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Archived questions from: 22 January, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How can I drop him a hint?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6153 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - hi theres this guy who has told me he likes me and he knws i like him. we are on the same course at university, he has asked of rmy number and we txt frm time to time etc. but he is just not making any moves, my friends say he is shy around me et...

My boyfriend has been texting his EX. Is this cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

22 January 2008 (?) - Hi everyone. My boyfriend emotionally cheated on me with his ex. I forgave him. I still dont think i know the full story. What i wanna know is does everyone think that i should know the full story b4 i can move on. Im trying to move on but its very ...

Met him on a BDSM website! should I meet him for a date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - Recently I signed up to a bdsm-based site on a drunken whim with my friends. I didn't really think about it and just deleted any emails from other members I recieved, until the other day when I recieved a message from a guy who seemed to speak my ...

I'm confused and jealous. How do I handle it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6153 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend, and we've been dating for a couple of months. He has alot of friends who are girls, and I find out that we has a crush on one of them for about 2 years.(long before we met) and now he's beginning to hang out with her more often. ...

I had to let him walk away...but I love him so much and want him back.Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I were together for a year and just split up recently. I am in my late twenties; ten years younger than him. In the beginning, he pursued me strongly. I wanted to start slow. When we were together, we were great and got along ...

I do love my current boyfriend but when ever I see my ex I want him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

22 January 2008 (M) - When i first came out i was with this gorgeous guy so gorgeous i did stupid things !! I felt like i was in competition with him all the time ! We were mad about each other from the start but then he started acting all not interested so it...

How is it possible to shut all feelings off almost overnight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

22 January 2008 (M) - i split up with a girl after 2 years and the day i moved my stuff out a freind from 20 years ago called and we thought it would be fun to hang , well we fell in love, i think, anyway all wa great for 9 or 10 months and then i realized i was not ...

Everything was great till she said I lied about my past.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

22 January 2008 (M) - Been in a relationship for 9 months. Everything was great till she said I lied about my past. She is a police officer and I had a case that was going on it finally ended two days before Xmas. With a ruling that we could still see each other. She ...

Is there any hope for us or am I right in thinking that he needs time alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - Bit of a long tale, but hopefully you guys will be able to help me with this! I have a boyfriend of 2 yrs. At the start of the relationship we were madly in love and it was wonderful. They were the best times of my life. However, we have...

He doesn't like my speaking style and he cuts me off. Why is he so rude to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - My b/f of 3 yrs.is continually cutting me off in the middle of something I'm saying because he says I "take too many words to tell a story"...he wants simple yes, no, and very few words. The least amount of words possible to say whatever I need to ...

Does he really like me? Or should I just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6154 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - There's this guy who I like in school. I added him in Friendster and eventually started sending messages to him. After a while, I asked for his email. A few months later, I decided to IM him. He said he just 'wanted to message me'. He asked if I had ...

I'm loney, sad and bitter! How can I find happiness?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - Im so god damn stressed and depressed. I feel like my life is a load of crap and it will never get better. At work, i feel like im not good enough for them, im just to common, I girl that likes to have a good time, im not stuck up my own arse! M...

The guy I like is into swinger's clubs and porn. I've thrown in the towel with him but how do I deal with my broken heart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - I met some one over 7 years ago. We have had a loving relationship during that time, we live apart. He prefers staying single. I now find that he is going out and is part of a local swingers club with another woman, he is dating other women, and ...

My friend's bf is all about her one minute and the next, he says nasty things to her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - Hi, I am writing this for a friend. She is going out with this guy for about 9 months now. At the start he was the perfect boyfriend but he seems to have taken a bit of a turn. One minute he is all about her and the next he says nasty things, ig...

When it comes to love, I feel a bit left out...any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

22 January 2008 (M) - When it comes to love, I feel a bit left out: I'm 28 now and I only discovered girls about 2 years ago, because I wanted to concentrate on my career and education. Why do I feel a bit left out?...

I'm bi and thinking of women too much. How can I work this through without it affecting my relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6154 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - I am in a loving relationship with my long term boyfriend. I consider myself to be bisexual and cannot stop thinking about women at the moment. It is beginning to affect our physical relationship a little bit. How can I work through this without ...

He lied to me--should I forgive him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - should i forgive my bf. for ten months he lied to me.....he told me this weekend that he's still a v im proud of the fact that he's still one just like me but the fact that he lied to me kills me. it came out like this: must i tell you the ...

I told him how I feel and he said he didn't want a relationship! But now, he's started dating my best friend. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - Hello, If you can give me some advice that would be great. I'm not sure if this plan will work for my situation but I have been putting it to use. Let me briefly summarize my story- it's rather complicated! So to begin with about 2 years ago I...

How do I make her feel the love that I have for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

22 January 2008 (M) - i am in love with a girl in my college but i cant propose her because of the fear that how will she react.she is a very good and serious student.we are even not good friends.what i must do to make her feel that i really love her within next two ...

My Dad ignores me...is this why I always go for older men to date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6154 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - I have this thing where i always fancy older men, and by that i mean aged between 25 and about 40...its really bad, and my friends are a bit like wtf.... i know the only reason i am attracted to them is because im looking for a fatherly figure ...

