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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

My sister found out about my relationship and could ruin everything

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Hi M 19.. I'm in a very serious and sweet relationship with an amazing guy.. Here the prob is I dont know how but my sis got to know about my relationship.. Guess she read my messages or cards.. This the worst that could ever happen to me or ...

He may be confused, but now he's confusing me, and is he emotionally blackmailing me as well?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Hey. I am 17. I met a guy on a gaming website 6 months ago. We played games and there was a chat box there too.. So we chatted and played for a month. He is 22. I told him where I lived after a month and found out that he lived in the same area as...

My mother's manipulating ways are driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - my mum has always been controlling and manipulative and we used to argue when I was growing up. im from a strict asian family and didnt have freedom like my friends through school and had to lie about going out, boyfriends etc. now im at uni ...

First time he hasn't been in touch! Is it because of his son?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for the past few weeks. He is separated and shares a son with his ex part-time. Unfortunatly over the holidays he did not get to see his son and was pretty upset (understandably). During this time he was texting me a few ...

I'm in my mid 40s, but my overbearing mother won't back off!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - I'm trying to figure out how to deal with my mother. Quite a bit of the following is venting, so you may want to skip to the question at the end. I'm in my mid 40s, but she still tries to tell me what to do constantly. There are many thing...

He enjoys hanging out with his friends more than me!

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31 December 2010 (F) - i m 20 yrs old n in a relationship with a guy since the past 5 yrs..off late differences r popping up in our relationship like in our choices of places to go or any opinion..n moreover he has this whole guys friends group whr he enjoys himself ...

I don't want to hear my divorced father talking about other women!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - hey, my dad is devorced and he has this online dating things and he talks to me about the women and i don't want to hear it, and it makes me mad that he is not with my mom i don't want to think of im with another girl it drives me insane . but ever...

My son is a crack addict, with criminal charges, on probation for the last 7 years. What can I do in this horrible situation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - My 27 years old drug-addict son ,causing me and my family lots of pain. He moved back several times in our home, and we tried to help him over and over again. But it failed every time. He is here again. On house arrest, so he can avoid jail. I...

We have great chemistry. I like him. But what are your thoughts on fact he has no real friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, I have a very close friend and we hve great chemistry. He has liked me for a while now he said, and he would love to go out with me. I told him I'd think about it, but I'm sure I'll say yes because he is such a great funny and cute ...

Does anyone know why I get so upset?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Lately I have been really emotional. I will get really mad or start crying over the most pathetic things. I realize what I'm crying over is silly, but I can't help it. Does anyone know what could be wrong with me? ...

Is this the end? He left my daughter and I stranded on the road.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I just let my boy friend move in with me because he didn't have a place to move to, so we agreed we would split everything 50/50. It has been 2 days and he works a lot so we don't see a lot of each other. We went to go transfer internet and cabl...

This boy is so shy, so did his Uncle lie to get this boy and I talking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5064 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I know this boy, he is around my age. His Uncle is good friends with my mother and he told me that this boy likes me which sparked an interest in me. After some time I too became to like him, but the problem is this boy (After getting to know him ...

Should I lose my virginity to my sisters boyfriend with her blessing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - So I have a complicated situation where my sister and her boyfriend are completely open to open relationships where they'll see other people/have sex with them, but will be dating each other as each other's main partners. I'm a virgin and hadn't h...

My parents are against this relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been dating for well over a year. We are both freshman in highschool and everyone looks at us as a serious couple and knows that we wil last. He comes from a rough background, his dad left him and his step dad beats his mom ...

I'm a lesbian left with a broken heart... and I just came out to my parents I NEED HELP PLEASE!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - two years ago i met this amazing girl, online, she liked me, and she showed me that she's interrested in having a relationship with me. i was interrested too... she was so cute and an amazing person.. or at least that's what she showed me so i a...

Should I date one sister when I want another?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - Zarah and Samantha are twins but not identical. I know Zarah through work. Zarah then introduced me to her twin sis Sam. Zarah keep trying to set me up with Sam. But I want Zarah as she's better looking, friendlier etc. Zarah's been with her bf Mark ...

