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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Lonely and really need a man in my life again...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I'm so lonely. I'm not that much of an outgoing person i find it difficult to socialize in big groups of people and can come across quite shy. About 2 years ago i got together with a guy who i could be completely myself with,i fell for him. That ...

I feel like everyone hates me and that I just don't matter.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Hi All, My life feels so weird lately, I have friends on Facebook that take their friendship away without giving a reason, I get ignored on Facebook, anything I post doesnt even get a response! I feel like I dont exist, at a works party recently...

Is this girl just playing games, and a liar?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - This is a bit of a story, but please bear with me. I guess i probably know the answer anyway, but typing it out might be theraputic in itself. 4 weeeks ago I started chatting to a girl online, she approached me first. We chatted and really hit it ...

My best friend's boyfriend likes me, and I like him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I feel pretty bad for liking my best friend's boyfriend, even though i liked him before she did, but i never told her. Her and him haven't been dating that long but she's really mean to him she talks to other guys while dating him and she calls him ...

How can I show him that I'll be there for him regardless of anything and that he has nothing to fear?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for about 2 and a half months. We have been really hitting it off. We both absolutely like each other and have soo much in common its like seeing myself in a mirror. he treats me like his girlfriend, he h...

Should I wait 3 weeks for him to break off his other dates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy for about 2 months now. Sex has come up and I have stated that I will not have intercourse until we are in an exclusive relationship. At the beginning of the week, he has said that he likes me a lot, and that he 'needs t...

Will she ever be happy in this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5218 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Ok. A friend of mine, who is in a relationship with her bf for 4 years plus, but these 4 years was a rough ride for her. She told me she has initiated a few break ups but patched back with him. She has slept with him once. She tells me he controls ...

How to help a shy man...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - i've been trying to find a girlfriend for my very shy friend. But they won't go out with him just because he is shy. He thinks women don't like shy men that they want confident men. He thinks he wasting his time trying because he is shy....

I hate it when he hangs out with his friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are really happy with each other. We love each other and never fight. But there's just this one problem that bothers me every time. I don't know why, but I just hate when he hangs out with his friends. I mean, I feel like ...

Is this girl even remotely interested in me as well?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - There is this girl who kinda blew me away the first time I saw her. I didnt really think much of it at first, but over the last months Ive come to realize I really like her. But she happens to be 2 years older than me (Im 20). Anyway, we alw...

Help, I'm so confused about my sexuality...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - I've always liked girls but the last three years or so I've had nuthin but bad luck with them.... I was telling one of my brother's gay friends about my problems and he said that I might be gay or bi........ so i did soem work and im not sure and ...

He wants me to choose between him and his brother...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we have been going out for a long time i love him a lot and his older brother is my best friend. His brother was acting a little wierd around me and then he told me that he loved me and that i have to chose between him and his ...

My best friend's girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5218 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - So here's the deal... I'm really falling for my best friend's girlfriend. But it's a bit complicated.. I've known the girl (we'll call her Lisa) since I was in middle school, and ever since then, we've been pretty good friends. We used to live ...

How do you tell a guy you're just not interested???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Hi Can someone please suggest a nice way to tell a guy that i'm not interested. Just so everyone knows, I'm 40 and recently single (divorced less than a year) so i can make my own decisions. I met my friends dad recently in a not so nice...

Whens it time to end it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Mods Note: OPs own title: So lets call this guy J. Me and J met 4 years ago on the computer thru a netural friend. (He was my moms friends step son before his dad and her broke up) So basically her x step son. Anyways, we clicked so quickly and ...

Everything was fine, but he's turned funny, can anyone give me any ideas why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - There is a guy I have liked for a long time who I have cause to see once a week. I decided to let him know I liked him a while ago. We are both unattached so I didn't think there was anything to lose. He told me he didn't think of me in that way a...

I dwell on things, how can I be more assertive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

30 July 2010 (?) - I always let what people say to me get to me and bring me down. I've had run-ins with ex-friends years ago that I still dwell upon and let it affect how I feel. I dwell upon a lot of things that people have said to me and it keeps running through ...

