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Archived questions from: November, 2008 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Her aunt died just as I was about to break up with her. What do I do now?

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30 November 2008 (M) - I have a problem, my girlfriend's aunt died, right before I was going to break up with her. What should I do? ...

How should I act when I meet his parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5830 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Well i have been with my boyfriend for over three months now and he has met both of my parents. The thing is he wants me to meet his parents and yes i want to but i dont think they will like me. The last bf i had i met his parents and they did not ...

I've fallen for my ex girlfriends sister.....Help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Hi everyone, So like many of you I have a real complicated love situation I am in. For a few months now I have fallen for my ex girlfriends sister. I know it is wrong but I cant help how I feel. She lives right next door to me so it makes it impo...

I'm in love with my in-law, how can I get this out of my system??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I have a big problem, this is a taboo topic. for the last two or so years I have developed feelings for my sister in laws husband.I am now totally in love with him I cant stop thinking about him,I try my hardest to stay away from family functions...

How do I talk to my child about the birds and the bees?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I caught my 8year old masterbate.How do i talk to her about this?...

I'm dreading Christmas! Whatever I think about planning I almost get anxiety attacks! What would be the best thing for me to do during this holiday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Christmas is coming and I'm dreading it unfortunately. I do have a lovely boyfriend who is caring and loving and loves me to bits, but he is lazy, undermotivated, etc. He hasn't achieved very much when it comes to career...he doesn't work at all.H...

Is it a pipe dream that I have trying to make my marriage work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - I am so confused. I am 37. Have a 5 year old daughter and a 17 year old step son. My wife has bounced from job to job and I have held my professional management position for 15 years. I make almost 100,000 a year and her spending habits have ...

I feel like life is too short and too precious to just "put up with." I want fulfillment!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I just have to get this off my chest, and if you can help me, I will be so grateful. I can take an honest answer, whether or not it is the one I want to hear, as long as you genuinely want to help. When I was in college, I struggled to fig...

How do I tell my boyfriend I'm in love with his brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I think I love my boyfriend's brother, and I don't know whether I should tell him or not?? I want to so bad, cuz I hate hiding my feelings, BUT I do not want to cause drama between family. Its getting to the point where I really dont care though... ...

Troubled and dysfunctional family...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need help, at least advice from anybody who can have a little attention to this. I have a very disfunctional family and it's really killing me, parents never been good to me specially mother who seems hated me frome the very start of ...

My boyfriend and I fight constantly, I'm scared I'm gonna bring a baby into a horrible relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hi I'm 22 and need some help. In July of 08 I found out I was pregnant. When I told my mom she went off and told me my life was over and I wouldn't be able to do the things I wanted. So after telling me this I kinda started freaking out even more ...

Can two people of the same sex get married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Can two people of the same sex get married? My mum says yes but dad says no, and they are falling out about it. What's worse mum turned down dads marriage proposal and now he's thinking of leaving. Mum says it's just a piece of paper. What can i do...

I'm afraid to let my parents know that I have a boyfriend as they think I'm too young.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we have been talking for a while now and I'm afraid to let my parents know because I'm not allowed to date until I'm 18 but I'm afraid that if I make him wait I will lose him. I really love him and want to keep seeing him he ...

He laughed and called me his "fuck buddy!"

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hi People I'm finding this really hard, I've been split with my bf just over a month, and I'm still in contact as in friends and I still sometimes sleep with him in the car, Well last nite I went round his house for the first time since we sp...

I'm really upset and angry at my dad...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hello, not really a romantic relationship problems but a family relationship problem. I'm a 19 year old woman who has just moved out to the big city and got her own flat for the first time. I'm a first year university student. Before that I ...

I might move out of state and I'm scared of losing her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5835 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about going on 3 years. Her parents deceased.... lived with aunt... lived with me... because of my mom's problems(anxiety).. she moved to best friend's house(girl), an hour away...(I don't drive... both 18 ...

He can't get out of his marriage but I think he has strong feelings for me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5835 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - hi. I am feeling very confused right now. there is this guy I love.. I have loved him for a year now,but i found out that he has a girlfriend. He thinks of my father as an idol or something and shares everything with him and respects him imm...

