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writes:Hey everyone. Quick question, please do not judge me. A week ago I hooked up with a guy at a party.I am currently single and going through a dry phase so it was really cool. He also said afterwards he wants to go for drinks with me some time. Now I know the deal and I am not looking for something serious either. I don't want him as a boyfriend but would like to hook up with him again. Is it acceptable to make the first move and, say, text him? I am not extremely experienced when it comes to casual sex and do not know the protocol. thanks in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2012): Hi everyone! OP here. A little update. So I did text. At first he didn't even answer (so I though his loss lol) but he showed up at the place I said I'd be anyway so I guess you could say the evening turned out just fine. The sexual connection is most definitely there. I am meeting with him again tonight. I already said I like to keep it simple and so far he is treating me really great and respectful.
/As a guy, I wish more women were like you./ lol Ihatewomenbeaters. That's what he said too. I only hope this is not a mistake. I keep reading about such "arrangements" that go really wrong on this site and I was a bit skeptical about it. But I am happy to keep it easy. I still have issues with my ex and it would not be fair to either of us. Anyway, thanks for the encouragement. I needed the nudge! You guys rock. I've been reading for a while.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (6 April 2012):
 in this scenario , nothing ventured nothing gained, go for it
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters  +, writes (6 April 2012):
 You are fine, go after him.
It is always acceptable to make the first move, if you feel like doing it.
Since you do, do it!
As a guy, I wish more women were like you.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (6 April 2012):
 if all you want is sex by all means contact him first...
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