A
male
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Been in a relationship for 9 months. Everything was great till she said I lied about my past. She is a police officer and I had a case that was going on it finally ended two days before Xmas. With a ruling that we could still see each other. She confronted me right after Xmas and I said I just wanted it over before I told her and fig. Xmas day was not the time. We were engaged to be married. She said she wants to start over. And we are DONE for the time being? This is killing me any advice
View related questions:
engaged Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Laura1318  +, writes (23 January 2008):
 She told you she wanted to start all over. Give her some time to clear her thoughts.
You could send her a message that you still love her and will be there for her.If she still loves you , she will contact you.
A
male
reader, rcn +, writes (23 January 2008):
 I'd just apologize to her. There are crimes, that if convicted, a police officer is not allowed to date. Any type of assualt, domestic crimes that include any form of violence, felony's etc. That's because the person convicted can not be around guns, and officers often have their duty and non duty guns with them at home.
If it's not for any of those reasons, apologizing would be the best start for you. Ask her if she's willing to take it slow, with an attempt to get back where you were. Reaffirm why it is you want to marry her. All though you may not have come out and directly lied. In law, misleading, withholding, misrepresentation, etc. are seen as deseit, or lies.
...............................
|
