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Archived questions from: August, 2021 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend's new confidence is making me a little nervous

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1213 days ago

31 August 2021 (F) - This is probably going to sound really pathetic, but I’m really anxious that now my autistic boyfriend seems to have found his feet in the world and is more confident in himself he’s going to cheat or leave me for someone else. He’s just completely ...

How do I move on from this? I feel my boyfriend was really out of line!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1212 days ago

31 August 2021 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years, he is generally quite a loving and doting boyfriend but very headstrong and stubborn in his beliefs that results in my concerns always not being heard in the relationship. Recently, as w...

My bf says he was drinking alone but then what was the deal with all those cups and glasses?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 898 days ago

30 August 2021 (F) - I dropped in on my boyfriend of 2 years unexpectedly after a night he was drinking. When I walked into the lounge he had two cups out and two small glasses but says he was drinking alone. Wee have a good relationship and there isn't any other ...

Boyfriend and I worked for same company. He got fired and is now pressuring me to quit

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1214 days ago

29 August 2021 (F) - Hello, I have been with my partner for almost two years, were engaged. I work for a pretty good company I actually got him hired were I worked. I have been with the company for 3 years. The company I work put me in a manager training class w...

He claims he loves me but I really don't know if his love for me is based on what I provide for him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1214 days ago

29 August 2021 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years now. He claims he loves me but I really don't know if his love for me is based on what I provide for him. He bought some land and now needs financial assistance with it. O...

I know his kids will come first and I wouldn’t want it any other way but where do I fit in?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1215 days ago

29 August 2021 (F) - Can you aunts and uncles give me some advice on dating a man with kids? I’ve been dating a man for about two month, we both have a lot of work commitments due to the job we do so this gives little time to meet up. He also has two children to diff...

In love with 2 sisters

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1215 days ago

28 August 2021 (M) - I am in a relationship for more than 15 years with my girlfriend, we are not married and seems that we won't because we don't believe on that kind of rituals. We live together, have a home and no kids yet. She have a sister that is about 10 years yo...

I don’t know if I should stick with my boyfriend or leave

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1215 days ago

28 August 2021 (F) - Hey Cupid’s, I’ve been feeling a certain way with my boyfriend a while now that things aren’t quite right. We live together and although we love and respect each other in certain ways. I don’t know if I can see myself growing old with him and fee...

Guy has criminal background. When do you let the past be the past?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1217 days ago

24 August 2021 (F) - Over the course of a year, I have fallen in love with a man who occassionally comes to service my work place’s building. He has also developed feelings for me which we both recently admitted to. The characteristics he has exhibited...

I am in a new relationship with a man who is uncircumcised and I have zero experience!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1221 days ago

23 August 2021 (F) - I am in a new relationship with a man who is uncircumcised and I have zero experience. I’ve read up a lot, but most of the information out there is quite medical and is good to know…..but I need some “hands on” advice… I don’t want to disappoint or ...

I think I need to give up on this very shady man. Thoughts?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1220 days ago

23 August 2021 (F) - Hi I met a man online. We have gone out several times but something is definitely off. We can only meet about 30 mins from his house. It's like he has a time limit. He says him and his ex still live together which is a HUGE red flag. They ...

My girlfriend had an abortion after an unwanted pregnancy. Will it get easier?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1216 days ago

23 August 2021 (M) - I’m 26 and my gf is 19. When we first met I really tried to not let my feelings get the best of me and I tried to basically not like her. That didn’t work. We ended up spending a lot of time together and started dating. Dating during Covid was ...

My boyfriend demanded a new phone from me, got it, and then told me that I'm stingy and petty

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1222 days ago

22 August 2021 (F) - Hi and thanks! My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years. I recently purchased a new cell, it was well needed as my other one was old and not functioning properly. My bf decided he should also have a new one, at my expense. I was ...

How do I deal with a clingy girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1224 days ago

20 August 2021 (M) - Hi everyone How do I deal with a clingy gf? Little background. We have been together for about 2 years. In the beginning she didn't appear clingy. This last year she certainly has been. If I don't see her, theres an argument, if I d...

Why has she ruined what was, or seemed a happy relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1225 days ago

18 August 2021 (M) - I`ve been living with my partner in her house for 6 months. During this time we`ve had a couple of ups and downs as I`ve stumbled upon internet activity with dating sites and found her to have dating apps on her phone. Each time denying doing ...

How we met

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17 August 2021 (F) - I met my husband when we were teenagers. My brother kept coming home from school upset because of a lad who was always picking on him. I just flipped one day and being a bit of a Tomboy I donned my platform boots on, given to me by my sister in law ...

Should I be worried because I know he liked my Sister back in the day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1228 days ago

16 August 2021 (F) - I really like my new boyfriend but my only problem is that I know he liked my sister once upon a time. They were in the same year at school and used to walk home together a lot. In fact I saw them snogging once outside our house. This was about 4 ...

Do you think there is any possible explanation to justify the pictures?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1228 days ago

16 August 2021 (M) - Hi! So my girlfriend said she went to the museum with 2 friends and posted some photos to social media. However the reflections in the glass in the photos are weird. Firstly there was one of her holding a guys arm when he posed for a photo, so...

I made him number one in my life. Why am I not his?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1228 days ago

15 August 2021 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now and its going better then good he’s the most loving and caring man I’ve ever met. We love each other and everyday he goes above and beyond for me to make me feel special and loved. I had a very rough ...

Boyfriend spending all his time w a couple. Weird?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1230 days ago

15 August 2021 (F) - My boyfriend of fifteen years off and on has been spending an unusual amount of time with a couple that he calls friends.the cute younger girl and him are very flirty and are very close. The girls boyfriend now husband seams oblivious to this. I ...