Am I being used by a married woman?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - hi all, hope someone can help. it has been two years since a have fallen for a work collegue. we could not be any more different. im 33 and she is 48. i am white and she is black. and here is the big bomb shell...... she is married. anyw...

Why doesn't this guy like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - please forgive me for asking but im really upset and need advice. my best friend is friends at work with a guy who doesnt like me. why ? because he works with another woman who is very bitchy and doesnt like me and he has been listening to her...

I hate my boyfriends friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. We have made it through long distance and everything. He is back for the summer and has to leave soon to go back to school. We all went to school together i'm 2 years younger than the...

In love with my brothers friend !!! help me to understand his signs. Does he like me back???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I'm in love with my brothers friend, and I really don't know what to do.. I'm not sure about what he feels and thinks of me, and I need help.. I've known this guy since I was a little girl.. We used to be very good friends when we were little kids...

I feel so bad at the thought of why I get treated differently, why am I different as a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5137 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Hi i need help with a friendship. I need to improve it. Quickly. I know it wont happen at the click of a finger and maybe i am hoping its gonna happen quicker than it will but either way i would do anything to get it there. Me and this guy are good ...

Help!!! I don't know where I stand with him. Should I text him back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I was texting this man for 2 months, he used to text me every day and we had met up a couple of times but not lately, so last week I asked him in text where we stood and he replied "not too sure I find its best not to worry about it and go with the ...

I am sooooo trying to give her her space but I'm also a bit confused here...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - Hi Firstly I would like to apologise for the length of my post, I wanted to give you as much information as possible so you could make an informed decision I was dating someone for 4 months and it was going along very well without any hiccups...

One of my breasts is much larger than the other.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I have a lot of problems and don't know where to begin but I guess I'll just start. I have one breast that is much larger than the other one. In school kids called me quasimodo. I have to be specially fitted for bras. I have never had sex. I am ...

I'm not sure if he is just playing with me or what... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I am a female of 24 years.. been single for a while now, and just recently started dating again, i met this guy who's 5 years younger than me, we are not of the same race, which i dont see as a problem. I'm really starting to like him after 2 months ...

Should I confront my friend or would I just be lowering myself to her level?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I need advice cause I'm going mad. I have been friends with this girl for over 10 years and I have helped and been there for her no matter what. She was with this fella for a few years until he cheated on her with a man, I told her get rid whic...

Here are three of us in this relationship! Me, my boyfreind, and my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Hi All, Wondered if you could advise me on the following plase. !! I have been in a relationship for two months. For the last month it as been rocky for various reasons, but I have realised that alot of that is to do with my anxiety, and am working ...

He has a girl and I need to forget him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

30 July 2010 (?) - Dam I just need help in fergetting This guy I heka like .. Ever since I know him I like him, and this is like 3years all ready and I just cant leave him in the past.. A year ago we went out for a month but something stupid happend that caused us ...

How can I show my boyfriend that my male friends are ONLY friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - How can I convince my boyfriend that my boy friends are just that, my boy FRIENDS? I offer to have him hang out with me when i'm with them but he always bails and I can't get them all to meet... ...

I did so much for her, yet when I decided to stop receiving her abuse all she did was get mad at me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

30 July 2010 (?) - After college, I continued on with my education while my friend "X" had her plans not go according to the way she wanted them to. (She didn't get accepted to grad school and didn't get a high paying job she wanted.) Over time we saw less of each ...

Do I tell my friend he is not as popular as he thinks, or let him learn a lesson?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - First of all, please don't think I'm like a terrible person for writing this(: Ok, my best friend (who is a guy) I mean we're like inseperable, is playing basketball this year. He tried out last year, but didn't make it. A few guys on the team gave ...

My bestfriend likes my boyfriend , what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - what do you do if you so called bestfriend likes your boyfriend ...