Her parents!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5836 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - Okay so I'm 23 years old and I've been with an amazing woman for about a year and a half. We do everything together and ts been by far the best time of my life. We get along great and share almost identical values, ambitons, political views, ...

His inlaws still don't know we're married!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5832 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Hi, My husband and I have been married for over a year... and he still has not let his In-Laws know that we are Married. What do I do? He says he has told them... but a recent telephone call from his sister let me know that they do not have a cl...

What can I say to recover the relationship...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - Is there anything I can do/say in order to get my girlfriend back? Last week i got a bit down and kept my girlfriend at arms length,she was supposed to be going away for the weekend and i felt that i would get better when she got back. My mother...

Mom says if I choose to be with him now I can pack my things and leave with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5836 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Okay, so there's this boy.. he's amazing. A little age difference.. he's 19 and I'm 16. I've never had a boyfriend so it's no wonder why my mother is freaking out. She knows of other boys I've talked to and usually is a cool mom BUT now that me and ...

How do we keep our families intact and remain friends?

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28 November 2008 (M) - i am married since 7 yrs and has got happy family of three,we've a 2 yrs old son.i am a practicing gynaecologist and also work nearby govt hosp.a staff nurse from there and i have been friends since last 7 months.she is married has got 3yrs ...

Depressed girl.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5836 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - I'm a girl and I'm 17 years old.. this tragedy happened to me 2 years back.. my second cousin showed interest in me by his behaviour and I fell in love and then suddenly he started to ignore me.. now it's been 2 years and I still love him.. ...

I caught mydaughter masturbating with a balloon, is this some kind of fetish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - I caught my 11 yo daughter masturbating with a balloon. I don't know what to do. STOP! Before I get a lot of hatful, prude comments, it's not that my daughter is masturbating. That is normal. No problem there. Should I stop her masturbating ...

How do I get him back to being the good loving father and husband he used to be??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5836 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - In the last few weeks my husband's ego has become an issue. He won't do certain things claiming "they're bad for my ego". He's even refused to spend time with our 4-year-old son and 6-year-old daughter, claiming "That will deflate my ego". Ever...

My mum and I never got on well, I don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - ok right me and my mum have never got on well. we always have arguments and i have s.a.d seasoning depression and this time of year is the worst for me.. my cousin died in september and hes best friend hasnt spoke to any one about him since last ...

Does he still care or is he using me?

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28 November 2008 (F) - I met this guy a year and a half ago when I was in a bad relationship which ended and he was there with me. Around this time we were like the best of friends but he had asked me out and I had hesitated because he's like 8 years older and is my ...

Married man having sex with son's best friend!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - I am Joe, I have been married to my wife Hannah for 17 years and we have 2 great kids, I am also gay or bi. I had a few times had sex with men in high school and college, but when I met Hannah who is so beautiful we got married and the feelings for ...

I'm in love with my brother's 24 year old friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Im 15 Yrs Old And Im In Love With My Brothers Best Mate Whos 24 Yrs Old. Isit Wrong That Im In Love With Him. I Really Want A Future With Him And He Wants To Be With Me But His Worried People Will Say Something About The Age Gap. Iv Told My Broth...

Help! What on earth should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I have been calling on a 49 year old man for a few months most weekends. To start with he adamantly pushed me away. He has never had a relationship before. He has a dependant sister a few years older than himself. Both parents dead. He has slowly ...

Why can't he work harder to get my parents' approval?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I am a very ambitious 21 year old girl from India. My parents are both doctors and have always been high achievers. My relationship with my boyfriend started when I was just 16 and this is our 5th year now, he was my class fellow. My family is one ...

How to heal a father/daughter relationship after his affair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - My husband had a affair a year ago and it has been a long year.My 13 year old daughter is having a hard time, she started pulling her hair out we put her in counselling . This has helped a bit but every time she pulls her hair her dad gets on her ...

My husband had an affair with his sister in law. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - HELP!!! I just found an email on my husband's account from his siter-in-law. It was refering to them having sex and loving each other. I asked my husband about it, and he told me everything. This affair went on before I was in the picture. We have ...

