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writes: Hi everyone. My boyfriend emotionally cheated on me with his ex. I forgave him. I still dont think i know the full story. What i wanna know is does everyone think that i should know the full story b4 i can move on. Im trying to move on but its very hard. I dont even think i wanna know the full story incase it hurts more!! Is it possible to move on without knowing some facts...such as who initiated what?? Who text who first and that kinda thing....
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reader, lynnb84  +, writes (23 January 2008):
Right, i think you do need to know. If you dont find out now then you'll wonder for the rest of your relationship. It will always be there nagging at you,somewhere in the back of your head. You need to get everything out in the open. No secrets. Then you can relax knowing hes not keeping anything from you, and the slate can be wiped clean. You cant forgive him properly unless you know exactly what it is your forgiving him for.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (23 January 2008):
 If you have forgiven him ,put the matter to rest and forget it. There is no need to know the details. Live in the present and look to the future.
There are many things which need your attentions and do not waste your limited resources to wonder about those sordid details. It will not help you or anybody .Why do something that is useless and have no value anymore? It won't change anything in your relationship.
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