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Archived questions from: May, 2006 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

My fiance is not sure if he feels for me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6749 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - My Boyfriend *now fiance* said to me tonight that he's not sure he feels any feelings for me anymore. I was shocked, so i asked him if it was over. He said i need to think about stuff. Before that he was very distant from me. What's going on? I ...

I liked this boy since 3rd grade, how can I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6749 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - Hi I am 13 years old.My name is Felicia Lee. My ex boyfriend,Dalton only went out with me for three days then broke up with me.I had liked this boy since the 3rd grade and now I am in love with him. He told me that he might go back out with me next ...

I feel me and my boyfriend should just be friends now, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6749 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now. I've been with him since I was in high school. Lately I've been feeling like we've grown into mere friends and sometimes I even feel like we're roommates. Just recently when I ...

Did he lead me on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6740 days ago

29 May 2006 (F) - I started dating a guy (37) 4 months ago. He took the relationship to the next level first. He said he loved me first. I still kept my feelings from him until he insisted on knowing if i loved him. We spent alot of time together either at his ho...

He never hurt me before but now is playing games

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6750 days ago

29 May 2006 (F) - dear cupid the situation is as follows my relationship with my b/f is hanging on by a thread it has been a v difficult relationship to let go of.i have had quite a hard time with people so far in my 26yrs but i am not bitter or anything and don't ...

My boyfriend found out I lied and it's ruining our relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6750 days ago

29 May 2006 (F) - I am 20 and two years ago I met such an amazing guy, he was the first guy who respected me for who I am but because of various past experiences I was afraid to commit to a relationship and treated him quite badly for a long time. Last April we were ...

We dont see each other any more, I think im going off her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6751 days ago

29 May 2006 (M) - i think im going off my girlfriend. wev been together for a little over 4 months n its difficult getting a chance to see eachother. wev also been arguing a bit reciently-which is probably due to the fact were both going through a bit of a stressful ...

He is sabotaging everything

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6750 days ago

29 May 2006 (F) - so theres this new guy on the scene met him about 3 wks ago now and im really happy with how things are going so far. But y'day morning i chatted to my ex online and he turns round and says oh he's just using you for sex, i rang him but he said that...

Boyfriend treats me like unwanted object.. What should I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6750 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 2 months and i already dont know if i can trust him. i only get to see him once or twice a week and when he goes out he never asks me to come, and when i call him the next day he says that he didnt get home until 3 ...

After my pregnancy the relationship is fading away...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6736 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - I was in a relationship for 10months then i fell pregnant we split up then got back together when my daughter was born at first our sex life was great but over the last 6months it has gone down hill it does not feel the same as we argue most of the ...

He decided he wanted to be with a woman instead, why is he being like this???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6561 days ago

26 May 2006 (M) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend, and I proposed, which made him so happy, as we had always spoken about it, and when it happened he said "at last your all mine", then less than a month later, all of a sudden we broke up, as he said his ...

I'm pregnant, but I was on the pill......what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

26 May 2006 (?) - Hello, this has taken me alot of courage because i know what people may think but i am asking you all to please not be judgemental of me. I have been with my partner for 2 years, i really care for him alot, the problem is that i got together with ...

Now that I'm allowed to see her, my old girlfriend isn't insterested any more!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6745 days ago

25 May 2006 (M) - Well guys/girls, I have a problem and I really dont know what to do... this is the story... I was with this girl, Valerie, for about 9 months. At the time, we felt really strong for each other. We ended up doing something really stupid, we had s...

He went from 60 to zero in six weeks! What did I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6754 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I was seeing a guy for about 6 weeks and we were having a great time. For the first five weeks he was texting me all the time saying I was the one for him, but then all of a sudden the texts stopped and he said he just wanted to be friends! I didn...

Should I Marry my teenage sweetheart ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6754 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend since i was 17 i am now 23. We are due to get married next year but recently i have been having feelings for someone else. I have met some new friends and we have been going out more than usual and i'm having a ...

I think he may be holding me back... How to proceed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I`ve been with my boyfriend for three years and we have a beautiful daughter together.The thing is I don`t feel like he`s the one for me anymore.I am a young mother and I have alot of goals for myself and my daughter,and I don`t think that I will ...

