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30-35,
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writes:I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now and its going better then good he’s the most loving and caring man I’ve ever met. We love each other and everyday he goes above and beyond for me to make me feel special and loved. I had a very rough year. I lost my mom to cancer and he never left my side. Him and his family attended every event always made me feel like part of their family and gave me undying support. We moved in together almost 6 months ago and its going great we do everything together and i love spending my time with him. We got a puppy together 3 months ago. And we’re starting to feel like a little family. There is just one thing that upsets me sometimes, and it’s probably me overreacting and maybe even being a little selfish but I feel like my feelings should always be vaild and I just wanted an outsiders opinion. I feel like sometimes he puts going out with his friends before me. Like on some weekends he’ll go out drinking with his friends and he won’t even ask me if I want to do anything and not every weekend but just sometimes. I completely understand were only 27 and were still young were not a married couple but he says all the time how he wants to marry me and have kids with me and I just know wife's that husbands leave them at home with the kids while they go with their friends drinking and stuff and that will never be me. I just feel like I would drop plans with my friends in a heartbeat for him but he wouldn’t do the same for me. And it’s probably me being jealous and selfish because he does everything for me and i know that he loves me but I feel like i made him number 1 in my life and i just want to feel like the same in his. Does anyone have any thoughts on this? Does any have any suggestions on this?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 August 2021):
 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-feel-like-i-would-drop-plans-with.html
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OP, it will be easier for you to get answers if you stick to one post "per topic". Easier for the "Aunts and Uncles" too.
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reader, Tinacandida  +, writes (17 August 2021):
 He sounds like he is a wonderful man. You are blessed. Let him enjoy his friends theres nothing wrong with that. Girls usually know when they have a player. Youve a long way to go with your life together, grow together and learning about all aspects of each other can make you stronger. Ive been with my husband for over 40 years and we have grown and matured together by bringing our family up and maintaining our own interests and independance and not held each other back when weve had our own friends or hobbies. Just keep doing what you are doing and dont stop him seeing his friends etc obviously if its not disregarding you too much. Dont stop seeing your own friends either.
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