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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I live with my girlriend and she goes for drinks at her friends' place every night. I go work at day time and we spend time with each other. Even if I ask her not to drink everyday , she wouldn't listen .It disturbs me a lot as I feel insecure and plus her health condition is not good as she is suffering from some auto immune disease.How do I make her understand?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (14 February 2011):
 Even though it may not be good for health wise, it's still her life. When is drinking ever good? Is she staying out all hours of the night getting drunk? Or is it just casually drinking with friends? Why doesn't she ask you to come along?
You're not her boss, or her mother..no matter how much you ask her to stop drinking she won't. Your girl is going to do what she wants regardless of what you say. I think it's more of your insecurity. Tell me are you afraid she's going to cheat or is cheating on you? Has you ever given you a reason not to trust her?
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