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anonymous
writes:i started good mates with this lad about 3 years ago and i really liked him but he was giving me mixed signals, we drifted apart but now he's back and tried it on with me a couple of weeks back an ive started feeling back how i used 2, im best mates with his sister and she wants me 2 be with him, her and her boyfriend are good mates with him and both says that he likes me but now he's gone and got a new girlfriend im so confused !!!!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, sleepyhollow  +, writes (7 May 2007):
You had your chance and he's moved on. Don't interfere with his new relationship.
Your job now is to move on too. Don't dwell on him.
But I will tell you this. He probably still likes you, and that your health and happiness are important to him. However, if he were the type to dump his new girlfriend and "come hither" to your beck and call, do you really want him back?
One of the most attractive traits I find in a woman is her ability to commit to a course of action, a relationship, etc. I find that I'll love a woman more if she is not only capable of but also adamant about commitment; even if this means that she can never be mine because she's already committed to someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2007): if "tried it on with" you means he attemtped to date you, are you kidding? no one likes rejection. if you liked him, you would have swooped him up when he presented it to you. i respect him for not sitting around and doting on you. i think you still have a chance but you have to move more quickly next time.
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