All we do it argue and I miss our closeness!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6756 days ago

24 May 2006 (M) - i really love my wife , but we just dont get along anymore . we argue all the time and dont make love anymore at all . could it be that we had a child 11 months ago ,and thats what takes up her time constantly ? . i try to help as much as i can but ...

He is smoking cannabis and its breaking us apart!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6756 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - my boy friend and i have been togther for over a year now and although when we met i knew he smoked cannabis that didn't matter because ive known him for many years and what kind of person he is, when we first got together he really cleaned up his ...

My relationship is fading... what can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6743 days ago

22 May 2006 (M) - i'm 13 and me and my boyfriend have started to become more distant, i haven't seen him for a long time, what could i do to help the relationship. (by the way i'm a bisexual guy)...

A decade of marriage... move on or try one last time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6756 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - Hi, I need some advice! I have been married for 10 years and I want to finish my relationship with my husband. Both have 41. I am not happy with my husband because we have to much problems, one of those problems are his parents health that has made ...

Every problem we have he makes my fault!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6758 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - I have been with my bf for quite a while now and every problem that seems to arise he always puts it out on me! for example i asked him to not ever do drugs around me because it hurts me to see him do it and he promised that he would never. well ...

Pursued my x for months but now i have him, the feelings have gone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6758 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - I spent 4 months trying to get back with my ex, and it's finally happened. But for some reason i'm not enjoying it. I think i had finally excepted that it was over, and we were beginning to become 'just friends', but he asked to meet up yesterday, ...

Her mood swings are driving me away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6758 days ago

21 May 2006 (M) - I have been in an international relation ship with a girl from Japan. I am from south Asia for the last 3 yrs. When we met I was a virgin and she was not. Any way, we have been living together for the last 2 years. She and I are the same age. When w...

She thinks I'm too needy and clingy...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

21 May 2006 (M) - My girlfriend is accusing me of becoming too clingy. Things were fine up until a month or so ago. Now she pushes me away. We were very close and always inseperable, but now the rejection is getting worse. Is it my fault? Am I too clingy?...

Strangers! How can I make it like it was?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6760 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't pay any attion to me at all since I moved in with him and since then things have become really awkward. What can I do to get the relationship back on a loving level where we do not feel like strangers anymore?...

Stay With The Bf I Don't Love Or Move On With The Guy I Do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6760 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - I have been with my b/f for 5 years but I'm not in love with him anymore. I've falling in love with someone who makes me happy, what do i do? 1)Stay were i'm unhappy 2)Try again with someone else....

I want to leave him but he keeps blackmailing me to stay!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - I've got a bit of a problem...I've been married for 12 years and I truely think that I married for the wrong reasons. Our marriage has had it's ups and downs. Don't get me wrong, he is a good man - but has had some problems with his anger in the ...

His a drug addict & has trust issues, i'm thinking of leaving, what do i do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6760 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - Do I stay and work it out or move on? My husband and I have been together for 8 years. We met when he moved in across the street from me 14 years ago. His sister and I were best friends, so I got to know his family pretty well. We have alot of ...

I feel sorry for him if i finish it!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - hi i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now we live togther but the thing is i don`t know if i still love him i feel sorry for him if i finish it i am 27 he is 47. and fancy someone else now what should i do ???...

How to go pubilic about my new relationship after the break up of my marriage.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - Hi, First i must say that i have always found your column very helpful and i can relate to some of the advice given. Well here is my problem, six months ago i came out of a marriage that i was more a convenience than a wife, i had looked up to m...

8 month relationship.. seem to be the one doing all the work... time to end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - i dont know whether I should dump my bf or try again. my problem is that although we live just 10 mins apart and both have mon-fri 9-5 jobs we never see each other, usually just once during the week and fri and sat night. at the beginning it did...

From complete love to being alone... how can this happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - If someone says they love you with all of their heart, and promises to love you and cherish you for always used to send you flowers, and express their love, make you smile, talks about marrage kids, a family then out of the blue everything turns ...

We went from trying to work it out to just friends, i'm so confussed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

18 May 2006 (M) - I posted a question a couple of weeks ago about me cheating on my girlfriend of 6-1/2 years and getting her pregnant. Of course we broke up but we still talked, went to movies and held hands as we have always done. She said that she wanted to work ...

