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writes: Why she doens't trust me? i have shown more than once how much I love her, she repeated it too, i did mistakes in the past, I've never been unfaithful but i have been not nice to herin the past, i haven't shown that i trust to her, but all that was past Now i don't do it, i did many things that showed her how important she is for me. She has done things in the past that were not good to me either and i forgave her, she says she loves me , we have wonderful times together still but she hides from me. She gets away from me, she doubt me all the time, i never gave her reasons, never was unfaithful as i said. She had bad experiencies in the past like i did too, we have been one year together and we are closer than never but this doubts still remain. I am 27, she is older than me, her insecurities make her behave in a fast way sometimes, when we have a discussion she just leave, and go somewhere else. I know she lies about somethings to me and she calls me a lier when she thinks i hide something. She is a smart woman, sweet and good person. But when hard times come everything seems to get out of our hands and i don't know what to do to show her that she can trust me, show her that i don't want to hurt her.
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reader, heyy  +, writes (20 October 2009):
I swear until you said, She gets away from me, she doubt me all the time, i never gave her reasons, never was unfaithful as i said" I thought my boyfriend was writing this... but Ok! this is good, because no one likes a cheater!
If yall have been together for only a year and she doesn't trust you, that is ridiculous, you said you didn't do anything, why wouldn't she trust you... Don't mark my words, but usually when people question the other all the time and are that insecure, they are the ones cheating... Been there, done that.
Now tomorrow, don't go accusing her of cheating lol But if she continues, the best thing to do is just break up with her... If she is like that now, just imagine what it will grow and be like in the future... ughhh how miserable.
Hey! maybe you will gain her trust and she is not cheating on you, I could be completely wrong, I mean I don't know either of yall, but that is just what I think...
I hope I helped!
Good luck!
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