Guy keeps trying to contact my girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - MOD NOTE: OP's own title: Hey people, So me and my gf been back together for almost 2 months after a breakup and things are so far going okay. But the guy she was talking to during the breakup still from time to time tries to call and text her. An...

Dont want to be his fwb, I want all or nothing, but how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I don't get him at all! I've been talking to this guys for over a year now. Sometimes we'd be on and off because I wanted to get rid of him but it looks that won't happen anytime soon. So I text'd him last night actually, just to see what was up. ...

Will she date the guy again simply because another guy insulted him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Ok here goes. This girl that i like and myself recently (about 9 days)got into a verbal spat and to kinda let it die i havent contact her since. Yesterday i find out that she went to a rock concert with a guy. When she came back from the concert ...

Should I work on the friendship I have with my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I have been good friends with an ex of mine for a few years now, we used to talk regularly but since he met someone new about 6 months ago he never gets in touch now. This is unusual because he has stayed in touch throughout his other relation...

Am I In Love - How can I tell?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I think ive only been in love once before, i have a general knowledge of the feelings that come with it. Recently i have noticed a subtle feeling for one of my good friends. And i cant tell if this is just serious platonic love for that person, or ...

We have been together for over 7 years.. Now she wants to break up with me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend now for over 7 years. We met when she was 15 turning 16 and I just turned 19. At first we became friends because of common interests and where we were from. When she turned 18 she moved out of her parents house and so ...

I want to help my best friend but they won't open up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - What can you do when your best friend is feeling down and something is clearly bothering them, but they won't talk about it or let you know what's wrong?...

I think I'm in love with my female best friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - I seriously think that I'm in love with my female best friend, and it'd mean so much to me to have a chance at being with her. I miss her when we're not together, and feel elated when we are. I think I want her to know how I feel, but without ...

I want more than that but not sure show to play it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I met this guy on a dating site about 3 months ago. We have met about 8 times and get on really well. After the first date he said that although he fancied me he would prefer to become good friends and see what happened. I was fine with that but we ...

Its not her thing so why is she mad at me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - What did I Do Wrong? Ok so me and my guy best friend John, are planning a camping trip. He made up a list with, Some french girls (I live in a french english community), Some guys, me and my boyfriend. Well talking to me one friend about it, he went ...

I don't love him anymore but I'm worried about breaking up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - OK, there are so many part to this story I don't really know where to start. Basically, I've been with my partner for nearly 5 years (I'm 20 years old), we have lived together for over 2 years and got engaged in 2008. I thought he was the perfect ...

Question for men: why is he acting like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - ok so i would like some advice , from men please. i have a few questions if you could kindly elaborate. what does a man really mean when he says these things:: After a string of dates with someone, the following occures, he is clearly interes...

My colleagues keep sticking their noses in about me not being able to drive! How do I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I am getting increasingly irritated by some comments people-mostly colleagues keep making about me not having a drivers licence. Its not like I’m not trying-I’ve taken my test several times and failed on stupid things so I keep trying. ...

He likes my best friend but then why would he ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - There a guy ( I will call him mike ) he seems to like my friend (Jane). I think were friends we talk a lot he talk to me about movies like he go to cinema and he like that movie or about some books he read is just a normal conversation be...

We broke up because we never see each other or speak often, then I found out he texts my friend all the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - So recently me and my boyfriend broke up due to NEVER seeing each other (literally). We hardly talk to each other now because he works all day everyday and has football.. He told me he still really likes me and we can "try it out" when school starts ...

How can I find male friends that want to stay just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

29 July 2010 (?) - So, my issue is I don't have many friends of the opposite sex. Why? Because I've lost them all because they started having romantic feelings for me. My issue is pretty stupid and simple, but it's urgent to me. How can I have guys who are just ...

Why do the nice, smart girls always have to wait years before someone finally takes an interest in them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - my best friend is the nicest girl you will ever meet! shes cute and sweet and everyone she meets likes her. lately shes been upset because shes never been asked out. my question is why do dumb b****y girls always have a bf but nice smart girls have ...