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*illmaiden
writes:Dear Cupid, My partner and I have lived together for 3 years and have a 16 month old baby together. We own our home together but the problem is I want to get married and he doesn't. He has 3 other children all in their twenties now. What would happen if he died, would I be forced to sell our home to divide his assets among his other children. He has been saying he will make a will for the last 18months but never gets round to it he always has an excuse. I want to feel safe and secure and the present situation is upsetting me. Thanks millmaiden Reply to this Question
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reader, war37 +, writes (7 September 2007):
Hi I can completely relate to you Im with my partner 4+ years we have a daughter who's 3 soon I live in his house he has 5 properties rented out and I pay into our home do 99% of the house work and he wont put my name on it.....You are in a good position as the house is in your name I dont think his children have a right to claim any of it, go to CAB they will tell you what would happen if he died.My partner wont Marry me and its easy for people to say if he wont Marry you say Goodbye but when you put your emotions and life into a guy its hard 'JUST' to walk away isnt it.It took me 2 1/2 years to get my guy to write a legal will with a solicitor,he did do it make him understand by writing a letter to him explaining your fears,that way it doesnt seem like your Nagging hey? But I can assure you even if he makes a will the down feeling that he wont Marry you doesnt go away,what you should do is prepare yourself with a life with him thats not including Marriage,if you cant do that,prepare for a new start xx
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