you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2012 (F) - In a sex only relationship (booty call) do guys usually go down on girls if they don't have some sort of feelings for them?...

He doesn't want me for anything other than sex. How do I end things gently?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

9 April 2012 (F) - Hi everyone I really need help with this situation I have been sleeping with a man for over a year now I really like him he told me we were just taking things slowly but now I finally aksed him what was going on with us he said it is just sex so I ...

My FWB chose another girl so why does he act jealous?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

7 April 2012 (F) - I'm confused.My best friend is a guy,and we've had a..well..more than friends thing for over a year now.Nothing official,and I guess people would call it friends with benefits.We do act like a couple,and everyone thinks we're together.A couple of ...

Why is he still coming around when he said we didn't have a future?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

7 April 2012 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for the last 2 and a half years on strictly a friends with benefits situation. Well he lived with me for around 3 months and the more I got to know him and we got along so good and he made me laugh and we just really had ...

I haven't done this before, what is it you do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

6 April 2012 (F) - Hey everyone. Quick question, please do not judge me. A week ago I hooked up with a guy at a party.I am currently single and going through a dry phase so it was really cool. He also said afterwards he wants to go for drinks with me some time. Now I ...

Neighbor wants more than I am willing to give

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

6 April 2012 (F) - Hey agony aunts! I met this guy a month and a half ago, he lives in my apartment complex. I thought he was very good looking and at first he seemed like a good guy. The first time he started talking to me outside we talked for 2 or 3 hours in th...

Friends with benefits, what do you think?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 April 2012 (F) - Me and a friend of mine have been speaking for a little while and we got onto the question of how fun it would be to have a friends with benefits and before we knew it we were discussing actually going through with it, but i have never done ...

Drawing boundaries with an FWB.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

5 April 2012 (F) - I've got a pretty typical but still vexing problem... how do you deal with jealousy and boundaries when in a friends-with-benefits situation? I've been hanging out with the same guy, about two and a half months now. When we first started hanging ...

Are we technically friends with benefits?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 April 2012 (F) - We have had the exclusive talk, but I'm not sure if we are having a FWB relationship or if we are just both really busy and don't have much time to hang out before nighttime. Should I be worried? THanks for any input....

Is he more than a sex buddy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F) - My sex buddy and I consider ourselves a but more than that we hold hamds , and after sec once I tried to leave and he pulled me onto his bed. He likes to wake up to me , we open up when we hangout with friends it's no surprise when we kiss. He saw ...

Sent my FWB some pictures of me, should I ask him to delete them? Or should I trust that he wont show anyone?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 April 2012 (F) - okay i don't really know where to begin, but i met this guy 3 months ago, and after talking for a few months, we decided to be Fwb( this was mid Feb) we have seen each other once since we agreed to be fwb although we have not actually had any sexual ...

My FWB saw me kiss another man and now he wont talk to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F) - Hi everyone just wondering your opinions in this situation I have been sleeping with a man for over a year now who is trying to get over his ex as he was with her for a long time I went out at the weekend and I kissed another man and the man I have ...

I am not sure what I should do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

1 April 2012 (F) - MOD NOTE: Two questions from same asker combined into one: I am currently in a relationship. I have been hurt alot in the past and I don't want to get hurt again. I have told my boyfriend this and he assures me that he will not hurt me. How do I tel...