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36-40,
*jerell
writes:I'm in college and I've been dating this guy for almost a year. I went home for the summer to take care of some family issues. When I first left we called and texted each other all day, everyday, but soon that became less and less. We were testing each other yesterday and I asked him if he had been with anyone since I had been gone. He texted me back "ok, I have a new girlfriend and I'm sorry I had to tell you like this but we still cool and they started dating around the 4th of july. I have to see him in a couple days and I don't know what to say to him. What would you do?
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reader, Twistedbaby420 +, writes (9 August 2009):
 How are you feeling about what he did? Were the two of you dating without a label, or had you agreed to be exclusive?
Either way, I think after over a year of dating he should have been more upfront with you about everything. I'm sure when your contact with one another started to decrease, you assumed something was up, but he definitely should have told you sooner --- and without you having to test him.
What you say to him all depends on how you're feeling about everything. If you think you'd be able to be just friends him, I would briefly tell him that it's cool he met someone, you just wish he could have been more upfront with you about it. If you still have feelings for him and thought things were going somewhere and you feel like you want to voice this to him, then do it. You might not like what you hear back, but you also don't want to be left wondering "what if".
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