The girl I am dating tried to commit suicide because of a previous relationship. This freaks me out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1229 days ago

15 August 2021 (M) - A girl I am seeing recently revealed to me that she tried to commit suicide before over a guy. She claims he lead her on, thinking they were going to have a relationship but he only wanted sex. In the end, he dumped her and said he was never really ...

My boyfriend and his crazy family are getting on my nerves

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1229 days ago

14 August 2021 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend( he's 52) for 9 years now so he knows me well and I met his family VERY early on ( a bit to early in hindsight) They have never shown any interest in me.....never asked me any personal questions to get to know me ...

I feel like I would drop plans with my friends in a heartbeat for him but he wouldn’t do the same for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1230 days ago

14 August 2021 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now and its going better then good he’s the most loving and caring man I’ve ever met. We love each other and everyday he goes above and beyond for me to make me feel special and loved. I had a very rough ...

Things were great, then suddenly she blocked me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1229 days ago

12 August 2021 (M) - Hey all and first off, thanks for taking the time to review my situation. So this started a little under a month ago, me and this woman I met through the internet have been chatting 24/7 every day. Met up a couple times and hit it off. Things ...

I just found out someone I briefly dated was dating his now wife

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1228 days ago

11 August 2021 (F) - Hello Not sure how to process this. I just found out someone I briefly dated was dating his now wife. I feel angry and used. I would never ever date someone taken. The fact that I was an unknowing participant hurts me. Actually the last time I s...

He will be nice for awhile then ask for money, when I say no it's like a different person

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1232 days ago

10 August 2021 (F) - Hi, and thanks! So my boyfriend and I have been together about 3 years. When it's good it's great, when it's bad, its horrible! He has mood swings. Mostly money related. He will be okay when he has money, but if hes broke he acts like a chil...

My boyfriend is grieving the loss of his mother and has pushed me away

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1234 days ago

9 August 2021 (F) - Hi I would love some advice on how to deal with my boyfriend who is grieving and has pushed me away. He told me he needs time to deal with the death of his mother who was very ill for sometime didn't die suddenly and says he needs peace and quiet ...

I think this girl likes my boyfriend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1232 days ago

9 August 2021 (F) - Hi everybody. Some advice please. There's this girl that I just noticed. I've been observing her behaviour. I noticed her looking at my boyfriend. At first, I thought it was nothing because maybe she looks at him out of curiosity or something els...

Partner in his 40s wants to go clubbing

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1235 days ago

8 August 2021 (F) - How do I settle down that my partner in his late 40s still wants to go clubbing? Wee have been together for 2 years and before he met me his life was work and then party every weekend. Which is fair enough he was a single guy, no responsibility o...

My boyfriend does not work due to some mental issues but refuses to tell me what he has. Do I not have the right to know?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1235 days ago

7 August 2021 (F) - Hello and than you! So I have a question. My boyfriend does not work due to some mental issues but refuses to tell me what he has. Do i not have the right to know? Am i being yo nosy ? I asked him and he says he gets an assessment every...

Am I being unreasonable when I question my partner on why I haven't met his parents

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1236 days ago

7 August 2021 (F) - Am i being unreasonable when I question my partner on why I haven't met his parents. It has started to really bother me. Wee have a good relationship, been on holiday together, he's good with my kid ect. I think I keep myself reasonably well....

I actually can't talk with him about anything without it turning into an argument

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1239 days ago

5 August 2021 (F) - My bf says some things that really bother me and I think I need to get out before it goes worse. We've been together 8 months. I'm 33 and he's 30. He can never just have a discussion as he takes things so personally and like an attack and is ...

Interested in pursuing a relationship with woman who has an eight month old

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1238 days ago

5 August 2021 (M) - I want to pursue a relationship with a woman I met online who has an eight month old baby. We met last year and we were both looking for friends during the pandemic. We have a lot in common in terms of hobbies, political views, religion, etc. We ...

Do men find women like me who don't gym or have toned bodies undesirable or not sexy enough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1238 days ago

4 August 2021 (F) - I am a 32 year old female. Of late I have been having issues accepting my body. I am 5'5" and weigh 63 kilos/ ~ 138 lbs. I watch what I eat and maintain my weight through walking regularly. I dont have washboard abs or a muscular body toned by gym. ...

26 years old and never had any romantic experience

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1239 days ago

3 August 2021 (M) - Can anyone tell me what being in a relationship is like? Asking for a friend... Lol joking aside, 26M. Virgin. Kiss-less. Holding Hands-Less. Date-less. Getting a girl's number-less. It's hard to deal with. I guess the main problem is I've a...

I caught him clearing porn sites from his computer

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1241 days ago

2 August 2021 (F) - My partner and I were suppose to do some research together on his laptop when I stepped away I came back in the mist of him clearing his browse history. I was completely shocked, he said he didn't want me see his porn sites and was embarrassed. I ...

Girlfriend always says she misses me and wants a hug even though I am with her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1241 days ago

2 August 2021 (M) - I have a girlfriend and I love her and she loves me back as well. But my question is, she always asks for a hug and she missed me even though I am with her. Is that normal right? Well, it's not that I'm complaining. I actually love it because from ...

Why am I not good enough for a relationship, or even fun a second time ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1242 days ago

1 August 2021 (F) - Hi, please help I am really struggling I am trying to understand the pattern of events that keep happening. I have just got back onto the dating scene and wanted to have fun to gain casual experience, but ultimately looking for more. It see...

We have so many holes in walls because my bf can’t control his anger and refuses to get help for it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1241 days ago

1 August 2021 (F) - My boyfriend never wants to discuss issues or problems which results in me feeling worse than I already did and the problem still there. I just feel like I’m being silenced because whenever I start to talk about things that annoy me or that I ...