How do I get emotionally close to my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - i'm a 16 year old whose mother left when i was 13. the only person i'm close to is my sister. i'm afraid of emotion and i'm so used to being by myself that it's weird to have attention. i want a boyfriend and i want to be kissed and held but i'm ...

I want my husband and lover back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - my husband said he is in love with our children's best friends single mother. We both have two boys, and have been friends for years. Doing activities together all the time, with and with out our boys. Camping, vacations, bike riding, movies, etc.. ...

Was it me? I tried my best, even though he cheated, kept a mistress who he's now married.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Please Help! My ex of 4 1/2 years was cheating on me for at least 4 months. It's now been almost a year, and I think he married his mistress. After all the broken promises, the betrayal, the manipulation why does it feel like a big hole in my st...

His mom walked in on us having sex!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Hi. Im not gonna go round the houses with this, its embarrassing enough! My boyfriend and i (of 7 months) were taking advantage of his free house yesterday lunchtime ish. His mum unexpectedly arrived home early and caught us having rather heavy sex, ...

Help. Baby daddy family drama part 2.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - My son's biological father, we will call him Cord, died in June of 2009 he was drunk on father's day and fell off of a roof. My son was six months old at the time. 1. Cord was never there for our son even before he died. He never helped me financ...

I'm his wife and yet I feel like a "dirty secret"

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Needing Advice My husband and I recently married. We had discussions about concerns prior to marrying and I thought all was settled....Wrong...My husband went to visit his new Grandbaby at his ex's home on Christmas. His son, who is in his 30's was...

Why would I condemn his child?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I searched for my first boyfriend from years ago on a social network in Jan 2010. I did not contact him, but one of his friends contacted me about a relative becoming a client. Come to find out this woman is the mother of his adult daughter. She ...

I resent my stepson and his mother.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I have an issue that is making me feel absolutely awful and is threatening the future of my relationship. My partner of five years has an 11 year old son, and I just can't bond with him. In fact, I have always experienced feelings of resentment and ...

What's the best spacing between kids?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hey me and my husband both want to have a lot of kids but theres one problem, we cant agree on the spaceing of it. He wants to have them all close togather but i want them to be spaced out. So they each can have a "specail moment" like when they all ...

Do father's tend to be closer their sons or their daughters?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - hi my question is do dads tend to be closer to their sons or their daughters?? ...

My girlfriend's mother still won't accept our lesbian relationship after five years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm a 21 year old woman and have been with my girlfriend for nearly five years now (on and off). She is from a very close family and her mother wont accept us. This means at christmas time for example (when we are both home from uni), that ...

Do I tell my sister that her boyfriend is coming on to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - my sister is 2 years younger than me and she has a bf the same age as me. They've gone out 4r a year! She's lost her virginity with him and has told me that he is the one and that she loves him. And she isn't messing, she takes love very seriously! ...

Did I lose a good guy by vacillating? And can I trust the other guy?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Been dating again - Guy one: European guy Was perfect until we fell out with each other over a derogatory word. Guy two: US guy 2 wants to fly me into Florida and has bought me a flight - now am battling what to do. Been getting to know guy two ...

My ex has no contact in our son's life but can he step things up later?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - hi everybody,i had a two years relationship that end up with a cute little boy.since i got pregnant,my boyfriend had run away with another girl,he had never visited me,he does not even know my son's name.he called me weeks after my baby was born,i ...

I am AWFUL at reading women and I really need help here. Does this girl still like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - I’ve known her for 1.5 years. I've asked questions on here and 99% said she was really into me. They thought I was dumb for not asking her. She sort of felt up my abs at a party. Touched my shirt where my stomach was.Smiles with me. Said she had a re...

I'm staying with my brother but my mum wants me to move in with her. I would like to but I don't know how to tell my brother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - my life has always been full of drama. right now im going through hell. i lived with my mom my whole life. im 15 year so old right now. anyways so a year ago my mom just started going a little crazy. no she was heartbroken her husband of 18 years ...

Parents don't agree...Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I'm turning fifteen and I am dating a guy who is turning seventeen. We kiss, make-out but have never gone to far. His parents have begun to think that he is too old for me by two years, they also think that my parents don't agree with our ...

