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Archived questions from: December, 2014 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

A dear friend turned hostile

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3604 days ago

31 December 2014 (M) - Dear Cupids; Let me start by setting the scene (I'll try to keep it to the point). I was raised in a large, strict and very religious household. I am one of 29 grandchildren (soon to be 30) and the only one who is gay. My family did not rea...

He will not commit but have I put up with this for too long? Should I stay or go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3604 days ago

31 December 2014 (F) - I have been friends with this guy for years I have met his mom and sisters they all know about me. He practically shares everything with me even personal stuff like his habits bank details etc. I literally am his first point of call whenever...

Should I give up on Prince Charming? Says he won't marry me unless I agree to become a swinger with him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3362 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I am a very attractive, tall, successful, and fun-loving 25-year-old young woman. I am deeply and truly in love with the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. Our sex is amazing, and the adventures we have together are truly unreal. ...

How do I move away from this friendship when we also work together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3604 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I have been friends with this person for over 5 years now , we both work together. I used to trust this person and she and i have both been there for each other. I have doing alot of self growth over the last year or so as i have been in a bad place ...

I've developed feelings for a friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3605 days ago

30 December 2014 (M) - My situation is quite complicated.. When I was 19 this girl really liked me a lot but I didn't like her at all.. I was very shallow when I was young and I regret it. As time passed rby we remained friends.. Eventually she became my best friend. ...

I'm not given a chance. why do I self sabotage and why are women so picky with friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3605 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - Its like I unconsciously sometimes ( not always) want to fail or make people not want to want to get to know me..as in the past Ive not been accepted, sadly women are cliquey at times and despite efforts ive been cold shouldered or dismissed. like...

I feel cheap doing what he asks. Will I lose my fiance if I stop agreeing to his requests to skype while undressed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3603 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I'm in a LDR relationship in which we have met recently and have hadsexual relationships. Everything is well except this man loves sex a lot. He's asked me to undress on Skype and arouse him to masturbate every other night. I've done it twice now...

A long time friendship is suddenly feeling like something more..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I've been friends with a guy for years I've known him since he was born(our parents lived next door) he's been in and out of my life due to him having feelings for me since adolescent. I never had these feelings as I couldn't get past the brother ...

My boyfriend despises my best friend and her husband!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

29 December 2014 (F) - I have a real problem on my hands. My boyfriend of 1 year is absolutely despises my best friend from my childhood and her husband. With New year celebration that he is hosting in his house where I just moved in he blankly refuses to invite my girfr...

My best friend wants me to change our wedding date

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3605 days ago

29 December 2014 (F) - My best friend is not talking to me and giving me the silent treatment because she wants me to change my wedding date, because she has some exams coming up on the week of my wedding. I really can't do anything about it, we really struggled till we ...

With my boyfriend but want to know more about his friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

29 December 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and our relationship is doom now. We argue a lot and I feel unconnected with him anymore. We don't have same interest and seems like being in different opinion on many things. I admit that we both feel ...

I need help - I feel like a fool

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

28 December 2014 (F) - Hi. Need help! I really liked this friend of mine and he knew about it. We met a couple of times but he started behaving strangely later on. Stopped responding to my texts and every time it was me initiating a conversation and ending up feeling like ...

My friend doesn't feel the same way about me as I do about her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3608 days ago

27 December 2014 (M) - i have been friend with a girl for over an year,i liked her from start but die to our families, we certainly cat get married.so i never told her that i like her,we both knew it but still my feelings for her grew, now i am cmpletely in love with her ...

My friend's boyfriend isn't good for her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

27 December 2014 (F) - I'm worried about my friend, she met a guy of plenty of fish 5 years ago,she practically speaks or txt every day with him,he's moved in with her 2times for a couple of months even her toddler loves him(dad doesn't see her child) Anyways last Yr ...

My girlfriend says my the relationship between me and my son is unhealthy!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

27 December 2014 (F) - My son 21 and we have a great mother and son relation but my girlfriend always finding fault in our relationship. Because my son tells me I'm his number one woman in his life and he's the only child i have and we can talk about everything, my ...

If I break up with my girlfriend I will have nobody!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

27 December 2014 (M) - My girlfriend complained to me tonight about me not having any friends..we both know it's true, but it stung because we always kept it beneath the surface. I'm an awkward guy and I lack the effort of connecting with people, especially in college ...

Former friend has joined the new group and is causing problems with gossip and lies.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

26 December 2014 (F) - Hello. My problem is this. I've been friends with this woman for three years. We were best mates all this time but then suddenly things changed. She began to spend time with a few other girls and for a long while we never saw each other. S...

