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writes:Hi, I am writing this for a friend. She is going out with this guy for about 9 months now. At the start he was the perfect boyfriend but he seems to have taken a bit of a turn. One minute he is all about her and the next he says nasty things, ignores her and just doesn't make any kind of effort with their relationship. Don't get me wrong he is a sound lad but he is more interested in his friend than here, even when they go out they always seem to be there.He also says things like I don't want to get married or if I ever go away on holiday, what happens on holiday stays on holiday!! he says he doesn't do guilt.I have told her to dump him but she seems to be madly in love.. Can you give me some advice I can give her to try and sort out this situation and make him see what a wonderful girlfriend he has.ThanksL
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008): How does your friend feel about this? If she's still in love with him let her be in love and she'll be happy. If your friend is happy you should be happy.
Maybe eventually she'll get fed up of the way he seems to treat her. Maybe she won't. Whatever she does don't try to break them up, let things happen naturally.
Just be there for her for reassurance and if they do end up breaking up then just make sure that you're there to be a shoulder for her to cry on.
I hope things turn out well. x x x
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (23 January 2008):
 Your friend has no problems with her b/f or is more able to handle him than you. If it was a problem to her , she would have dumped him.Don't under estimate your friends resilience.
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