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writes:Hi, I've been going out with a girl I was kinda "more than friends" with for years. In the last few weeks I asked her out and she said yes. We're just teens, both 16, and we've kissed and it was great.When we kissed I told her I love her, which I really do, and she said that she loved me too. When I meet her in school and want to kiss, everything just seems really awkward. She came over to my house, and there seem to be a lot of silences, but they're not uncomfortable ones, and we like to nuggle up together. She hasn't told me she loves me since then, and things don't feel completely right. Any advice?Joe from Boston Reply to this Question
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reader, M_M4ever +, writes (6 September 2007):
 Just ask her how everything is going? Sometiems people forget or have things on their minds preventing them. Just calmly ask if anything is wrong and that she okay. It seems the other events were fine so it is probably just something going on, and it could be as simple as family problems.My friends boyfriend wasnt saying I love you for a while and she was sure there was something wrong that he was cheating or something. I told her to go just ask him if anything is wrong and how he is doing. She later found out his family life was really hard and was on his mind a lot so he was just forgetting.Best wishes, and im sure all will work out
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reader, Skeez  +, writes (6 September 2007):
 Heya Joe. I dont think you should worry about this all to much. When me and my boyfriend started going we didnt really say 'I love you' until about 4 months later. U shouldnt worry to much. She probably doesnt say it because of a number of reasons.1) she may not love you yet. It does take time for two people to become fully in love.2) She doesnt want to say it becuase of the reason above. She doesnt want to leed you on thinking she really does when shes not completely sure.3) She wants to wait until the right moment and the perfect time to say it.Dont rush her lovey your both just getting to know each other in a committing way so dont rush her to tell you she loves you. Im sure she does..but maybe as a friend rigth now. But im possitive that she will one day say it to you first and actually mean it.dont worry about it hun. but if you are still concerned then maybe talking with her wil be good =]goodluck
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