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*ove Will Tear Us Apart
writes:Hello, can anyone help me please?I have been working with a girl at work for nearly two years now and I REALLY, REALLY like her. I consider us to be very close friends but would really like to know how I could tell whether she fancies me too without asking her.I've done the usual internet searches on signs of attraction but it would be really handy if I could know the tell tale signs without having to stare at her to tell!Sometimes I am totally convinced she fancies me too, but at other times I feel the complete opposite. At times she is really sweet and open, but at other times she treats me like anyone else and can be distant and talk to me like we have just met. To be fair I treat her the same sometimes because I find it difficult wrestling with my strong feelings for her.The signs I think could be positive are:- We share great banter; she is always calling me names, teasing me and so on,- Sometimes her eyes go big or she blinks a lot when she looks at me,- Sometimes I see her looking in my direction, but I can't tell whether this is just a coincidence,- Sometimes she is really shy around me,- She makes excuses to talk to me sometimes,- Somwtimes she will tell me off for doing something wrong or saying something out of turn.There's probably a few more too, but I think I could be reading too much into these.If there is anyone out there that could help me I would be really grateful. A girl's perspective would be really handy too. Thankyou!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): when you guys are in a group look at her feet, they will pointing to the person she likes, her pupils will dialate, maybe she'll blush, playful gestures, finding any reason to touch you..hope this helps (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): It sounds to me like she likes you. I say that because you say sometimes she gives you the impression she likes you and other times she treats you like everyone else or acts shy. Speaking as a shy girl, that's exactly what I would do - you let yourself flirt with the guy then think it was too obvious and embarrassing and he'll know you like him, so you pull back and act more distant for a while. Try and organise something with her outside of work. Sitting next to her and accidentally letting your leg touch hers and seeing if she pulls away or not is a good subtle start :)
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reader, iloveyhoo +, writes (6 August 2009):
 yeh she possibly does like you.
she might not admit it,or to be honest she might not have even realised it herself yet but she has at the very least something for you.
goood luck
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