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writes:MOD NOTE: Two questions from same asker combined into one:I am currently in a relationship. I have been hurt alot in the past and I don't want to get hurt again. I have told my boyfriend this and he assures me that he will not hurt me. How do I tell him that I don't want to deal with drama and fight without sounding like a completely snype and rude? ... So, I have been friend with benfits with this guy. I am not popular or anything. In fact he and I used to hate eachother. Anytime we talked or anything it would and F- off or go jump off a cliff type of conversation. Then he started talking to me calling me babe and saying how he wanted to spend a night together etc. you get that point but I have told him that before anything is going to happen that he has to be a gentleman and talk to me in person and show that hes not ashamed to be sleeping with me. He hasn't yet. I have only sent him pics ( no nude) and rol played with him. I have tried not talking to him but it's like im addicted to him. What should I do to show him that I am more than just a play toy? Or should i just give up? Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 April 2012):
 I know how you feel, but you do know deep down that you will get hurt and believe me you will be a lot worse of them if you don't end this now. Just ask him to stop contacting you and delete all his contact details. Keep yourself distracted and busy and you will feel better in time. Try a new hobby to keep up your self esteem.
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reader, trinabwar +, writes (3 April 2012):
trinabwar is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you :) and I know I desere better but i just dont know how to stop talking to him. Its like Im addicted to him.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (1 April 2012):
I think you should just give up. He is using you and your self esteem is really low as it is so this will not help you. Stop talking to him and try and find a man who will give you what you deserve. This guy will only hurt you again and thats not what you want.
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