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writes: i am getting married this year to the father of my child plus i have been with him nearly 9 years but i keep thinking about this other guy i dont really fancy him but i seem to be thinking of him.i seem to go out in the evening just to see if i can see him.he is really sweet he makes conversation with my child and makes me feel sexy when he talks to me.i feel really confident and i am changing my image too.but as i said i do not fancy him i dont know what the attraction is i know he is fit.also in the last few months my sex drive has gone down hill not because of this guy but i dont feel like having sex anymore.i should be looking 4ward to the wedding as it is all booked now but i feel guilty the way i am feeling please help me as it is making me ill plus i have a young child too think about.
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (17 May 2006):
 if you have cold feet pull out now as you not ready to get msarried getting married is ahuge stpe in your life do not go into it with your eyes closed
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2006): Hi, I understand you completely. I too am in a similiar situation. I never had a b/f in Highschool only when I got older and now I have been in a relationship for 7years and I love my partner so much, even though we fight and we have our differences. I am a really big flirt & I do not intend to cheat on him, but to have attention feels amazing and I have very low self confidence and to be made to feel sexy and wanted by someone can make you have SO MUCH more self confidence! To be wanted by someone else is a great feeling. Flirting is ok, it's only if you take it further when it goes sour, just think of all the good memories with your fiance and then imagine if you didn't have him. Or could you imagine seeing your partner with anyone else???? If you can't and it makes you sick, you know he's the one for you....
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reader, i-love-you +, writes (17 May 2006):
 hey! everyone gets scared before they get married, i dont think that u fancy him u are just scared and hes a guy that you will just use as an excuse. and after you are married you will fancy this guy even more! just think about how great you with the guy youve been with the for 9 years and with the hunnymoon! i think that everything will turnout and youll be happy and that other guy is just an excuse!
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