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writes: I too am sleeping with my first cousin..and I love him very very much. We dont see eachother often as we live in two different states...but this has been going on for years. The part some may find sick and twisted, is that he has a twin brother - who also came on to me...and I gave in to him too. Im not a sick person - and I dont know why I got in so deep - but I was juggling an affair with both, and neither knew of the other...please give me your thoughts on this...thank you...I love the one beyond words...his brother -Im just a bit intimidated by...and I gave in...
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you annonymous...and you are right - we hadnt seen eachother since we were young - over 15 years...so it was like we weren't related...but I do understand that we are, in fact related. Im not a perverted person, although by reading this, I understand it seems quite the opposite - neither knows of the other...yet....it would destroy him if he knew...thank you for taking the time to respond...
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): I think you are living in a fantasy world and unless someone comes along and finds this all out and your whole world comes crashing down you will keep on like it - because you like the attention, the drama and the 'twisted' nature of it. The bigger question is why would you choose this over having a normal relationship with someone to whom you are NOT related. You must have issues. Love is not a reason to participate in this - most people control their feelings every day otherwise we would all be sleeping with anyone we felt like. If you don't walk away from this you are potentially going to absolutely ruin the relationship between two brothers (although lets face it, it is already) but they don't know about this. How would they feel when (and its not if - but when) they find out. I'd get out of this and move a long way away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): Dump them both and go with your own brother - he's handy and you can keep an eye on him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): I think that it is normal to have a childhood crush on a cousin,exspeacialy if you don't see them very often it feels like your not related. I had a crush on a cousin myself in childhood nothing happened and it went away in adulthood. You do relize that what you are doing is incest. Over the centuries they have been many cousin couples just look at some of the Kings of England and Spain. The ancient Egyptions would even marry thier own sister's because they were thought of as living gods by thier people and thier blood should be so called pure. The Kings and queens would marry thier cousins to keep certian money and royalties in the family.The bad part of this is that inbreeding can lead to birth defects exaple the King of Spain I think Phillip or something had crazy children like Juanna the Loca { Joan the Crazy and a weak son that he murdered who was retarded. And at we have the people of the Appalation mountians wow they have just about every birth defect you can find. Rent the movie Deliverance, THOSE ARE REAL PEOPLE! So unless you believe that you are a god or royal and rich and want children retarted with missing digits, I suggest that you that you wake up and relize that you are blood related to the person you are sleeping with. Do you know the only persons more related to you than your parents are your aunt and uncle's. So basicaly when you sleep with your cousin it's like you sleeping with a half brother. Whould you sleep with your half brother? Please stop before you get pregnant and your child has to grow up with the stigma of being inbred not to mention a high probability of birth defects. I don't want to be mean to you are say anything to hurt you I don't find you repulisive, Just misinformed. Do you think it could be possible that your cousins twin knew of your sexual relationship from his twin bro? and thought that he could score? I think you need to stop sleeping with both of them related or not. You could cause a rit in your family between the brother's and your aunt and uncle. Take care and God bless you and give you strength to find the right path in life and to overcome.
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