Will my friends want advice on boys from an ex-christian?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

26 December 2014 (F) - I used to be quite the devoted christian girl; at high school I was even the leader of certain girl-focused cell groups were I'd encourage girls about valueing themselves by waiting till marriage to have sex. And now, a year later and at university, ...

I am falling in love with an internet friend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

26 December 2014 (?) - I met a guy on an advice site kinda like this one, and we've gotten really close. Originally he just messaged me to answer my question, and usually I don't respond to messages but he was so nice, so we became pretty close friends. We've only been ...

Why can't lovers be friends instead of enemies?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

26 December 2014 (F) - Dear cupid I have a few exes in my life that I still communicate with but now all of a sudden everyone of them seems as if I did some thing wrong to them but I didn't.We as adults still talk to one another but now they are ignoring me.I'm not ...

Would you change something that you hated about yourself, even if family and friends were against it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - So recently I have been thinking about having a my breasts lifted and possibly made a little bigger. I have spent the past three years getting into shape after years of feeling bad about my body and my body went from a size 18 (uk) to a size 8-10. ...

I feel like such a loser lately!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3612 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - Man I feel like such a loser lately. I'm 22 years old, filled regret from my college experience because it was basically 4 years of stress/emotional suffering/extreme loneliness. I graduated with an ok gpa luckily, but so far I have no job (I've ...

How can I get over feeling I'm too old to have a girlfriend at 26? How should I flirt, talk to and approach women?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

23 December 2014 (M) - The fact i'll be 27 in a few weeks and I still haven't had a girlfriend yet, obviously still a virgin, the fact that I didn't have my first girlfriend and didn't lose my virginity around the age-range most people do just makes me bitter and ...

Why did he change so quickly? Now he has said we can still talk and we can be friends, but I want more than that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3612 days ago

22 December 2014 (F) - I really need some advice? ok so I met this guy about 9 months ago, we started texting and then went out for some drinks where I ended up spending the night at his house. Nothing happened because I was a virgin (I know strange as I am 22) anyw...

He is dwelling in the past when we need to move forward!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3613 days ago

22 December 2014 (F) - Hi everyone.. I am quite in a pickle at the moment and i urgently need some advice... So about a week ago, my boyfriend and I were in an argument and things got pretty bad. And we were both invited to the same party. At that party I was feel...

I'd like to rekindle our friendship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3613 days ago

22 December 2014 (F) - I am after some advice...I had a best friend throughout my primary school who was amazing then we went our separate ways in high school. I now want to see whether she wants to become friends with me again. We haven't spoken for about 7/8 years now ...

I am beginning to hate my best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3613 days ago

22 December 2014 (F) - i am beginning to hate my best friend and i don't know what to do so basically... we have been friends for the past 3 years, since the start of high school and now i'm beginning to find her more and more annoying she is REALLY moody, and it's ...

Should I email now that they have deactivated their social networking sites?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3613 days ago

22 December 2014 (M) - Hi Well my situation is quite simple and i just wondered if anyone had any insight. Someone who has been a good friend over the last few years has deactivated their facebook account and has apparently changed their account on a mobile messag...

How do I find the strength to stop allowing guys to treat me as an option only?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3614 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid at this point of time I feel like a complete loser at love.. my previous bad experience was when I was dating this guy for Abt 2years and he finally came n told me he was going to marry his relative or some girl then his parents chose fr...

How do I let stubborn guys know that I really do not want to give out my number?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3614 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - I live in a town where men interpret "no" as "yes, but I'm just playing hard to get for now." In addition to that, they're also very forward and persuasive. Often when I'm approached for my number but am uninterested, I'll initially just plain ou...

Help, my friend keeps cancelling on me?!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3614 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - Hi after some advice- my so called friend keeps cancelling on me. 3 night we have arranged to go out/do something together and she either never replies to me saying what time are we meeting or you know general questions and then texts me for exam...

How much space do I give him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3614 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - Hi, I had quite a flirty relationship online with a guy that I met once who wanted to have a one night stand with me. I wasn't wanting the one the night stand, but I did like him and would have taken things further. However, he seems to be into ...

I've never talked to him. A bit shy too. Is there any way to determine if he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - Im a 19 year old female. So there is a guy that I really, really like. We have so much in common and he already knows that we do. At first, he thought that my friend liked him, though she doesn't , so he blocked her online and he once gave he...

We've got back together but the breakup has destroyed me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3615 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - I recently got back together with my then ex-boyfriend. We dated for 3 years before he decided to call it quits saying that he had fallen out of love with me.It was a real nasty break up and he was horrible and nasty to me I hardly recognized him. I ...

