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writes: My boyfriend doesn't pay any attion to me at all since I moved in with him and since then things have become really awkward. What can I do to get the relationship back on a loving level where we do not feel like strangers anymore?
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (19 May 2006):
 Martini is right. If moving in was the only change in your lives and that change made things awkward between you, then doesn't it seem obvious that you two weren't quite ready for that?Talk with him and discuss how your lives have changed since you moved in together. Sometimes being with someone all the time works against you as a couple, because you start to focus on little faults in each other.Maybe the best thing to do if you want to save your relationship is to admit that you've moved too quickly. Move apart, and continue to see each other and see how that goes.One thing that I can promise you is that staying in the same house won't make things better. It will gradually drive you apart even further. Think of it in terms of discovering that you have a stone inside your shoe. You can resolve that you'll ignore the stone, you can even force yourself to step on it over and over, but the discomfort doesn't go away. Same with this. You need to remove the source of discomfort, which is that you both moved in together before you'd worked out the kinks in your relationship.Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2006): Trying moving out again.
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