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writes:should i forgive my bf. for ten months he lied to me.....he told me this weekend that he's still a v im proud of the fact that he's still one just like me but the fact that he lied to me kills me. it came out like this: must i tell you the truth.....i wanna loose my virginity on you i never had sex before:( ive asked him several times if he did have sex before and he answered yes...during this months he even named them by name, and im familiar with them....the reason he did this was becoz he felt ashamed. he said to be 21, still a v, the only one in his click is not at all something to be proud of...that's y he lied to me and to the rest of his friends. i really neva thought he'll eve keep something from me and for sooooo long. i was honest with him right from the start y was he not yoh. im disappointed, furious y did he lie to me?????????is he love for me or trust for me not enough?????? Please Help!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anon_e_mouse  +, writes (23 January 2008):
 I think you're over-reacting here. Sounds to me lilke he was embarrassed about admitted it and nervous about it. It takes time to get so close to someone you can open up and tell them your secret/s.
Don't worry about it. He told you the truth and this was likely a huge step for him. It's not like he was lying about something awful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008): Don't worry he was probably lieing about it so he wouldn't seem less manly. My boyfreind told me openly the second time I asked him he was nervous that if he told me he was a vigin that I wouldn't be interested, be happy that it isnt such a big lie, if you love him you will forgive him. Now that your acting like this about it he might think your less interested in him becuase he is one, lieing is bad but at least he isnt lieing about something worse.
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