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Archived questions from: 21 January, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I have some growing up to do...so how do you go from a spoiled child to acting like a responsible adult?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I seem to always get along and spend a lot of time with each other. Last night out of the blue he told me that he loved me and didn't want to break up with me, but lately he had something on his mind. He was worried because we ...

He has a gf! But I love him and just cant let him go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - hey this is Taylor well my question is ..... i have been talking to this guy for a while and we have been messin around for a long time and he just got a girlfriend not to long ago. he didnt tell me about it until later on but i tried to refuse to ...

Should I wait the 2 months for her to leave her current bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6154 days ago

21 January 2008 (M) - hi i been liking a girl for 2 months now she says she loves me back but she has a bf says she will leave him for me after 2 months if i wait for her i said i would but the problem is i cant wait because of past experiences she wont leave hi...

Having problems in our relationship due to his immaturity. Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6154 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - this is going to make me sound awful, but here goes. My boyfriend and i have been together for nearly 5 years now, we got together when we were quite young and he never really seemed to mature and we're having a lot of problems because of this. ...

I feel our relationship is based on lies and inconsistancies! How can I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6154 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - I am really confused. I got together with my boyfriend after he had just seperated from his wife. It was a very difficult and nasty seperation.(and contiues to be a nightmare) We have been together for over 3 years now and although initially he ...

Should I tell her I still love her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6150 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - MY girlfriend and i broke up in november 07, our break up was due to the distance and it was getting a bit difficult.I was still in college and she was starting to work. Our break up was a very calm one, we broke up over the phone. I havent seen her ...

I don't get it?! does he like me or not?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6154 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - hello im 14....ever since i broke up with my boyfriend....some guy i really like starts to follow me around..like today at the end of the school day i went to my locker and i saw the guy i like coming so i was walkin to my ex's(hes my ...

Confused here! Does my flatmate like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6154 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - hey. I am so confused. Does my flatmate like me??? Basically we have been living together for about 4 months and I really like him. However, about a month ago he found a note under my bed saying that i liked him and so now he knows how i feel abou ...

Her allergies are getting to me and it's affecting our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

21 January 2008 (M) - My girlfriend has recently been diagnosed as being allergic . . . to nearly everything. In fact, when she asked the doctor for a list of everything she is allergic too, his answer was it would be easier to give her a list of what she isnt allergic ...

I'm not in love with her and she just won't take no for an answer!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6154 days ago

21 January 2008 (M) - hi everyone, i hope someone can help. well, i've met this girl quite a while back, she's very attractive, but, there's a problem. I'm not in love with her. And I've told her this many times already. But she just won't take no for an answer. she ...

I made out with my sister's boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - my older sister has been going out with her boyfriend for 5 1/2 years already,so her boyfriend has grown on me ,hes the only one that i tell my secrets to. this past christmas when my sisters boyfriend and i were left alone together i could tell ...

Too much to handle- boyfriend/kids/me.....jealousy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6154 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - Okay, so here goes! This is going to seem somewhat complicated: So I've had this boyfriend for a little over 5 months now. Over these past five months, I have fallen totally in love with him, without a doubt in my mind. So I was going to tell hi...

We're just newly dating a month---so what do I do for valentines day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for a short while now, by valentines day we will have been seeing eachother for just a bit over a month. We get on really well and I can really see myself falling in love with him in the not too distant future. We spend our ...

Not sure if I should marry him as he doesn't want kids and I do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - Should i stay with a guy that says we can get married, after years of saying he never would, as long as i never trick him into having children. He says that i do then he'll leave me and the child on our own, it's not like he hates children but he ...

I always liked her sister...should I act on these feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6154 days ago

21 January 2008 (M) - Hi, i was in a relationship for 12 months and then we split, in that time i realised i had feelings for her sister, although i knew i could never act on these feelings. she ended our relationship and now its over i really want to act on the feelings ...

If I take care of my divorce baggage and give her space...will my gf come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6154 days ago

21 January 2008 (M) - I have been with a women for 9 1/2 years and she just broke up with me and now I have some much hurt it is hard to deal with. I am no angel and have never finalized my divorce. She says that is not the reason. Her mom passed away 2 months ago and ...

How can I break it off with my very 'dependant' girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

21 January 2008 (M) - I want to leave my girlfriend but she's too dependant on me. I don't think she'll be able to cope. She says her life has never been as happy as it is with me and I've turned her life around. She says I've helped her get off drugs, move to a nice a...

We split up and he wouldn't talk to me when I saw him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - i saw my ex bf earlier and he didnt even look at me or talk, stayed a few mins then left. even his mate was looking at me like he was going to talk. it did kind of upset me that he didnt even say hi, he did say lets me mates when he called it off. ...

Should my friend get involved in broidering a date/call, since she acquainted us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6154 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - On Saturday night I went to my friends birthday party. Her friend Jordan was there and we hit it off. He is flirty, fun and pretty cute. I went home that night and couldn't sleep...I was thinking of him. I haven't liked someone like that in a really ...

We've grown apart a bit. Is it normal to feel like this or is it a sign that something's wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - Hi, this is probably going to sound ridiculous but I'll give it a shot. I'm really confused about my feelings for the man in my life. i know that infatuation and wild romances are temporary things and that being in love with someone is something ...

Valentine's Day, Present Ideas, Help please!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - Hey Everyone, well as you know Valentines Day is coming up and i have NO idea what to get my boyfriend. We have been seeing each other for a while and he said hes gonna get me something wonderful... but its so hard for me to figure out what to get a ...

Are there signs that she might be interested?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

21 January 2008 (M) - Hi All, Bit of a long story this one but I think you’ll find it amusing if nothing else! I really like this girl. I’m fine chatting to her and joking around but there are moments where I get confused… Is she interested? Is she just being ni...

I want him to love me more! So much so that he's be scared to leave me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - i want to make my boyfriend love me so much so that he gets scared to leave me, but i dont know how....

Dating this guy could create problems with my ex...help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6155 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - My partner left me, after a four year relationship, nearly 7 months ago when our baby was less than a month old. My dilemma is that one of his best friends and I have feelings for each other and we don't know whether or not to act on them. We have ...

Secret Lover

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - Here is the thing I am engaged and have been with him for five years, and I love him. But last night my ex who I have remained friends with asked me if I wanted him to be my secret lover. He says "we both know we can't get got, so we have to keep it ...

Why doesn't he want to build a more meaningful relationship with me after 18 months?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - I’ve been in a relationship for 18months.Since july 06. I’m 33 female and Australian.hes 29 so hes four years younger. Heres the deal.I have been in love with hijm since the beginning And I only assume he has too.The sex has been good but cou...

How can I stop it from going wrong? Please help! I'm desperate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6155 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - me and my bf have been together for 9 months and we have had our ups and downs but now it just seems like we are always fighting and I dont know what to do cause i do not want to lose him but I feel it coming please someone help me with some ...

My boyfriend is ready for sex, and encourages me to accept it! I'm scared however, what do I tell him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - my boyfriend is ready for sex! And i told him that im kinda scared becuz idk anything bout sex just yet! he told me that i wont hurt thant much! heres what he told me about it, it all depends on how big the guy's penis is compared to the depth of ...

No matter how pleasant my dates, I get bored of them very easily. I call it "carnal apathy." The only different relationship has ended and I'm back to the "old self." Ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6155 days ago

21 January 2008 (M) - Hi there, I Feel rather ridiculous having to come to a forum for the answers to my problems, but without spending hundreds of dollars this is the best help i can get. Around half a year ago, I came out of my first real relationship. It...