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Am I over reacting about my wife and her son?

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Question - (27 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 November 2008)
A male United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

I am 66 nearly 67 and my wife of 12 yrs is 22rs younger. we have both had previous marriages. We have 2 children and my wifes eldest son aged 23 (from her prevous marriage has come to live with us in the last 3 months having been kicked out of University. Since he started living with us my wife has become more and more distracted wanting to spend time with him alone. Our sex life has almost disappeared and it very one-sided. She recently admitted never having had an orgasm by me either penetratively or otherwise. I strongly suspect that she is beoming sexually attracted to her 23 yr old son, and often wake to her diy manual stimulation that is concident with her sons in the next bedroom. Her son has been repeatedly waking me up almost every night with his bedroom activity and has admitted that he carries on this activity.Her son has never had, nor got a girlfriend. When I queried with my wife if he did ot like girls she got very angry and denied this.

My wife denies his bedroom activity, yet I know that any sex we have is only a token one-sided activity to keep me sweet and is literally crumbs from her table.

Do you think that I am over-reacting and what advice can you give me.

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (27 November 2008):

you can't seriously be suggesting that your wife is having sex with her own son? thats just so wrong and disturbing that you would think that.

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (27 November 2008):

petina1 agony auntput a tv in your bedroom and turn it up a bit to block out the activity in the next room. My sons bedroom is next door to mine and i must admit i cant let myself go knowing he is just a few inches away from the wall. Sex can happen any time so find a time for yourselves when her son is out. hope this helps.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008):

I'm a bit confused though, because you could easily answer your problem. The next time you hear bedroom activity just go and wait and see who comes out of that room, or go near enough to hear the voices coming out of it.

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