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*oohBear101
writes:I have a question if my boyfriend starts to act funny with me every time when female cousin of his comes around I mean to the point that he avoids my touch and doesn't wanna kiss me or he turns to see if she is in the room or watching him should I think something is going on or should I just let to go
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reader, moli-c +, writes (21 December 2011):
dont let it go, take heed and bring it up in front of her, families keep a lot of secrets!!! between them, and ive been a victom of one, my husband now of two years was sleeping w his adopted sister that for some odd reason never liked me, always rude and nasty to me for no reason, i mean she even treated my griends and family nice, but very spitful to me whever she vould be. my husband told me one year after marrige, when qe had begin to get along he told me just incase she told me first, now im married with two kids, six year realationship but married going on two, hard to pick up and walk away, still hurt and suspicious?! of if he did it while we were together, but i remember feeling that vibe about them two in the beggung, and even asking him about it before, (he said no, which was akward to ask at the time) but he should have told me then, why didnt he tell me then if it was nothing then, do u think i was decieved into my marrige??? or should i let it go? his sister stopped coming around after i found out, n my husband will not go back around his family because i wont go, i rrfuse to be feling foolish around them, because they all now no that i no, akward right!
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reader, Andy's Smile +, writes (3 November 2011):
I think it's odd that she asked your son about your relationship with your boyfriend. Her behavior is odd all around, actually. The only advice I can think to give is to stay away from her as much as possible (including your bf and son), and to keep your eyes open, which it sounds like you have been. Again, though, it might be innocent, but if she's been the cause of arguments, I'd stay away. That's reason enough.
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reader, PoohBear101 +, writes (1 November 2011):
PoohBear101 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhen anyone else besides her is around he doesnt avoid me he's right behind me and his very affectionate and when I ask him what is going on he says I'm being insecure and we argue when I have confronted her she acts suprised and runs and tells him he's 37 she's 22 but she has also question my son about our realtionship
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reader, PoohBear101 +, writes (1 November 2011):
PoohBear101 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhen anyone else besides her is around he doesnt avoid me he's right behind me and his very affectionate and when I ask him what is going on he says I'm being insecure and we argue when I have confronted her she acts suprised and runs and tells him he's 37 she's 22 but she has also question my son about our realtionship
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reader, Andy's Smile +, writes (1 November 2011):
That does sound a bit weird. It doesn't mean anything is going on, but it's possible he has a thing for her, or vice versa. Or it could be nothing. I wouldn't jump to conclusions, though. Ask him about it first. Also, has he ever had a problem being affectionate in front of other people before? If it's just when she's around, that is odd, but there might be a reasonable explanation for it.
How old is his cousin, btw?
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