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writes:I'm turning fifteen and I am dating a guy who is turning seventeen. We kiss, make-out but have never gone to far. His parents have begun to think that he is too old for me by two years, they also think that my parents don't agree with our relationship but my parents and I have had the discussion and they are fine. We think his dad is trying to pull us apart, what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): If since he's moving to Brazil, the distance and the time zone will partly damage your relationship with him.Why, because it'll be a lot different.
I figured you still would disagree.But please do hear me out.You are still young...Both of you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe have learned why his parents don't want us seeing each other. In June on 2011 he is moving to Brazil for a few years, but I have to say I still disagree on the age gap.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): Okay, the age gap so younge does matter.I dont care if your parents or anyone elses for that matter are more then 2 years apart.They are adults and have already gone through those teenage years.
I dated when i was 13 at the time he was 19. Was it wrong.Yes. However i never thought so deeply about it until i got older and matured more. And so did he.
Nothing 'bad' happened either.
You dont care about it because you love him. He will turn 18 long before you will and him being 18 and you still a minior, is wrong.
Granted I'll be at the point soon, but i dont learn from my own words.I've known him for YEARS.So i personally dont care.
You have to understand where your parents are coming from.Your guy's their child. They certainly dont want something to happen, even if anything wont.
You can not be happy with my answer. But im just saying.
Xoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your swift responses but as the age gap I don't agree. You see, today you can see adults three to five years apart and everyone is fine with it, but If you're a teen no one is okay with it. As for the love part you might be correct but as far as I'm concerned his words are true and he shows it. Thank you and I'll take these answers into consideration.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): I wish i had ur life...You can be with him.My relationship is same age as yours but i am 15 and we live hours away.Im not so very proud to say this but, im dating even though my parents dont know.If you both truely love each other do the same. HOWEVER, your parents and his parents are right about the age gap. Yes it is only 2 years, believe me i know. But at 17 years old your different then 14-15 years old. Thoughts change and bodies change, although not thaat much. Assuming, but its true.Your younger so you Think your in love. Been there done that. Your boyfriend on the other hand, has probably been there once before or more. (I dont know, Im just saying).xoxo Best wishes
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): if parents don't agree and if you get marry then in future life will be very tough it should be good if parents agree, as a grown adults must respect parents and see their interest also some time, he must convince his dad and should make an excuse otherwise he should not spoil your life
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