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*drsep4
writes:i'm 15 and I really like my 16yr old friend. the problem is she has a bf. so the other day she gav me a kiss on the cheek. i'm also good friends wit her sister. my friend went and asked the sister of girl that i like if she (the sister Of the girl that i like ) liked me. she said no thats (the girl that i like) thats likes me. i've been friends with this girl for almost 4 months and she's all i think about and the only girl i want. whats my nxt step remember she and her bf r aLwaYs together. Reply to this Question
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (22 January 2008):
 The problem is she has a boyfriend.
which means. she has a Bf. and is seeing someone else.
which means you are now in the Friends zone.. No there is nothing you can do to get out of it.
she is seeing someone and it is her choice to make not yours.
sorry but thats just how it is
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reader, Cherriepie +, writes (22 January 2008):
 Olive Oil had a boyfriend too. Popeye fought Bluto for her and Olive ended up with Popeye. That's what I heard. Point im trying to make is no relationship is etched in stone until theres a real commitment with a ring and exchanged vows. Just because she has a boyfriend now doesnt mean he's her one guy and will always be with him. What i think you should do is try to talk to her in your own way, and make her notice you more. You have to get her alone or in the company with her sister if you can...away from her bf. I'm not saying this is easy and I dont know if it will work, becuse going for you will always be her own choice.
But dont give up. Go out with other girls and make her see that you can be good boyfriend material. Dont be stuck on her and chase her all over, but make yourself available. SOmeday she might see you as a better guy and go for you. She may even break up with her bf, and you can jump in there and ask her out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2008): well have you ever tried to get her on her own ? why don't you invite her and a couple of other mates (without the boyfriend) out somewhere like cinemas and sit next to her. ask her how she feels about him and if it isn't working out ask her if she would ever go out with you. depending on what the answer is make your next step from there....
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