Why won't my family accept my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - any advice is welcome. this is rather embarrassing to write as i am 29. been with my boyfriend two years,he is a divorcee with two kids. we dont live together.(i met him when he was divorced) we have many arguments yes but my problem is my family ...

Am I over reacting about my wife and her son?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - I am 66 nearly 67 and my wife of 12 yrs is 22rs younger. we have both had previous marriages. We have 2 children and my wifes eldest son aged 23 (from her prevous marriage has come to live with us in the last 3 months having been kicked out of ...

I am set in chains...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

27 November 2008 (?) - Sorry if I bother you by this, but I've no one to go to right now. I am Set in Chains. My dad wants me to like working in his restaurant, he just does not see that I hate everything about it, I hate working with him, don't get me wrong, I love my ...

I have been having a sexual relationship with my two first cousins, do you have any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

27 November 2008 (?) - I too am sleeping with my first cousin..and I love him very very much. We dont see eachother often as we live in two different states...but this has been going on for years. The part some may find sick and twisted, is that he has a twin brother - ...

Why is it so hard for parents to talk to their kids about sex??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - why is it so hard for parents to talk to us teenagers about sex? i just dont know why to some parents its so hard for them to tell us what sex is. i think that me at age 13 i should have been known this stuff from my mom but why do they insisted in ...

How can I have a close relationship with people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - I need help! I always tend to expect too much from people i love and who might not even love me. I expect them to love me back the way i want to and it kills me when i get the feeling that they dont love me(not romantic relationship). It feels like ...

Could I go through the same problems as my mom did during pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - I'll start by saying, I could be pregnant... Yet to find out but, any ideas or info you can give me is great. I don't like doctors much so I rarely go, I was just thinking when I was born mum and I both almost died, same with my older sister and ...

My girlfriend's parents found out that we've been having sex and want us to stop...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend's parents found out that we've been having sex and want us to stop, neither me or her want to stop and it's not like we have sex like crazy, it's just like once a week. Should we follow them? or continue to do it behind their backs? ...

What is causing my husband's weird behaviour?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - Hi there, I would be grateful if any of the Aunts and Uncles could let me know what they think about this kind of behaviour. I have been married for 15 years and about 12 years into the marriage my husband started doing things which I can only class ...

I have so many problems. What should I think? Is this happening for a reason?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - What are the most serious problems you got? I feel I have way too many problems, and I wonder if it s normal, to have so many problems, and pain. I wonder what are your, most painful events, in your life? My problems are , lost my house, my paren...

Why did he react this way when I asked about his children?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - I guy I´ve emailing quite long time now after we met in person 2 years back, I called him to say Hi since we are long distance and holidays are coming. I always knew he has 3 kids but I never knew much about them, or how old they are. So, I ask...

I'm feeling isolated and useless! I'm in the army, far from my very pregnant partner!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - hello everyone sorry for any spelling that may occor in this. first of all i think i need to explain my postision. i am a young man in the british army based in england and have a 8 mounth 3 weeks pregnant partner back home living with my parents as ...

Does she really love me or is it an act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5839 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Well here's the thing my dad got with this new woman and she had kids me and one of the kids got along well..Really well. They kept having arguments and it ended up with my dad walking out on her so me and my dad's girlfriends Daughter (miss X...

His grandma's making me NUTS!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - My boyfrien of 2 years and I moved in to help take care of his 70 year old grandmother and 91 year old great grandmother. Unfortunately, I am on my own pretty much entirely as his great grandmother has dementia and thinks he is the devil. Besides ...

Having children - is it a deal breaker in love? Please help.

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25 November 2008 (F) - I am suffering from a recent painful break up. After 4 years with a man, who is divorced with 2 children, we have ended our relationship because we decided that he cannot have more children (due to finances and instability) and I very much want to ...

They want me to go to college but I don't want to go.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Hi, my name is Selena and I am having a lot of problems with my parents, they want me to go to college but I don't want to go. What should I do! Should I listen to them or not??...

Am I not seeing what everyone else does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Here I go again - I have been seeing this guy for 3 years - he has two girls I have one at home too. We get along fine when it is the two of us - days fly by - we giggle wrestle and just have a good time and do projects and such I help h...