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writes: I know a guy who just wants to be friends with me. I am starting to care a lot about him and want to be more than friends in the future. I really enjoy his company and we have a lot in common. How do I show that I really like him and care about him? I don't want to rush it because he seems to be reserved, and I do not want to put too much pressure on him. What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Enjoythesilence +, writes (26 January 2008):
Basically i guy would know if a girl likes them by certain ques. when he talks to you just smile alot, laugh, and be engaging. Be appreciative with the littliest things he does and show it. Just call him out of the blues and say you just wanted to talk. Take the step of asking him if he would accompany you to some coffee lunch or just to pick up some stuff at the mall. just make him feel wanted and warm and i'm sure he'll slowly realize how you feel... good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2008): how do u mean by reserved ..... ? and i can totally understand where your coming from ... i have a m8 who liked me for more than just a mate but we talked it over and were just mates now .. but if u both like each other then i dont see any reason as in to how you cant tell him how you feel .
personaly what i think you should do is to tell im how you feel and see what happens from there .. if he does still like you and u want to give it ago then go for it girl .... but i think if you would rather not tell im ... you could always meet up toghether and just chat and have a good time ... of course like friend flirting .... u do know how to 2 do that .. if not then emial me and i will tell you ..
but like you catch where im going ... just try and be still mates and everything but like hint it off 2 im that you like im .. if he doesnt notice then the only option i can think off is tellimg him .
hope this helps .... email me if you need more help
xx prinstion girl xx
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