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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I searched for my first boyfriend from years ago on a social network in Jan 2010. I did not contact him, but one of his friends contacted me about a relative becoming a client. Come to find out this woman is the mother of his adult daughter. She contacted the ex on the social network. She went off his page and then came back on recently along with his daughter. I received two other calls from a woman stating my phone number was for a christian woman's conference. I looked on the website and some topics were: a secret has no power once it is told, honoring a dishonoring mother, self-righteous gossip. Granted I did not take the break up well years ago, and I am ashamed of how I acted. Another woman contacted me who is a relative of the mother to IM her. What I can't understand is why she would even care what I think?? Why did they contact me this way when they could email me?Are they trying to warn me off him? Why? He was my first love, I wasn't his. I did send him an email: "Hope you are doing well." I knew this girl was his daughter the minute I saw a picture. I am not going around telling people. Children are a gift from God. Why would I condemn her? She is his child.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): Wow. I would really like to help you but maybe you could try re reading and re writing your post because it is very hard to follow.
You were contacted by the mother of your ex's daughter around the same time that you looked your ex up on the internet. She wants to talk to you about a relative becoming a client...what do you do? You then got a call about your phone number being involved with a Christian conference. Then you say your break up with this guy was bad. Then another woman contacted you to IM her...
So from what I can somewhat understand, you did something to this guy years ago and now are being contacted by his girlfriend/ex because she is afraid you will hurt her daughter? Is that what is going on? And you want to know why they would contact you or care what you think after all this time?
Honestly...I don't have a clue. I don't know what you did to your ex. I don't know why these people are contacting you. And I especially don't know what any of this has to do with clients and Christian groups. Best thing to do is to just ask them why they are contacting you. If you provide more information with a little more coherence I would be better suited to help you. Good luck.
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