What do I do when I see my cousin again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Ok I'm 14 and the other night I went to a party things got dirty a lot of kissing and sex but I decided not to get involved and then my girl cousins best mate pulls me into a room and try's to take my clothes off, I managed to get away later my ...

My 12 yr old brother controls my life... HELP!? Please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I am here to say that my younger brother won't stop controlling my life. I'm 16 and he's 12. On christmas my pearents have just got me a new small mini laptop. I am very happy beacause I finally have my own computer. But whenever I want privacy, ...

I don't feel like I get a fair return in relationships

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Why do I feel this? Let's say everyday I come home from work. I have to cook, clean, and keep my child quiet and inactive. At night I relieve my man (not saying that I don't enjoy sex, I actually very much do.) My man just pretends to help out with ...

How do I tell my dad I'm bi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Okay, I'm 16 and for all my life I can remember my dad taking the mick out of gay people and telling me that it is wrong. How it is against nature and shouldn't be done. But now I am older I am bi. I have been for a long time but just don't know ...

His parents believe in no sex before marriage!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - hi, recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend! We've been going out for about 6 months and we felt we were ready. He and i were virgins at the time. But a few days after i found out from a friend that his mum and dad are very religious people and ...

Will my daughters dad love his new baby boy more than her??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - hi everyone, i have question and would be grateful for any thoughts on it. my daughters dad and me split up when she was five months and she is now eleven and a half. her dad got married a couple of years ago and his wife fell pregnant. today she ...

Husband, Brother-in-law and me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I love my husband deeply. We have been together for 14years. We recently moved to where his brother lives. We have only had limited contact with his family do to living 1200 miles apart. Within days of arriving I felt an irrisistible pull towards ...

What to do... I think I'm in love with my sister in law...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - hi all, i know this is a probably stupid but i am not the only i see, i am falling for my sister in law. i love my wife and we have a kid and very happy together but i am just infatuated with my sister in law that i cant think straight. i don't kn...

How do I solve this conflict?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - I have been together with my wife for almost six years in August and love her. She has a son who is now 15 and lives with his father. We have a 14 month old daughter together and she is currently 5 months pregnant with our 2nd. For Christma...

Is it legal for me to live with my stepdad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 December 2010 (?) - i am in a bit of a tricky situation i have a problem. My mum and stepdad are divorced but i want to live wiht my stepdad... is that legal can i choose were i want to live? me and my mum do not get on i do not think she is fit to be a mother,...

My aunt's father in law made inappropriate comments and now I feel really uneasy around him!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I have a bit of a problem. Over the holidays me and my relatives went to visit my aunt's in-laws and their family, who I used to feel comfortable around. They're usually nice and welcoming people, so I had no reason not to like them. But, on t...

I might be pregnant, and I'm 14!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Hi, im Maria and im from utah, and im 14 almost 15 years old, and i think i might be pregnant. I don no what i should do only 3 people no that i might be pregnant there all my best friends, i told my boyfriend(well ex boyfriend now) that i might be ...

I feel like my husband and daughter are teamed up against me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - My daughter wants to marry someone that I didn't approve of. I told my daughter my feelings and she was glad that I told her. The problem is now she can not saying hurtful things to me and has gained the sympathies of my husband. She will call ...

My mom won't forgive my boyfriend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - my mom won't forgive my boyfriend. yes, he's bipolar and a recovering addict and has done some things that should be deemed unforgiveable (stealing $400 from her, flipping out on her etc.) but now he's in a mental rehabilitation home and even ...

Why did my sister in law include photos of my husband's exs from 20 years ago?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Two months after our wedding, at the family gathering for Christmas, my husband's sister presented everyone with a slide show put together of all the kids growing up. She hooked it up to a big screen television and we all began to watch. At frst it ...

Whos the daddy? Should I find out? Or keep it in the closet for a later date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I am 30 partner 31 we are not married. Backstory- We dated for two years and had moved in with each other, and was still in the experimental sex mode when I found out we had fallen pregnant. With twins. We had a foursome(completly protected- co...

Should I tell dad that his new fiancee is the same girl I had sex with at a drunken frat party?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - i met this really hot girl at a frat party and we got drunk and had sex. she was a year older and graduated a few months later so nothing after that happened. my parents got divorced a year later and when my dad started dating he got engaged with ...