What qualities do guys respect in their girlfriends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - Hi aunts :) I was wondering about what qualities a guy respects in his girlfriend? I read another user post this thought on DearCupid: "He was proud to show me off to his family and more so did those little gestures that means so much to us...

Is he dating these other women (some are prostitutes) or... is he just helping them financially, like he claims?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - I was dating for 1month a man who is almost double my age. I really loved him and i think he does too. But the problem is a lot of women calls him and he try to answer them by saying he is with his GF. and i told him to ask them all not to call... i ...

I am controlling...how do I stop being this way

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

22 January 2008 (?) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 14 months now. We've never really had problems, but he's good looking, and a lot of girls fancy him. He's just generally a friendly guy, and that's why I love him, but I'm afraid it comes across as ...

Should I dump him and start over or just accept this as I'm not getting any younger?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - Hey, my relationship with my bf is not going the way I wanted things, but I am afraid to start again with another person and to start from "0" again. At the same time, I feel like I don't have much time left in terms of forming a family. I am 30 ...

Do I pursue my ex --is she still interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

22 January 2008 (M) - Hi, Okay, I need some true advice, from someone who is older..i'm 40, my ex is 27. We have been broken up for 8 mos. She doesn't call or write, except a text on X-mas. I don't write her either, or text, except for new years. However, she jus...

We kissed a lot on the first date..but we didn't at all on the 2nd date. What does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6154 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - My question is simple, though I feel ridiculous asking it, given that I'm 19, but its been a while since I really liked someone, so I'm actually worried about it, goddamit. I met this guy, and he asked for my number, and then we had this intense...

Is there anything wrong with telling her what I want in the relationship that I'm not getting? or is this a sign that we should end this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

22 January 2008 (?) - Okay, so I'm still with the same girl I have been ever since I started posting on here. Distance relationship. About 9 1/2 months in. Right now she is studying abroad in England and things have just gotten really tough. I think it's probably good in ...

He treats me like crap...so help me learn to 'unattach' myself from him..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - There's a boy that I started dating. We dated for over a year. In the process of us dating, I got attached. I want to know how I can get unattached, because he treats me like crap. I feel like he doesn't care about me anymore. There's another ...

Is my girlfriend slipping away from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6154 days ago

22 January 2008 (M) - My girlfriend of three years recently wanted to go on a break but she decided not to. Now she is telling me to leave her alone and limit our contact she says she wants to marry me and that she loves me but I cant shake the feeling that iam loosing ...

What is the deal with him-is he afraid to have a relationship or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6154 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - I went out with this guy a couple of months ago and we really enjoyed being together. As I got to know him more, I found out that we had a lot in common. I have hinted to him that I would like to be more than just friends but he said that he just ...

I want to be more than friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - I know a guy who just wants to be friends with me. I am starting to care a lot about him and want to be more than friends in the future. I really enjoy his company and we have a lot in common. How do I show that I really like him and care about him? ...

What is the best way to give her a chance to find her love for me again? Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

22 January 2008 (M) - My girlfriend says she has fallen out of love with me. What is my best way to get her back? We met when she was over visiting a friend. She kept coming back to see me and then moved over here to be with me as we had so much in common and we were in ...

I'm going through severe depressive episodes along with anxiety. I can't eat, sleep or drink anything. Does this guy love me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6154 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - I recently posted a question concerning my boyfriend. We have been dating for five months. I suffer from clinical depression and have been struggling on sunday and monday a little bit. We were supposed to get together on Friday, but when I called ...

Does this boy really like me..I want to know because I don't want to lose him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - So I like this kid and he says he likes me also we talk every day but it seems that like when we talk I always have to write him first and it bothers me and I told him because if he likes me as much as he says he does how come he never writes me and ...

She's all I think about but...she has a bf! what should I do here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

22 January 2008 (M) - i'm 15 and I really like my 16yr old friend. the problem is she has a bf. so the other day she gav me a kiss on the cheek. i'm also good friends wit her sister. my friend went and asked the sister of girl that i like if she (the sister Of the ...

In love with my yoga teacher! Do I let him know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - I have been carrying this baggage deep in my heart for about more than 2 months now....I think I'm very much in love with my yoga teacher. I do not know why I like him so much....I think I would say that I like the simplicity in him and the purity ...

Is there such thing as internet love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - Is there such thing as "internet love"? I've registered for a website sort of like myspace just for fun however, I didn't know I would come across someone I thought I'd find interesting. Sometime, in the beginning of November of 2007, he sent...

What do you do when you cheat on the boy you love so much? How do you fix that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6154 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - What do you do when you cheat on the boy you love so much? How do you fix that? How do you show him that you won't ever do it again and that you don't want to lose him? Help anyone? Please don't bash me for what I did, but just know that I am so ...

I am disabled and can't walk! Is this fair to my bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - i fall in love with someone and he also loves me but i have a big proplem i can't walk and i dun know if i could live with him in a normal life or i will injustice him??...