Are guys always rude or is it me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6763 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - I guy I was dating has stood me up twice and when I call to see what happen, he is now avioding my calls and emails. I what to know if it was something I did to or is that just how guys are RUDE!...

His going overseas & i am not invited,is there any point staying together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - i posted recently about my boyfriend going overseas, and I thought some of you maybe see the whole picture, or were a little harsh. i guess it sounds bad, but he has said he cares about me deeply, knows he will really miss me etc, but the idea of me ...

Hoping we will reunite,but scared i will never see him again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6762 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - My ex bf and I broke up about 5 months ago becuz he had 2 move back home and leave our uni. We both still really cared about eachother but we figured it would be best 2 end it becuz of the distance. We still k.i.t. with instant messages and the ...

We broke up, and he refuses to take me back, did i scare him off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - If you love, deeply care for and are physically attracted to someone still shouldn't you be together? My live in boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me 2 months ago and now when we communicate he refuses to talk about it all anymore or even entertain ...

Flirtation makes me feel sexy and wanted, now I have cold feet about my approaching wedding, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - i am getting married this year to the father of my child plus i have been with him nearly 9 years but i keep thinking about this other guy i dont really fancy him but i seem to be thinking of him.i seem to go out in the evening just to see if i can ...

How long will it take to mend a broken heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6763 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - I need to ask all the people out there who ever been dumped by the person they thought they were going to spend the rest of their life with does it really, truely get easier? I thought my partner of 6 years was considering proposing to me but ...

How Can Our Relationship Be Over Before It Started

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6070 days ago

15 May 2006 (M) - I'm in love with this girl, I adore her and she has also told me how she likes me too. She as said that she'd never felt this way about a person before which scared her a little bit. I decided to leave things alone out of respect for her and waited ...

Guy seems to have lost interest in me.. doesn't return my calls.. is it my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6767 days ago

11 May 2006 (F) - I'm a single 28 year old. I've been dating this guy for about two months now. At first he was very attentive, called a lot, etc. Now we go out to eat about once a week, spend the night together once a week or so...but other than that he doesn't ...

My wonderful man has started seeing someone else... can I get him back??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6768 days ago

11 May 2006 (F) - I had been in a relationship for the past 2 years with a wonderful man. About a week ago, I went to call him after he got off of work, and there was no answer. I proceeded to send him a text message asking him where he was, he later replied saying ...

Feel like I'm drifting apart from my girlfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6768 days ago

11 May 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been dating my girlfriend for about a year and 1/2 now, and I really love her. I know that I will always love her in some way or another, but lately I feel like were growing apart. She is my first serious girlfriend, and ...

Has this relationship run its course?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6770 days ago

7 May 2006 (F) - i need help with my relationship , we have been together for 2 yrs now and at first it was great . we both wanted a child i already have 2 he has 1 , and to also get married but all this has changed he doesnt always come to bed he says he just falls ...

Girlfriend is being selfish, Im blaming myself... Whats the best option??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6771 days ago

7 May 2006 (M) - I need to know if this is just something I need to basically put up with, or if what is happening is out of line. Any constructive advice is really appreciated. At the moment, I'm feeling very hurt and I'm not sure whether I have a right t...

We have an ok relationship but zero sex... Can this continue?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6774 days ago

4 May 2006 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend and i have been living together over 1.5 yrs now. We get on fine, though there is little sex which im not entirely happy about. But ive learned to live with it as ive now lost my sex drive, so it doesnt seem to matter(tried all ...

On off relationship is getting to me, What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6776 days ago

3 May 2006 (M) - Hello, My girl and I have been dating for around 7 months, we have recently seperated due to a few issues, but are still looking at it as a relationship, she didnt like me looking at porn ( which I have ceased doing ) and was insecure about he...

How do you know when enough is enough, Need advice??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6776 days ago

3 May 2006 (F) - How do you know when a relationship is worth saving? When you've both never been so in love or thought there was someone so perfect, but you somehow, despite good intentions, manage to keep hurting each other, how do you know when to just give it ...

Friends bad influence is ruining my relationship.. Please help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6777 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - Urgent, HELP ! Well, how to start. My bf and i have dealt with many issues this school year. Some that really could have broke us up and it almost happened. One being my bf smoking with a friend ocassionaly to be social with him and he kept it ...