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36-40,
anonymous
writes:dear cupid;ive been dating my boyfriend for around a year with some breaks in between, i had my first time with him..the relationship has never been stable sometimes it is super nice sometimes it is bad...i had many arguments with him for little things such as he erased and blocked me from his facebook, because i found some pictures of him dancing extremly close with a girl which i dont know, also most of his friends dont know that im dating him which makes me doubt about him...recently he traveled away for around 20 days at the begining things were good but after a week he stop calling and sending me emails. now i got on the msn and i saw that he changed his nick to something like i need to close my email or they will caught me...he havent email me back yet...i really dont know what to think im starting to think that he never loved me and that he was using me...should i broke up with him im really confuse and sad...please help me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009): I know excactly what your going through, i was in your
same situation a few weeks ago with my loser boyfriend. My
first time was with him, and after that he dumped me, which
clearly meant he only wanted me for sex. Even though you
probably don't want to admit it, you know the same thing
is happening to you. I'm so sorry honey, but the best thing
you can do is break up with him, and i know it's hard, believe me, but you will get through this. Soon enough,
you'll find someone that treats you right and one that you
deserve. Hope this helped, GOOD LUCK AND STAY STRONG. KEEP
YOUR HEAD UP HIGH =]
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reader, emilymarie26 +, writes (6 August 2009):
I have been through the exact same relationship. The lows tear your heart apart, but the highs make your forget about it for a while and give you hope again. He did all the same things, and eventually I had to realize I was more unhappy than happy being with him.
In the end, this boy is immature and can't handle a relationship. You need a boy who will appreciate all the love you give to him, and who can give just as much love back. As hard as it is to let go, it sounds like it's definitely time to break up. Surround yourself with your family and friends (they'll always be there for you!), keep yourself busy with things that interest you, and give your heart time to heal and grow and learn from this. Next time, you'll be able to find someone who deserves you and all you have to offer! Good luck and stay strong!!
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