Flirting leading to some kissing at Christmas work function. Will my reputation be tarnished? How do I handle any reactions at work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3613 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - Hello everyone. Ive been at my current office job for about 3 months now and we've just had our annual Christmas work do. I'm 22 and I have had a bit of a crush on one of my coworkers for a while. He is 45 and married. I'm also in a long term r...

Why is my best friend directing her anger towards me? The event planned was a group thing.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3614 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - To keep it short, our group of friends had a secret santa event planned to get together for Christmas. Basically, she rarely hangs out with us when we ask. But she VOLUNTEERED to host the group event and have her brother do the drawings for who...

Why not me...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3615 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - Where do I start? This may be a long question, but I've been agonizing over this for over a year... I'm a graduate student and I think that I may be in love with a guy I go to school with. We habitually stay up until 2 or 3am texting one anot...

My boyfriend loses interest in a girl if she puts out too soon.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3614 days ago

18 December 2014 (F) - So my boyfriend has this "thing" where he loses interest in girls if she puts out too soon. I know this because we were friends for a long time before dating. And he would meet a girl, he seemed interested cause he would even tell us, "I met this ...

I really like her, but so does my friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3616 days ago

18 December 2014 (M) - me and my friend are at the same uni, same course and same accomodation and we live next door to this girl who is a really nice girl and very pretty. my friend and her have a close friendship with each other. my friend feels that she likes him and i ...

My first real relationship and I'm feeling smothered

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3616 days ago

18 December 2014 (F) - I am currently seeing a guy that I have been friends with for just over a year. We met each other through work and still work together now. We started talking more regularly a couple of months ago after he went through a break up, and soon after he ...

Like cinderella I want to go to the party, but instead of an ugly sister an ex friend will be there!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

18 December 2014 (F) - Hi ive been invited to my partners office party. I feel nervous as have not met any of his friends or wives/ partners. My major problem is a ex friend of mine and his who he also was very close to will be going as she used to work there and her ...

Is it me? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3616 days ago

18 December 2014 (M) - So, I'm a 20 year old gay guy and I'm feeling a little lonely and vulnerable right now. I'm already in my 20's and I've never even kissed another man yet alone have one as a boyfriend. And I really wanna know why that is. I mean, I know the fact ...

I want him to myself for two nights!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3618 days ago

17 December 2014 (F) - I recently met the most incredible man. Which is generally how I begin these questions, but this time, it's different! He's everything I've wanted, we have so much open communicating and all we do is laugh and we really understand each other. The ...

Met someone new. Is feeling like maybe I might be the crazy one for thinking and feeling the way I am normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3618 days ago

17 December 2014 (F) - I was here in october questioning about my relationship with my boyfriend, basically if i still loved him. and I do not, in all honesty probaly hadnt in a while, had just gotten comfortable and put of the inevitable. I was back in November after th...

She's really slow to reply when we communicate online. How can I determine if she's really interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3618 days ago

16 December 2014 (M) - I have just started talking to a girl on an online App, and we are getting along really well. I gave her my number she texted me and we've been talking, however she takes ages to reply even though she posts on twitter etc at the same time, but when...

I'm so confused. Does she just see me as a friend or is it possible she sees me as more than a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3618 days ago

16 December 2014 (M) - She first suggested doing something together we have since met a few times. During the 1st occasion she was fairly scathing about a girl I occasionally speak to. On the second occasion she informed me she had broken up with her boyfriend but I was ...

Should I stop going on about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

16 December 2014 (M) - I have bein going with my girlfriend for ten years and the orther night she went out and had a few drinks and slept on a couch by or self . The next day I found out their was a male friend beside her then she confessed and sai. She slept in the ...

Unhappily married and strongly attracted to another woman

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3602 days ago

15 December 2014 (M) - Hi last week I went out for a Christmas meal and drinks with colleagues and it ended up with just me and a girl. We both work remotely from the office and see each other on the odd occasion but live near each other. Anyway we ended up have a couple...

There's something about me that makes it hard to make friends

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

14 December 2014 (F) - Lateley in my life, I have felt very lonely. I got through a divorce from a very mentally abusing man and I have always sort of been that nice girl finishing up last. Many girls sees me as a threat because of how I am as person ( I always st...

She said she will always chose her kids father over me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

14 December 2014 (M) - I've known my girlfriend for about ten years in total, I've known her family longer than that. Four months ago we got back in contact for the first time in eight years and things went from friendship to more quite quickly because of the history we ...